girls on the Bug go giggle giggle giggle

[Cheiradawg]

Thanksgiving break ended today and I headed back to school. Droped my car off and hopped on the bus headed back to the dorm. HB6, HB7, and HB8 got on the same bus and set down close to me. The seating was arranged so that they and I were sitting in a circle. I made eye contact with HB6 then HB8. After a minute I had noticed that they all fluffed their hair in unison so I said "Have you girls noticed that you have fluffed your hair in unison four times in the last couple of minutes." They looked at each other, giggled, and then looked back at me. And that was it they didn't say ****else. Then I said "just thought that was interesting." Then that was it they turned away.

That was a damn good conversation starter and I ****ing looked good enuf so oh well.

 

[Cheiradawg]

burp

 

[j_kat_251]

Good start

Have you girls noticed that you have fluffed your hair in unison four times in the last couple of minutes."

OK dude, this is an ok start... it points out a strange behaviour of a girl that she is certainly aware of and that most guys wouldn't comment on. So you are sort of set apart from the common nerdling. But the phrasing leaves a bit to be desired. You have heard of the ****y + funny principle, the best way I can think of to incorporate this off the top of my head is this:

"Ok girls, I know you feel the need to impress me but re-arranging your hair every three seconds makes you look sooo lame... you think you've got this sophisticated Cindy Crawford hair toss going on but it looks like you're trying to get a bat out of there or something hahaha"

Said with a ****y grin on your face... but you really need the right attitude for this - an attitude that you making hilariously funny comments is a major part of your everyday life. Not like all of a sudden you decide to leer at some chick on the bus and try and impress her. You want to say what you say to amuse yourself... it's kind of like voicing the thoughts that go on in your head... not to impress a girl by showing you are funny. Get what I mean?

 

[Don Rageta]

first off don't listen to j-kat-251

he's as lost as you. what he said wasn't ****y or funny.

cheiradawg what you started off with is not really a conversation starter. and following it up with 'just thought that was interesting' made you seem insecure and easily shaken by their giggling silence. Starting conversation on a bus is easy if the girl isn't a Beeyotch. mention your day/week/classes anything. thanksgiving break is over and all you have interesting to say to three chicks is 'you all played with your hair...'

"duh... when i open my mowff noises cumm out and those funny sounds mean things. eehr eehr"

if it isn't something you can see yourself not being bored by hearing a girl say it to you, then go ahead and say it. not just to break the silence. ****y and funny is only one way to go. enough with the be yourself or be C/F or what not and just stop being boring.

You can never go wrong with "how was your day"

ps. read the bible. Read The Bible. READ THE BIBLE.

 

[j_kat_251]

Yeah ok, listen to Don Fageta. He's the man. Say "So, how was your day?". This is sure to both communicate your originality and creativity, not to mention sense of humour and fun. You should then proceed to discuss extremely exciting things like what you study at school, or how you went to the supermarket and bought some milk. Be sure to ask her a lot of questions about other thrilling things too - like seeing as how Thanksgiving is over, ask her if she enjoys the taste of turkey. You will be the hit of the party. Be sure to ask "can I have your number?" to show you're completely different to all the other guys out there. Go team, USA USA USA we're number 1.

p.s. I need to unnecessarily use post script on a "letter" that I can edit to include information at the touch of a button. I'm clever.

 

[Befuddled]

ummmm... yeahhhhh.....
1. good on you for actually saying something.
2. i think youd have been better off saying nothing.
3. what you said..... was well....erie. mentioning their movements !?? i dont think that would have been the least bit impressive.... in fact when i read it, it seemed almost stalkish.
4. your comback to the giggling wasnt great either.
5. make eye contact, yes. thats good. but you need to start a 'reasonable conversation', not something that indirectly says..'im watching(staring) the 3 of you very closely.'. Something to break the ice would have been better....which could potentially lead to a conversation. Thats just what i'd do though.

Cheers.

 

[Cheiradawg]

After thinking about it, it seems these girls were fvcked up somehow. WTF, I said something and they just giggled.

That isn't a responce to human conversation.

Sence the comment was directed at all three of them, it seems like each one was waiting for another to take the lead but one never did.

The "just thought that was interesting comment" was said in an mocking way... it was as if they weren't able to comment on something and I was saying that they were dumb or stuck up.

ah well