Girls that gain weight and are now into you.

[pjbrown]

Anyone ever date a girl that dumped you after a few dates but years later reappear and want you back..but shes gained weight??
Example..Years ago..i dated this girl..3 dates..sex was great..but she dumps me for another guy..i move on,,forget her..date other women..now a few months back..we hook up and are in a relationship..BUT,,shes gained some weight..

Personally,,im cautious...and im thinking that she is out of options..

Thoughts??

 

[way2smart]

Yes, she is desperate and out of GOOD options. She can still get pudgy guys though.

 

[sylvester the cat]

It's not the weight i'd be worried about but that you weren't her first option.

 

[expos]

Anyone ever date a girl that dumped you after a few dates but years later reappear and want you back..but shes gained weight??
Example..Years ago..i dated this girl..3 dates..sex was great..but she dumps me for another guy..i move on,,forget her..date other women..now a few months back..we hook up and are in a relationship..BUT,,shes gained some weight..

Personally,,im cautious...and im thinking that she is out of options..

Thoughts??

Her being fat is not the real issue her. It's why she's with you again that is the real issue.

You are damn right she's out of options. You were a safe bet because she knew you were going to give her a free pass and another chance. Since she dumped you for another dude, she's eventually going to do this to you again when she finds another guy.

Just my two cents, but you should have not gotten into another "relationship" with this woman. No guy here will side with you on taking an ex back. The DJ mentality is "one and done", and you should always have options or the confidence to go solo without a woman if she's not making you happy. Better always to single and loving life than to be attached to a woman who makes you miserable just because you are desperate.

So, what you will do from here on out is bang this woman only (wear a rubber), start emotionally detaching from her, and continue to seek higher quality (non-fat) women who won't dump you for the next exciting thing that comes her way.

Odds are, she's already looking for a new partner - and you should too!

 

[BrainDamage92]

once a ho, always a ho

**** her, **** her in the ass then *** in her mouth. Then tell her she is too fat to be with you.

*****ES AINT **** BUT HOES AND TRICKS REMEMBER ALWAYS REMEMBER THIS

 

[Dust 2 Dust]

It happened to me once. She left me and went back to her ex-boyfriend. 5 years later she showed up at my job after packing on 50 pounds. I wasn't interested.

 

[foreverAFC]

there was this attractive girl at my work who used to ignore me when i would try to occasionally say hello, now that she is pregnant and fat she is all smiles whenever she sees me

 

[Moy_1974]

Back in the late 1990s when I was a 140lb weakling (I'm 5ft 8 and I'm 170lbs at 14% body fat now - currently on a bulk phase) there was a barmaid in the pub that me and my friends frequented.
Tall, slim, gorgeous long legs, cat-like green eyes and beautiful firm boobs. She knew that I was attracted to her but 'only saw me a a friend' whilst going ga-ga for my male model lookalike friend.

Fast forward several years and SHE now finds me attractive (the only woman in real life to do so in the past two years)

One problem, well several problems actually. She's now about 250lbs, 3 kids by 2 dads, covered in tattoos and smokes like a chimney. Sorry, lady - just a friend! How very predictable.

It's like they actually think that men sit there, waiting for them to hit the wall and rescue them from their plummeting SMV! I see it as an insult, it's like the way that only overweight and/or obese fuggos would show any interest on POF....they're not showing interest because they find you attractive, they're showing interest because they believe you to be as UNATTRACTIVE as they are and should therefore fulfil your place in the food chain and date them now they've 'reduced themselves to your level.'

Errrmmm.........no.