Girls that text message a lot

[Mr.Fantastic]

I met this girl recently and we have been out once, but she texts me every day...saying stuff like 'im in lectures, its boring, what you upto?' stuff like that. Now, i'm not always up to much, im just wondering what you guys do about texting like this..I mean I guess its gotta be good right, sign of high interest? should I be seeing her quite often in this situation? What witty things do you put in a message when you havnt done much? Should I be a challenge and ignore some messages?

Thanks

 

[md3sign]

If you get a lot of messages yes her interest is high. I've had a girl do that to me repeatedly for a while in the past. I would ignore some, maybe reply to 1 out of every 5 or so, and not right away.

Honestly it's all BS anyway and you can reply to whatever you want whenever you want. If she likes you and you're not a total AFC, have at it.

I talked to a girl last night on AIM for like 1.5 hours, which I normally wouldn't do, but the iron was hot and the convo was smooth sailing and now she won't leave me alone Games only go so far....

 

[Cod3r]

I met this girl recently and we have been out once, but she texts me every day...saying stuff like 'im in lectures, its boring, what you upto?

FRIEND. End of story.


-Cod3r

 

[Mr.Fantastic]

cod3r, you say friend...that can't be the end of the story! I will increase kino and do the kiss test....

 

[Teflon_Mcgee]

FRIEND. End of story.


-Cod3r

No.

Almost every girl I go out with including my LTR always text me constantly.
They just want attention in a convienient form.

No interest, no text.

 

[Cod3r]

No.

Almost every girl I go out with including my LTR always text me constantly.
They just want attention in a convienient form.

No interest, no text.

You've got a lot of friends then :crackup:

No disrespect, but females text females and guy friends with things like "bored in lecture".

A female that is constantly texting you "my pvssy is so itchy, will you scratch" or "i'm going to give you a BJ when i get home" or "your place or my place" then its a different story...


-Cod3r

 

[Mr.Fantastic]

...thing about it is, ive only been out with her once...dont you think its a little early for 'my ***** is so itchy'...?

 

[Teflon_Mcgee]

You've got a lot of friends then :crackup:

No disrespect, but females text females and guy friends with things like "bored in lecture".

A female that is constantly texting you "my pvssy is so itchy, will you scratch" or "i'm going to give you a BJ when i get home" or "your place or my place" then its a different story...


-Cod3r

Well then, with friends like these, who needs girfriends?

 

[Cod3r]

^ ^ Can't argue with that

...thing about it is, ive only been out with her once...dont you think its a little early for 'my ***** is so itchy'...?

lol


-Cod3r

 

[Oxide]

Cod3r I see what you are trying to say but you are mistaken in this situation.

Girls(especially young college girls) text sh1t like this because they are not vapid enough yet to write the explicit stuff. Or they are not the right (naughty) type of girl.

Trust me on this, i Have too much experience with girls who have unlimited text message plans.

 

[mrRuckus]

FRIEND. End of story.

Not a prophet. Period.

Girls(especially young college girls) text sh1t like this because they are not vapid enough yet to write the explicit stuff.

You have the meaning of vapid backwards. fyi

 

[Cod3r]

Not a prophet. Period.

My Opinion.

Cod3r I see what you are trying to say but you are mistaken in this situation.

Girls(especially young college girls) text sh1t like this because they are not vapid enough yet to write the explicit stuff. Or they are not the right (naughty) type of girl.

Trust me on this, i Have too much experience with girls who have unlimited text message plans.

We can all share our opinions, but in my experience females text other females this type of stuff. I've never had a female I was fvcking text me with anything close to the like of, "i'm bored, wat ru doing ?".

For 1. she would know she isn't getting a response and 2. she has guys like Mr. Fantastic and Teflon Mcgee for such shenanigans lol


-Cod3r

 

[DJinTraining06]

I have this girl constantly texting me all day long right now. We met on match.com. For 2 weeks before we even met she was already texting 5-10 times throuhgout the day and calling at night. Sayin i was a cutie and all that kinda stuff.

