For example, I date a girl that looks like a girl next door nice girl. That's what I like so mentally I am hoping and eventually projecting that that's who she is. As the weeks progress, I might make a comment about "settling down" and maybe how "I like nice girls" and "I'll never date a stripper again." BIG mistake.
The female, with an incredible but not obvious degraded history, adapts to your stated desires or her interpretation of them.
She doesn't tell you she likes threesomes. She doesn't tell you she likes to do drugs. She doesn't tell you shes cheated on all her boyfriends in the past and most of her relationships are very short casual relationships.
She tells you she "was offered a threesome but didn't go for it." She tells you she "tried" drugs but doesn't anymore. She tells you "she cheated once but he was abusive so deserved it and she'll never do it again" and she uses other women she knows to virtue signal her own "values." She only tells you about her one or two long term relationships.
Keep in mind that regardless of what you say, if sh has you pegged as a provider husband type or human handbag boyfriend type and NOT a "fun" type, she will already be doing this by default based on her own intuition and experience.
Great post. Except I'll take it a step further:
EVERY girl is running dualistic algorithms for whether she perceives you as the Lover or the Provider. Now a legitimate 'good girl' is
more excited by your tales of debauchery and--questionable--behavior, especially if she has the illusion that you could reform for her. A lot of time the legitimately inexperienced girls will say off the wall sh1t about working corners, etc., since they're embarrassed about their own lack of experience. They might, despite their excitement, end up flaking if you spike their sexual emotions too high before the meetup--they're inexperienced for a reason, after all. A lot of the time, in their cognitive dissonance, they'll end up with the guy who seems good but is secretly a drug addict, or a player, etc.
Middling experienced girls will be like, "Finally, a guy who won't judge me"--and they'll proceed to titillate you with tales of their threesomes and more questionable hookups.
More experienced girls, or older women, or girls who've been burned by the bad boy already--
these are the girls who will blow you out for being a fvckboy. These are the girls that get excited by the prospect of a legitimate Good Guy.
Now flip algorithms. Now you're the provider--The Good Guy.
'Good girls' will put you in the 'No Sex Zone'--she's not like that; you have to respect her religious preferences & be the celibate boyfriend.
Middling girls will probably let you take them out to dinner, tell you about her FaceBook-official relationships (the one or two she never bothered deleting the pictures from). Depending on their age, they may even get into a relationship with you. Or they may even hook up with you, but then say things like, "OMG, I've never done something like that before."
Experienced girls will shape shift--she's probably already cleaned up her image on Social Media--Sunday-church pictures, Godly quotes, etc. She'll eat the good guy up--she's been waiting for a guy like him lol. He'll be perfect to clean up her image for the longer term.
Now, obviously there's a lot of middle ground--especially depending on how high your value is as a Provider or a Lover. A high value Provider could probably
eventually have sex with any of these girls in the context of a relationship; a high value Lover could probably still get the more experienced girls to go for a romp or three. There are also judgmental Lovers, who girls will make wait. And there a nonjudgmental Providers who girls will tell all about their prior sexual exploits--"But, oh, I'm not that way anymore. You have to wait."
