Talking about rebound, I see some potential in this girl at Uni, who is giving me all the signs. She even gave me her number without me asking for it.
Now she was feeling quite bad one week, so I asked her what was wrong (not in an emotional tampon way), and she was reluctant at first, but without me pushing it further, she told me that she just broke up with her bf. I played it off and changed the subject and made her laugh and feel better,
e.g.
HB: "How could you tell something was wrong? I thought I hid it very well"
(*haha as if women can hide/control their emotions at all*)
Me: "Im just special" (droped this in a few time in the convo - aka subliminal messages)
HB: "No, really how could you tell?"
Me: (in a C+F way) "Well, you're not 'all there' at the best of times, but today it really shows"
*HB wont stop laughing*
But this thought crossed my mind;
Was she just saying that this was her problem to indirectly tell me she was available or is it true? (No, this isnt the question, just stating the major possibilities).
Now, I will go ahead and make some moves regardless, but I dont really want to if Im just the rebound guy, (for reasons of my own).
1) On average, how long before a girl gets over the rebound state of mind and she shows her true feelings for you?
2) Are there any general tell-tale signs that I can look out for to make an educated guess if she actually is on the rebound? i.e. things said, done etc.
In answering these questions, I think you wont only be helping me, but giving helpful advice to all DJ's and DJ's in the making on this topic.
