Girls: Silly and Cute

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This guy, Chase, has slept with 20,000 women. His website has a lot of articles to teach laymen how to do it. Here is an article where he says "treat girls as silly and cute"


He says:

"What it really comes down to, though, is being able to smile at girls’ antics and think to yourself, “Girls are so silly and cute.” Because, heck – they are! Girls do the silliest, cutest things – they dress up trying to look cute and sexy, in silly little outfits; they’re kind of clumsy, and drop things or run into things or break their heels; they scream and yell and make a lot of noise and dance and generally act like little kids trapped in grown people’s bodies. Girls are silly and cute.

You’re also better prepared to shrug off minor indiscretions.
If a girl makes a mistake, or says or does something mildly offensive, it doesn’t bother you and you chalk it up to her just being a silly girl. When she tries to apologize, you dismiss it, because you know she was just being a girl and it doesn’t really matter.

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My thoughts:
OK, Chase, I see your point, treat girls as "silly and cute". But what if you are going to court with said girl, and she is about to testify to take half your money and destroy your life? Would the judge, and court, and society, treat her words as "silly and cute", or would they be on the record giving value to every word she said?"

Or maybe Chase, its treat her as "Silly and Cute" on Monday, Wednesday, Friday, and "serious" on Tuesday, Thursday? I don't know, you are the Player.

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chase has probably slept with about 6 girls. All average. Don't listen to him

He's one of hundreds of fake PUA's making a living from pretending to have some 'skill' whereby he can brainwash any girl into sleeping with him. Something that doesn't actually exist. He doesn't even have infields! Massive red flag for a PUA making a living from claiming to bang whoever he wants lol.

Just a glance at him tells me all i'd need to know. He'd get rejected by 99% of the girls i'd want to bang. Just like any other guy would (not counting mega handsome dudes and celebs etc)
 
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chase has probably slept with about 6 girls. All average. Don't listen to him
:D :D :D :D Oh man, I really laughed out loud at this one. 100% rings true and the number is probably lower.

Later I was sitting at another bar in the same nightclub, on the upstairs level. There were two girls sitting a few seats down from me, making out with each other for a picture. I smiled and thought about how silly and cute they were.
Two women making out in a nightclub for a photo is not an example of being silly and cute, that's slutty behavior. This quote alone speaks volumes on his level of understanding and discernment.
 

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Chase Amante has been around a long time. There's no way that he has had sex with 20,000 women and it is also unlikely that he has had sex with 6 average looking women. His results are somewhere in between those 2 numbers.

He did talk about abundance mentality in the article, which is good. Too many men don't have abundance mentality.

It's good not to take women's behavior too seriously.

I also get the point @BadBoy89 is making about thinking women are silly and cute when you're in divorce court.

Maybe the broader point is to live your own life and not get married. Have LTRs and flings.
 

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20 000 haha,
and you believe this bs.
Wow
it would be so funny to watch some of these guys go out for a night with these PUA's who they think have some mystical seduction ability (because of what they'd been lead to believe with their articles etc) and then watch their worlds crash as they see them hero's getting rejected time and time again with the actual hot young girls. Chase would have a BRUTAL time trying to bang hot 18 year olds where I live from cold approach. Non stop rejection. He'd basically be invisible to most of them. And don't even get me started on roosh and a few others! haha
 

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Chase would have a BRUTAL time trying to bang hot 18 year olds where I live from cold approach. Non stop rejection. He'd basically be invisible to most of them.

Chase Amante is now 40 years old. That bio that indicates he was 11 years old in 1994. A 40 year old man with Chase's looks is not attracting an 18 year old in 2023.

Could a 40 year Chase today attract a 25-35 year old with his combination of looks, money, status, and persona/charisma? Yes, that is possible. He would have to score strongly on the persona/charisma element and the 25-35 year old is likely under an 8. He's not particularly good looking. We don't know his income/net worth.
 
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You’re also better prepared to shrug off minor indiscretions. If a girl makes a mistake, or says or does something mildly offensive, it doesn’t bother you and you chalk it up to her just being a silly girl. When she tries to apologize, you dismiss it, because you know she was just being a girl and it doesn’t really matter.
The person who says this is into being a Daddy for all the wrong reasons, the main one being misogynism.
 

