Girl's friends ****block

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Maybe I made a mistake with this girl in my dorm. I developed major rapport with her over the past week and I can tell she likes me a lot. We have great conversations and her eyes are incredible I can't stop looking into them. I'm trying to close her the next chance I get. The only problem is her friends! I was alone with her in my dorm when her frickin friends from my floor walk in and start talking to her about some random chick stuff. They totally took her attention away from me. She didn't want to leave but they basically pulled her out of my room. I was like wtf? I'm thinking they don't like me because I don't really give them much attention. She's the only girl I hang out with in my dorm. I'm expecting this to get much worse if we all end up going to the same parties and stuff.

What should I do? Should I try to make friends with these girls. I generally don't like making platonic friends with girls because they tend to bore me. I've been reading so much pook stuff that it's like I only know how to create attraction, I'm not trying to attract these girls. Its almost like I have no idea how to make regular friends with girls.
 

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Well I don't have dorm experience, but I know how crowded and crazy it can get, and i feel you need to spend some 1 on 1 time with her. Take her on a 1 on 1 action date of some sort.

You can try being more social, create a fun vibe and become one of the most social people in the dorm. That will definitely help in eliminating **** blocks, and maybe get you more female attention.

Have you conveyed your interest to her?
 

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I use c&f all the time with her she eats it up. She kinos me! I really haven't kinoed her a whole lot though, something I gotta do. We hung out one night until like four in the morning watching a movie and I wanted to make a move, but I felt it was way too early.

I'll try to be more social within the dorm. I just can't shake the feeling that these girls just straight up don't like me.
 

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I can already tell that you are way too into this girl. Stop hanging around her so much. Talk to other girls. If this girl really likes you, then she will come to you when her friends are not around. You shouldn't want to be hanging around her friends either. That is major ****blocking territory. But if you are left with no choice, then just be nice to her friends but don't go out of your way for them. Always remember that you are the prize and if the girl doesn't see that, then it is her loss.
 

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adding to juan man's comment, you should have made a move that night anything is better then nothing and the worst that can happen is rejection and then what you either try again and if it works sweet if not next.

From my experience a chick will give you around half a dozen "dates" to pull a move on her then after that you get into the friend zone and your outta luck then.

So next time any chick is showing you interest and she's initiating kino you have to take that and push it up a notch till the magic happens :)

Good luck happy hunting
 

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Girls only let their friends F guys that they want to F to ...

so you have to flirt with her friends and make them like you... This is especially true for young girls with very little individual brain power
Being cool is very important to young girls and part of being cool is Fing the same 10 guys that all the other girls are Fing i.e. football team , basket ball team, pretty boys dancer boys etc... ...FACT!!! IN college and high school it helps to be part of the "cool dude click"
 

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Juan_Man said:
I can already tell that you are way too into this girl. Stop hanging around her so much. Talk to other girls. If this girl really likes you, then she will come to you when her friends are not around. You shouldn't want to be hanging around her friends either. That is major ****blocking territory. But if you are left with no choice, then just be nice to her friends but don't go out of your way for them. Always remember that you are the prize and if the girl doesn't see that, then it is her loss.
Nice but the only problem is she lives in the dorm right next to mine. I can't just stop hanging around her when she basically lives with me. Usually she's the one coming into my dorm anyway. You're right though, I have to start talking to more girls other than her. I am way too into this girl. Ever since I've met her I've stopped any approaches, almost like I had no desire to approach. How do I get that **** out of my head?
 

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Voice said:
How do I get that **** out of my head?
Always remind yourself that no matter how much a girl likes you, she still wants you to play hard to get because it makes her more attracted to you. If you are too easy, then you are finished. So, when you talk and flirt with other girls, don't feel guilty because you are actually doing what she wants you to.
 

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Update on this.

I kiss closed this girl the next chance I had, but didn't advance anymore than that besides second base. I think this is fine because again she lives right next to me so I'm taking it slower. I'm going for more the next time her roommate goes home, otherwise I'm out of luck. The only problem is she thinks we are "together" and always wants me to hang out with her and her friends. Her friends are annoying as hell and I can't stand it when they are together. I just want to get this girl alone so I can fvck her.
 
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