We met, we made out in my car that night for 10 mins. She said call me tomorow we should hang out in ur neighborhood. So next day i call and she sounds all disinterested. Like "oh im gonna take a nap ill call ya in an hr." 4 hrs go buy and its 7pm and she still never called. So i call her and shes like "oh i think im gonna stay in tonite im really tired" and its a sat night, so i wanst buying it. So here i assume she just isnt interested after our date.

But she is constantly texting me now again and callin every night, and being flirty and sayin how im cute and im so funny, and the best bla bla bla.

She said she got out of 6 yr relationship in sept. and shes afraid to date cuz she has to be ok with herself first and crap, and she apoligized to me for d*cking me around for 2 weeks, cuz she keeps cancellin our plans over and over. So i accpeted her apology and she said shes not ready to date anyone right now, and shes cancelling her match.com. yet she continues to text and call and be flirty.

Is she interested and just afraid to get serious? or just plan old un-interested. I mean she seems to have a ton of friends, i cant imagine that shes this desperate for a friend that shed go on match.com and make a friend outta me. I mean she calls me at 11-12 at night and soemtimes we talk for over an hr. W've talked at 2 am for an hr a couple times. It seems she is really interested, i dont get it.

 

[Cod3r]

FRIEND. End of story.

You're her talk buddy...

It has its perks tho... gives ya something to do at 2 00am instead of beating off to porn eh ?




-Cod3r

 

[DJinTraining06]

You're her talk buddy...

It has its perks tho... gives ya something to do at 2 00am instead of beating off to porn eh ?




-Cod3r

Well i dunno cuz i told her i was talkin to 2 other girls on match, and she keeps asking about them. shes like "have u talked to monica" "how bout kelly"
She's so interested all the time. She did tell me she just wanted to be friends cuz she thought she was ready to date and she isnt yet, cuz she cant trust people, her ex cheater on in sept, she caught him in bed with the girl. She said she told her firend about me and her friend said "see now that u guys became friends, u prob liek him right"

I dont know why she told me that her friend said that, seemed like a hint to me. I think shes being honest about, how she thought she was ready to dat and isnt. Cuz she seems so consumed with me. She checks my myspace constantly and asks me about people on my 24 (girsl) as if shes worried i may be dating someone else.

I dunno she could just be a fruitcake.

 

[Cod3r]

Wat u should learn to do...

With a female you're trying to fvck, when she goes into explaining why she won't fvck you, turn off your light bulb and tell her 'good day'. The reasons don't matter, plain and simply you won't be fvcking her so y contemplate...?


-Cod3r

 

[ER!C L!VE]

I've been there, done that. It's my experience that if you're not banging her, you're her chat buddy. I had one 18yo bang me a couple of times and want to keep texting back and fourth for weeks on end w/out banging me again. Flaking every time we'd set something up. I eventually stopped returning her texts. I wasn't getting sex, so she wasn't gonna get any text messages. :cheer:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=59742&highlight=equal

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

...thing about it is, ive only been out with her once...dont you think its a little early for 'my ***** is so itchy'...?

Call her and say "We'll get together after school and have some fun." Make your decision by how she reacts. Oh yeah, only say that if you actually know of something fun to do. No need to tell her what, but it shouldn't be just hanging around asking one another "So, whaddaya wanna do?"

 

[Badmannaz]

i got some bVLLsh!t like that now so does my friend...he's got a hot ass chick too... w/e i.d.g.a.f im still gonna hit that ***** across the head with my pen!s
it doesn'e matter as long as the end result of the conversation ends with your "little friend" in her mouth...i mean since she didn't wanna talk to you then i guess you could put her mouth to some use!

yea it sounds vulgar...but don't knock it until you try it!!! ;-)

 

[Macca]

If she's txting you a lot, i'd say she is interested.