girls getting too offended??

[nacho]

I was walking with my gf through a public plase and out of nowhere some older man(40+) says "nice rack"without turning or nothing just kept walking, i laughed but not loud enough to where anyone else heard but my gf. she gets all offended and says "why didnt you do anything" .....should i have done something, gotten mad/offended, or was it okay for me to laugh? what would any of you do???

 

[Kourt]

I would have laughed, haha

 

[LuvMyArmyMan]

if i was with my boyfriend, and some guy commented on my breasts, he'd probably go after the guy and beat the sh*t outta him. cuz he's so overprotective of me. I'm used to guys making rude comments like that, so i just laugh.

but if an old guy did it, i'd creep me out. i mean, ew.

and its good you didnt do anything about it, because you wouldnt want to start a fight or get arrested over something stupid.

 

[white_hype]

all people like you can do is laugh else you get beaten by people like me

KNOW YOURE ROLE

 

[squirrels]

I'd probably just laugh at him and kinda hold her a little closer. I've always looked up to those guys that I can stare at his girl and he just kinda looks over at me, smiles, and gives her a deep, sloppy kiss. It reeks of confidence, whereas getting ticked off just makes him seem like as big an ass as me.

Now if he's HECKLING your girl repeatedly, then you may need to do something, but just let her know you've got her back, and let him know he's got excellent taste in women.

 

[DJ Alejandro]

take it as a compliment and just laugh if off. or do what sum of ues guyz do here. juz say..

thankz! i work out ya know.

haha

 

[Lola]

she has a mouth. she could have told him to F*ck off, right?

I probably would have been hurt too if my boyfriend kept quiet when some guy sexually harassed me. Dont know what you should have done though!

 

[golf299]

Lola, it's a good thing there aren't three sides to your mouth... I'd hate to hear you talk out of more than two.

 

[Lola]

can i use the 3rd side to tell you to f*ck off?

my explanation for my answer is this. I would have said something to the dude myself. But also expected my man to be pissed about it. Dont believe in physical fighting over stuff like this so I dont know what he should have done. Make sense?

 

[Skel]

I really dont see the big deal. Nice rack? Um isnt that a good thing? I would have laughed too and proably been like "hell ya"

Now, if he had said.
"nice rack, i wanna suckle on em" or
"small boobies, your girl looks like a man"
or something like that then thats different but I would have taken what he said as a compliment

 

[AMF]

Originally posted by white_hype
all people like you can do is laugh else you get beaten by people like me

KNOW YOURE ROLE

Im not laughing

 

[Spike_the_cowboy]

LoL

Well now, more women should be like you, Lola.
Personally though, I would kick his ass.
Or at the very least have a few words with him.
Now if the dude said it in a funny way, thats different.
Then I'd just laugh it off.
I believe in peacful solutions, but a comment of that nature is just crossing the line sometimes.

Now, if he said it to my sister or something like that... I don't care what context it is in; *BOOM* 8-#

 

[j_kat_251]

Why do we need more demanding but indecisive women? If my girlfriend was like: "I demand you do something! But I don't know what it is! So hurry up and do the thing! The thing that I don't know anything about! DO IT! WHATEVER IT MIGHT POSSIBLY BE! NOW!" I'd kick her whiny ass to the curb and tell her to come back when she can be just a bit congruent.

 

[lerxst]

"Baby, you do have a nice rack. Can't fault a man for speaking the truth." Then smile

 

[ManOMan]

ya know,

this is a really great question.

your reputation lies in whether you are a pvssy or a strong minded guy who looks beyond some other idots drunkeness, and lets it pass

if you got into a fight for every time your girl got hit on by a guy, you would be dead

Your girl would hopefully feel bad if you got into a fight, and were seriously injured(if he had many friends)

but does she consider that you might get beat up? for sticking up for her? NO

she is more valueing her position that some guy univitingly complimented her
while she assumes it wasnt a compliment

there is a fine line to draw as a man for this situation, is the guy harassing her? or was he some obnoxious drunk just passing by?

I think you know where to handle it from here, if your girl doesnt understand that guys will make rude remarks, even while with a guy, and choose you pick a fight with him vs letting it go,

your girl needs to be kicked up several notches