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Well, I do agree, girls are silly and cute. Except when they're not, as @BadBoy89 points out. I suppose this is somehow related to the advice to treat girls like your bratty little sister (although I'm not sure that works for me, since I don't have a little sister). In any case, I do have an appreciation for women. If you're going to desire women for whatever reason, it helps to like them. I don't have the resentment and hatred for them that a lot of guys here do. I think women are beautiful, charming, and nurturing - except when they're not.
 

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Chase Amante is now 40 years old.
according to chase, that doesn't matter. He said he'd be banging hot 18 year olds when he's 90 due to his 'game' (the lines and techniques he teaches to brainwash girls into attraction)

Can you really not see that he's just a PUA shill/fantasist? He is just a writer. Capitalising on an unregulated industry where you can make money by pretending to be an expert in something and charging money

A 40 year old man with Chase's looks is not attracting an 18 year old in 2023.
correct! but don't tell chase that. He'd strongly disagree adn tell you you need to buy his course on verbals and learn the right lines for the girls 'objections' :) What you have there, young man, would be a 'limiting belief'! :) (as per chase)

Could a 40 year Chase today attract a 25-35 year old with his combination of looks, money, status, and persona/charisma? Yes, that possible
yes. Possible. Same as for most 40 year old men on this forum. But they'd need to run the numbers game and accept that they're gonna get rejected a hell of a lot of the time. (with of course the even younger ones instantly dismissing him as an option based on looks and age). But again, chase doesn't believe in that. He'd say he'd have like a 95% chance of cold approach banging any girl due to his 'game' (teachable)

this should all be so obvious nowadays tbh. He's a charlatan. They all are, basically
 

You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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@characternote -- You and I are in basic agreement on Chase.

He said he'd be banging hot 18 year olds when he's 90 due to his 'game' (the lines and techniques he teaches to brainwash girls into attraction)

Can you really not see that he's just a PUA shill/fantasist?
He's not getting an 18 year old at 40 and not at 90 on his personality/charisma alone. Perhaps with sugar daddy game on a platform like Seeking, but that's about it.

most 40 year old men....they'd need to run the numbers game and accept that they're gonna get rejected a hell of a lot of the time. (with of course the even younger ones instantly dismissing him as an option based on looks and age). But again, chase doesn't believe in that. He'd say he'd have like a 95% chance of cold approach banging any girl due to his 'game' (teachable)
Most 40 years old men are going to take a lot of rejections going for 25-35 year old women. They might take more no's and give up before they can find that yes. It does depend on their individual combination of looks, money, status, and personality/charisma. Getting a 5+ year age gap is impressive. The bigger the age gap, the more quality/value it takes to get it.

The realistic romantic partner for a 40 year old man is a 36-40 year old woman.
 

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This guy, Chase, has slept with 20,000 women. His website has a lot of articles to teach laymen how to do it. Here is an article where he says "treat girls as silly and cute"
20,000 women? What an amateur. That's only like four per day. I've slept with over 200,000 women and I'm not even going around bragging about it.
 

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20,000 women? What an amateur. That's only like four per day. I've slept with over 200,000 women and I'm not even going around bragging about it.
I think maybe he means he had intercourse 20,000 times, but even then... I've been sexually active for 42 years and I would have to have intercourse 476 times per year in order to get to that amount of intercourse.
 
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I think maybe he means he had intercourse 20,000 times, but even then... I've been sexually active for 42 years and I would have to have intercourse 476 times per year in order to get to that amount of intercourse.
Never mind, misread your post.
 

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Chase Amante has been around a long time. There's no way that he has had sex with 20,000 women and it is also unlikely that he has had sex with 6 average looking women. His results are somewhere in between those 2 numbers.

He did talk about abundance mentality in the article, which is good. Too many men don't have abundance mentality.

It's good not to take women's behavior too seriously.

I also get the point @BadBoy89 is making about thinking women are silly and cute when you're in divorce court.

Maybe the broader point is to live your own life and not get married. Have LTRs and flings.
I'd say this Chase fellow has been with 20 women. He just added a couple zeros
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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