Girls on lines at stores

[LucidDreamer]

So i'm at Baja Fresh, I place my order and walk around the partition to pick it up and there's this HB 8 waiting too...she gives me a double take -- I smile, she smiles -- and I take a seat next to her as she stands...perfect distance for talking but I DID NOTHING AS USUAL!!

I felt that if I had some way to enter a conversation w/ her that i coulda walked away w/ her name & number. any advice on girls waiting on line at a store or anywhere?

 

[jakeyboy]

me: -flashes grin- hi

her: hi...

me: damn, i'm so hungry i could eat a bear

her: -giggle- the bear would eat you first

me: no it wouldnt

her: yes it would

me: ok, lets stop arguing. you give me your number and i'll forgive you for insulting me.

her: -laughs- fine... (keys number into my phone)


this was just one instance. but i dont think it works on all girls. this particular one was just funlovin and friendly

other girls i've tried to start a conversation with i just started it like this

me: you look tired.. long day huh.

her: yep. sure has been, boss been rough on me (crucial statement, you get the convo topic from what she says)

me: damn. he must be mean

(spends a while talking bout bosses then finally number close)

 

[Alpine]

Boy, people are really friendly in the States, over here I swear people would think you've escaped from somewhere if you ran that dialogue .

I've sorta tried it, they just give me a funny look or ignore me. I feel like falling down a hole in the ground.

It's fine to think, I'm The prize I'm the prize, but what's the point if you get this type of reaction all the time? Prize prick more like.

 

[LucidDreamer]

Thanks jakeyboy...i like the second approach a lot, simple & quick "you look tired, long day eh?"...you can use that anywhere and i think i will next time i get the opp.

 

[RedKnight04]

Say Hi!! Quit trying to think so much. Their is no canned line to say. Now I take it this "Baja Fresh" was a restaurant. I would of seen if she sat down alone then just walk up their with my tray and say, "Is this seat taken?"

This is normal, people do this everyday. They meet other people.

Trust me, act on this matter like you have no other choice but to say hello. I go by this philoshopy (did I spell that right?) - Don't think, just act. Not "Wheres her boyfriend?", "What should I say after hello?" , "She won't like me."

No, be a man that acts on his instincts and knows what he wants. Look at her, make eye contact and then you have 3 seconds to go over there and just say hello, learn how to just grab your balls and do it. Then you'll start realizing if you do that, the rest seems to come naturally.

REMEMBER THIS!!! SEXUALLY ACTIVE MEN DON'T THINK - THEY JUST ACT!!

She'll catch on to that more than anything. I bet you that same girl has had a total of 3 or 4 guys out of 40 that had that much confidence to act on their instincts because they know what they wanted and went straight for it.

 

[LucidDreamer]

Redknight04-
Yeah i'm dying to find my balls somewhere under a rock and use the 3s rule. I USED to be like that. i dunno what happened, never had a problem until i hit 25/26. I won't give up though...it's about more than just tagging ass, it's about self sufficiency and being comfortable in your own skin among other things.

 

[RedKnight04]

.it's about more than just tagging ass, it's about self sufficiency and being comfortable in your own skin among other things.

I think deep down that's what it's about for all of us. You just have to remember if you want to approach a girl your body is telling you something. I once went out with this guy I met in college who loved picking up ladies so I figured why the hell not see what this guy does.

Anyways, we went to Riverfront which is basically clubs across downtown main roads. So when we parked we had to do some serious walking. Now their is always girls just hanging out on our walk up to the clubs and this guy would literally not even ask or tell me he was about to go to a girl. He would automatically just do it. I thought this would be rude if I did it to him. Then I thought for a second, this guy saw something he wanted and didn't care about rejection or whether I'd be fine standing there by myself. He just did it. I swear even I got attracted to that demeaner. So each time he returned he didn't always have a number, I saw probably 6 total attempts and he had about 2 numbers - And those times he didn't, I don't even think they were his fault!!

Just by seeing this guy do that I do it on a daily basis.

 

[shagnscoob]

Originally posted by RedKnight04
I think deep down that's what it's about for all of us. You just have to remember if you want to approach a girl your body is telling you something. I once went out with this guy I met in college who loved picking up ladies so I figured why the hell not see what this guy does.

Anyways, we went to Riverfront which is basically clubs across downtown main roads. So when we parked we had to do some serious walking. Now their is always girls just hanging out on our walk up to the clubs and this guy would literally not even ask or tell me he was about to go to a girl. He would automatically just do it. I thought this would be rude if I did it to him. Then I thought for a second, this guy saw something he wanted and didn't care about rejection or whether I'd be fine standing there by myself. He just did it. I swear even I got attracted to that demeaner. So each time he returned he didn't always have a number, I saw probably 6 total attempts and he had about 2 numbers - And those times he didn't, I don't even think they were his fault!!

Just by seeing this guy do that I do it on a daily basis.

ive heard so many stories like this,its rather inspirational, how some people will look up to you like that, becuase it seems like with balls like that you can do anything you want, your not afraid of anything, your fearless in front of your peers. that must be an awesome feeling -.-