Girls love their vacations

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Maybe I'm just biased cause I'm friends with a lot of instagram and facebook girls who constantly post their trips around the world. Maybe it's also cause men typically don't post much about their adventures, especially if they are going somewhere either with their family or with by themselves. Men also tend to go on trips for their own peace of mind and that usually means keeping far away from social media at all. Nonetheless the sheer amount of girls that constantly are somewhere else every other weekend is staggering and it only has gone up, not down. Even with the economy bust, women are still finding a way to go to places like London and Tokyo and New York, and all the fancy places for tourism.

This is a good lesson on why women are not good with money nor weathering the storm of troubled times. They act the complete opposite of what you are expected to do.
 

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Yes, they do. Everything you said is accurate.

Every other woman talks about travel on their swipe app profile too.

 

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If they can afford travel and you can't, it's not their problem.

However, social media lies, some people post travel pics for months and even years after a trip.
 

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Who are we kidding? Where does a 25 year old find money to traipse the prod quarterly? Someone else is paying for it - yup and who do you think took the pics of her on the Spanish Steps and Eiffel Tower? That’s right the guy footing the bill.
 

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It’s not just women—I have a single guy friend who travels CONSTANTLY and posts all his pics.

I don’t really get the whole travel addiction thing. I despise airports, crowds, etc.
I’m more of a homebody personally. Whatever floats your boat I guess.
 

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Who are we kidding? Where does a 25 year old find money to traipse the prod quarterly? Someone else is paying for it - yup and who do you think took the pics of her on the Spanish Steps and Eiffel Tower? That’s right the guy footing the bill.
In most cases, the guy footing the bill is the guy having sex with her and taking the pictures.

It is possible to have random strangers take pictures.

In a small number of cases, a younger woman might have traveled with her parents somewhere. Though parents are going to put a crimp in the style of an American 18-29 year old woman looking to have sex with men in some exotic, foreign location.

A girl posted this on Hinge the other day, had to laugh.
It's a bit of a cliché.
 

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They love fvcking new guys on vacation even when they are married or have boyfriends...it's like a free pass to be single again for a week.
 

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If they can afford travel and you can't, it's not their problem.

However, social media lies, some people post travel pics for months and even years after a trip.
I went on a big international vacation this spring and posted the pics in June lol.


Who are we kidding? Where does a 25 year old find money to traipse the prod quarterly? Someone else is paying for it - yup and who do you think took the pics of her on the Spanish Steps and Eiffel Tower? That’s right the guy footing the bill.
It’s not that hard and young people are able to sacrifice certain luxuries and comforts to travel. For example, I took a 3 layover flight to Japan and stayed at a hostel, or they split Airbnbs with friends.


They love fvcking new guys on vacation even when they are married or have boyfriends...it's like a free pass to be single again for a week.
Not every girl is a complete ***** or fresh and fit OF stripper going to Dubai to get peed on. Op explicitly mentioned Tokyo, what handsome hunks are white American women looking for in Tokyo? I have been to party destinations like Ibiza and PCB before crackdown and I can assure you that this over exaggerated by paranoid guys.
 

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They love fvcking new guys on vacation even when they are married or have boyfriends...it's like a free pass to be single again for a week.
Yes, this is true. This happens more often on recreational vacations than business trips. Plenty of women on business trips use the business trip as a opportunity to cheat on a boyfriend or husband. Business travel has been curtailed since the onset of the pandemic. It still hasn't recovered.

Video conferences are way better than business trips.

fresh and fit OF stripper going to Dubai to get peed on.
I laughed big time at this. I thought it was guys pooping on women in Dubai more so than peeing on women in Dubai.
 

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Consider the notion that most of these women aren’t even paying for these trips. My neighbor’s college aged daughter posted a bunch of photos on social media of her and her friends on a boat. What you don’t see? The parents. The parents that bought the boat, the trailer, two trucks to tow each, the food, the gas and whatever else that enabled her to enjoy the moment. That was Father’s Day weekend btw, not one photo of her dad which payed for EVERYTHING.

Remember this gender operates on “the feels”. Women like to spend money on frivolous items. Makeup, hand bags, jewelry, shoes, clothes, you name it. Travel is just another one on the list. There was a few post way back where women ”married themselves“ and spent a sh!t ton on money on a vacation instead of getting their lives in order. Just another female flex.
 

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Yes, this is true. This happens more often on recreational vacations than business trips. Plenty of women on business trips use the business trip as a opportunity to cheat on a boyfriend or husband. Business travel has been curtailed since the onset of the pandemic. It still hasn't recovered.

Video conferences are way better than business trips.
Ahhhh, I would be more concerned over a business trip than recreational trip. There is a lot of forced drinking/happy hours, boring and tedious during the day, and this where upper management try and play their power cards with women. For a recreational trip, one American women tend to value American Men the highest, and just a lot of things have to go perfectly for the perfect sexual encounter to happen. These tourist destinations are often overcrowded with tourists from other countries, not the Italian Romeo's hunting the premise for American sugar walls.
 

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I would be more concerned over a business trip than recreational trip. There is a lot of forced drinking/happy hours, boring and tedious during the day, and this where upper management try and play their power cards with women. For a recreational trip, one American women tend to value American Men the highest, and just a lot of things have to go perfectly for the perfect sexual encounter to happen. These tourist destinations are often overcrowded with tourists from other countries, not the Italian Romeo's hunting the premise for American sugar walls.
Both are concerning. If I am in a relationship with a woman, I would be more concerned over a woman taking a recreational/leisure trip alone, especially if she's not on birth control and the trip coincides with her ovulation.

