Girls i sit with

[Comeback kid]

Im confused on something, and i do need urgent help to know im not setting myself up to fail (i don't have time for that). Well during lunchtime, ever since last week i began sitting at a table with all girls. Today was my second day. So obviously im interested in 1 girl who sits next to me. But today i didn't say anything, im afraid i gave off a shy vibe, she was doing some work and it seemed like she was in her own little world. Is sitting at the table with them everyday bad (as in too much). Is it too late to talk to her confidently after i gave off this shy vibe. I would just try to figure it out myself but the best advice i got from someone was to just tell her(who i barely know) that i like her and to pass notes back and forth on the table. yeah i really need some advice.

 

[dav22]

If anything she'd be more comfortable after seeing you regularly for the last week whether you spoke to her or not, if you showed too much interest from the get go it'd be far worse. As long as you make the effort to talk as soon as you should be good.

 

[2_intense2]

it seemed like she was in her own little world.

Honestly, if she looked like she was not paying attention to her surroundings chances are she was not paying attention to you. Secondly you say that you were giving off a SHY vibe, but the girl may interpret your shyness for something else ( unless your shyness was completly obvious, no eye contact ect.)

Is sitting at the table with them everyday bad (as in too much).

No, its a really good idea. Because she kind of knows you therefore she will be more willing to speak to you.

just a few questions:
-what do you mean you began sitting at the table with the girls (do you at least know one of the girls at the table, cause if you do you can totally use the girl that you know as a way to get to the girl that you like)

what do you do @ the table, just sit and eat? (or do you try to engage in whatever they are talking about?)

Honestly you should go for it, talk to her (what do you have to lose?)