girls giving compliments

[stubbornlights]

I don't think I've ran into a post about this before, and I'm probably being ridiculous. But I'd just like to know what your guys' experiences are with this, and how you deal with/understand it.

What do you guys think/do when cute, timid girls compliment you? (On hair, clothes, your intelligence, skateboarding skills. these are what have been said to me). She's an HB 9.5, and I haven't paid too much attention to her but I'm definitely going to start. She's been saying these sorts of things in a really shy, awkard tone, and while with groups of her friends (all HB 8.5+). When I see her around with large groups of friends, both guys and girls, she takes time to wave at me interupting her conversation with the group. I'll be alone when this happens, passing by. Is it safe to say she's interested, or is this friend behavior? I'm not used to girls offering up so many compliments, normally they're reserved and more into their game and getting them to chase you.

What do you think? What happens when girls compliment you often? Does it tend to be more of a friends thing, or is it IOI? This may sound dumb, but I mean, such overt interest brings up my warning flags; maybe she's just being friendly.

 

[ScrewIt]

i usually find that if a girl often compliments a guy, it is a good sign of IOI.

1 or 2 means nothing.

2+ often when you see her is good IOI.

but just my 2c

 

[LongDrinkofWater]

Nope. She's into you.
Just play it like this (compliments) is nothing new for you (don't overreact). Of course let her know you're interested, but do it with actions. The next time she seems to go out of her way to wave or whatever, just walk right up to her and ask her out or something. If she is with her girlfriends at the time, that's even better. Dn't be afraid to ask her out in front of them. Short, sweet, to the point, don't stick arount too long afterwards. You will score big points with all of her hb8.5 friends too, and even more with your hb9.5. Even if she says no (which seems very unlikely), all of her friends will now know you have the gonads to be direct about what you want. Never know, her friends may start waving at you next.....

 

[stubbornlights]

wicked. this is going to be fun. I always see her when she's sitting around studying; perfect for kino and all that. I'm sortof nervous about the neg hits though; I really like using neg hits, but she's so timid and shy, but beautiful, so I don't know how she'll react to them. But that's wicked those are IOI's.

 

[rascal]

don't be nervous about neg hits, hell after reading about i neg hit everybody even guys.

Just do it in a funny way. Smile(****ily) to let them know you're joking. Don't be afraid of going over board. Remember if it's not funny .... then you're gonna appear insecure so make sure its funny.

if she complients you, use the david d line where he's like

"you women are all the same, first it starts with the compliment, we go out have fun, then you invite me to your place to show me something silly like your stamp collection. The worst ... worst part is that you women don't bother calling me in the morning ... I'm not some sausage with feet, i have feelings too!!!"

This is by far with what i had the best results with.

 

[Chillisauce]

Dont neghit her, only do that to take women down a notch. You said previously that she's into you and quite shy.. if you neghit her now you'll just come across as an ar$ehole.

'she takes time to wave at me interupting her conversation with the group'. Now if she ignored you during those group situations a neghit would be apropriate. She likes you, so try not to screw it up..

 

[Warlord]

You boys are easy, if a girl compliments you feel all high and mighty. Then they ask you to buy them dinner and you'll still feel high and mighty. Boys.

 

[spitkicker]

neghitting a girl that is in into you is not right. neghits are for A1, if a girl is throwing compliments your way, then you're already in A3...according to mystery.....but i dont even follow his stuff.

she is already attracted to you. neghits create attraction but can also kill it if its already there.

she likes you. act cool and confident. get rapport by relating to her and connecting. Kino her.

When she compliments you, disqualify yourself. So when a girl tells you that you're cute, be like "yea, my mom tells me that too" with a smile.

 

[God_of_getting_layed]

Ive had women who were really into me NOT compliment me. Its like some women think its not neccessary or maybe they have the same mindset that most people on this board have: "stand out by not complimenting, everyone else always compliments". who knows why alot of women have not complimented me but have wanted me bad, the point is:

A woman Not complimenting doesnt always mean she's NOT interested. In the reverse, compliments might not always mean she IS interested.