Girls That Drink Alot Of Alcohol

[EyeBRollin]

…are recreational use only.

Girls that drink more than a single glass of wine at social outings are not LTR material. Ideally, you want your woman to say “I don’t really like alcohol much.”

 

[Ricky]

Why is it that women are drinking so much nowadays? Are women in the UK concerned about fitness

Sometimes i wonder how many women really worry about fitness at all anymore. Definitely the ones I am involved with do..
But i think maybe so many of them realize they don't necessarily have to be fit to get male attention so they just dont put in the effort.

Are there more male gym rats than female? In particular once you combine all modalities of fitness? I'd have to guess yes.

 

[CornbreadFed]

…are recreational use only.

Girls that drink more than a single glass of wine at social outings are not LTR material. Ideally, you want your woman to say “I don’t really like alcohol much.”

That sounds like a child lol

 

[Gamisch]

Ironically I've hardly ever met a woman that drank more than I did . Mind you, a man can consume twice or more the amount of alcohol a woman needs to get waisted. So two glasses of wine might hit her like you'd feel after a complete bottle of wine.

Lately I do however start to feel more for women that smoke. Met a lot of women that are always plain sober, but a little taste of some Bob Marley grass might make them less of a "Furyatka " (Polish for crazy woman).

 

[EyeBRollin]

That sounds like a child lol

Women are child-like, no?

 

[xavier_2000]

How much of a red flag is this for you?

I mean if once in a while my girl was to have some drinks, I wouldn't have an issue with it, but a regular drinker, who drinks to get totally drunk, I don't think I could LTR a chick like that.

I wouldn't want a woman raising my kids who's life rotates around alcohol.

Is this an issue for you guys too?

Yup. IF she drinks and doesn't follow your lifestyle choices. She's not yours. NEXT.

If a girl doesn't just wanna cuddle with you watching 90 Day Fiancé on the couch for her Friday and Saturday night, she's for the streets lol

 

[xavier_2000]

Yup. IF she drinks and doesn't follow your lifestyle choices. She's not yours. NEXT.

If a girl doesn't just wanna cuddle with you watching 90 Day Fiancé on the couch for her Friday and Saturday night, she's for the streets lol

And none of this whole

But Xavier, she's just like that, it's her nature.

Dude I had a girl who was a hard core feminists studying gender fluid studies turn into a conservative submissive hoe.

I used to know a chick, she curved me. Then came back to me, and told me how she hooked up with this ultra conservative dude who opened up her eyes, lol hoe was literally blue hair liberal.

So yeah. If she doesn't follow your lead, thats all you need to know.

My ex. When she was with me never drank alcohol or smoked. Well after me she started to smoke. LOL. Cause I was heavy against it. Never drank.

 

[CornbreadFed]

Women are child-like, no?

Ummm no lol, but based of your post you are filtering in only child-like women.

 

[EyeBRollin]

Ummm no lol, but based of your post you are filtering in only child-like women.

Women lack accountability and they seek protection and provisioning from a person other than themself. How is that not child-like?

 

[CornbreadFed]

Women lack accountability and they seek protection and provisioning from a person other than themself. How is that not child-like?

I don't disagree with your statement, but your post strongly tells me that you overwhelmingly go for child-like women in general. You have trapped yourself up in your own preference bias. I don't think it's an coincidence that we have two different requirements and two different experiences from our women. I have a strict criterion requiring that the woman drinks and knows how to handle her alcohol.

 

[EyeBRollin]

I don't disagree with your statement, but your post strongly tells me that you overwhelmingly go for child-like women in general.

How did you draw that conclusion from my saying women that are wifey material don’t like to drink?

 

[IKO69]

Like drugs would be an instant deal breaker for me. I've ended things with someone in the past over this same issue. She was good looking and everything but an absolute nightmare to deal with. She'll tell you everything is fine and she has her drinking "under control" but once the quarreling starts you will want her out of your life immediately. The inability to have self control just speaks poorly of the person (in my opinion). I'm not speaking of a glass of wine or margarita on a date night or something here, that's fine.

I'm not much of a drinker myself- maybe my attitude would be different if I was.

 

[CornbreadFed]

How did you draw that conclusion from my saying women that are wifey material don’t like to drink?

Given that alcohol is an adult beverage that has consequences if mishandled, someone that is able to properly handle it has a proven case of maturity.

The only people that abstain from it usually are disciplined through either religion, focusing on other things, or learned and accepted that their genetics cannot properly handle it. Now I do not see you as a religious person and you didn't mention the last two exceptions, so I concluded that you are going after either young girls or extremely sheltered girls.

 

[soulforge]

I don't disagree with your statement, but your post strongly tells me that you overwhelmingly go for child-like women in general. You have trapped yourself up in your own preference bias. I don't think it's an coincidence that we have two different requirements and two different experiences from our women. I have a strict criterion requiring that the woman drinks and knows how to handle her alcohol.

It's not that men go for child-like woman, MOST woman are inherently Child-Like

 

[CornbreadFed]

It's not that men go for child-like woman, MOST woman are inherently Child-Like

Applying 95/5 rule for LTRs, this makes sense. However. @EyeBRollin was not doing himself any favors.

 

[EyeBRollin]

so I concluded that you are going after either young girls or extremely sheltered girls.

Is being a young and/or sheltered woman good or bad for an LTR?

 

[Millard Fillmore]

So yeah. If she doesn't follow your lead, thats all you need to know.

Bros here will convince themselves of literally everything else to avoid this conclusion. And they say women rationalize. Just get over it fellas. Work on that inner game.

 

[Millard Fillmore]

How much of a red flag is this for you?

I mean if once in a while my girl was to have some drinks, I wouldn't have an issue with it, but a regular drinker, who drinks to get totally drunk, I don't think I could LTR a chick like that.

I wouldn't want a woman raising my kids who's life rotates around alcohol.

Is this an issue for you guys too?

Same as if she eats too much, exercises too much, sits around too much, etc. Moderation in everything - including moderation.

 

[CornbreadFed]

Is being a young and/or sheltered woman good or bad for an LTR?

I would ultimately say they are a risk because they have not been giving the chances of proving themselves yet judging that you are 34. You don't know how this girl is going to react to stress. You don't know how this girl is going to react to alcohol lol. If you were under 24 then I would say go for it.

 

[ThisIsSparta]

Had a 1st date with that 23 y.o. chick from OLD...... she drank 1/2 litre of whine while i had 1/8th, water and a coffee (have been driving).
I thought okay, maybe she was just nervous and overdid it by accident.

Had a 2nd date with that chick, she allmost drank a 1 litre on that date over a couple of hours (went for lunch) and started to get loud, using heavy words about colleagues, how she once slammed an ashtray into a guys mouth and stuff to a lvl that made me feel awkward.

I knew this was a red flag before i even knew about "red flags".

The strangest thing was, she had like NO self reflection. She kept telling me that she liked older guys (i was 35 and she had a LTR with a 45y.o. before) because they are more mature, more cultivated and dont use foul language etc.

She was DTF, but i knew this one was going to be trouble and didnt engage.