This thread has been more about U.S. women taking international trips and not focused on U.S. women taking simple domestic trips. A lot of women in relationships will find a way to cheat on bachelorette party trips or random trips with female friends to locations like Nashville, Miami, Las Vegas, San Diego, New Orleans, or Phoenix/Scottsdale. It's much easier to do a 3 or 4 day weekend domestic female friends trips than some international jaunt.

Recreational trips have more freedom than business trips. Business trips are often scheduled with bullcrap work tasks.

A woman taking a recreational trip without her boyfriend/husband will arouse more suspicions in the boyfriend/husband than a business trip. Women on business trips have a legitimate reason to travel alone and a boyfriend/husband might be less suspicious of those. I have known men who have had sex with married women who were on business trips. If a married woman is in a subpar quality marriage and has a business trip and she's reasonably good looking and under 45, it won't be difficult for her to find a sex option.

There are unattached women taking both types of trips and using these trips to increase their notch counts.
 

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Maybe I'm just biased cause I'm friends with a lot of instagram and facebook girls who constantly post their trips around the world. Maybe it's also cause men typically don't post much about their adventures, especially if they are going somewhere either with their family or with by themselves. Men also tend to go on trips for their own peace of mind and that usually means keeping far away from social media at all. Nonetheless the sheer amount of girls that constantly are somewhere else every other weekend is staggering and it only has gone up, not down. Even with the economy bust, women are still finding a way to go to places like London and Tokyo and New York, and all the fancy places for tourism.

This is a good lesson on why women are not good with money nor weathering the storm of troubled times. They act the complete opposite of what you are expected to do.
It's also a lesson that women care a lot about social status (Way more than men), and not only compete with other women for men's resources but also compete with other women internally to create, turmoil, drama and envy in their girlfriend's social circle to display who is the top female is the top ranked one. They will do anything to display the image of how perfect their life is to their friends on the expense of men's resources which they extract from their men.
 

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Both are concerning. If I am in a relationship with a woman, I would be more concerned over a woman taking a recreational/leisure trip alone, especially if she's not on birth control and the trip coincides with her ovulation.
Why is she taking solo trips alone without you or her friends at the very least? If she is willing to do this then the relationship has problems outside this.

This thread has been more about U.S. women taking international trips and not focused on U.S. women taking simple domestic trips. A lot of women in relationships will find a way to cheat on bachelorette party trips or random trips with female friends to locations like Nashville, Miami, Las Vegas, San Diego, New Orleans, or Phoenix/Scottsdale. It's much easier to do a 3 or 4 day weekend domestic female friends trips than some international jaunt.
I do agree that these destinations pose a higher risk than international ones because of the atmosphere.

Recreational trips have more freedom than business trips. Business trips are often scheduled with bullcrap work tasks.
Yeah, but they always have happy hours/scheduled dinners/reserved bars every night. All it takes is some guy to force himself on your girl or for her to be paired with the Chad in a group meeting. I know plenty of guys that have been fired for doing this shvt, even when their wives were with them for the trip. Beta Male Management Brads get confident, and she can fvck the Chad in sales she secretly had the hots for in secret. Trust me, I have travelled domestically and internationally with plenty of women, and I regularly go on business trips for my job. A lot of infidelity occurs in this trip and I get offered sex by coworkers all of the time on these trips, but they aren't worth risking my job over. The business trips are 10 times more dangerous than a girl going to Spain, or Italy by herself or hot girl summer Miami trip.
 

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If a women doesnt have the funds to pay to travel they just charge it. The typical female has tons of credit card debt and a closet full of shoes and purses to show for it. So its likely they are either living beyond their means or banging whoever is actually paying for it when you see these kinds of posts.
 

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Why is she taking solo trips alone without you or her friends at the very least? If she is willing to do this then the relationship has problems outside this.
This hasn't happened in my relationships but it happens to plenty of men in relationships/marriages.

Recreational trips have more freedom than business trips. Business trips are often scheduled with bullcrap work tasks.
Yeah, but they always have happy hours/scheduled dinners/reserved bars every night. All it takes is some guy to force himself on your girl or for her to be paired with the Chad in a group meeting. I know plenty of guys that have been fired for doing this shvt, even when their wives were with them for the trip. Beta Male Management Brads get confident, and she can fvck the Chad in sales she secretly had the hots for in secret. Trust me, I have travelled domestically and internationally with plenty of women, and I regularly go on business trips for my job. A lot of infidelity occurs in this trip and I get offered sex by coworkers all of the time on these trips, but they aren't worth risking my job over. The business trips are 10 times more dangerous than a girl going to Spain, or Italy by herself or hot girl summer Miami trip.
All of my business trips have had dinners and sometimes happy hours with colleagues.

I haven't seen any of what you describe happen with colleagues on my business trips but I could see how it would happen. Remember that the rules of the office set by Human Resources still apply on business trips. Lots of men are afraid of getting sanctioned by the feminist HR rep.

Most office workers are beta males. There are not many 'Chads' in white collar jobs compared to the number of betas in white collar jobs.

The married/attached women I've known of who had affairs on business trips did it with men outside their company.

I wouldn't date a woman with a high travel job for a lot of reasons. I wouldn't even want the potential of the situations you describe.
 

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I haven't seen any of what you describe happen with colleagues on my business trips but I could see how it would happen. Remember that the rules of the office set by Human Resources still apply on business trips. Lots of men are afraid of getting sanctioned by the feminist HR rep
Smart men do not act on these. Beta Male Brad will risk his job and family to sniff office 7/10 utilizing the mermaid effect.

Most office workers are beta males. There are not many 'Chads' in white collar jobs compared to the number of betas in white collar jobs.
Depends on the industry. In sales and consulting, you will see a lot more Chads and Stacys than accounting for example.
 
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