Girls don't like a$$holes?

[zekko]

Girls love the right kind of asshøle.

There are two general kinds of asshøles: caring and uncaring

A caring asshøle is out of spite, including insults.

An uncaring asshøle simply cares only about himself.

You always want to be uncaring.

The caring @sshole is a butthurt @sshole.

 

[QuadDeuces]

I just sent a latina plate a cheesy no shirt after gym photo flexing muscles, lol.
She sends me, amor you want to kill me?
I send, no I just want to fck you.
Oooh eres un chico malo, quiero comerte (heart smileys).
(Ignore)
hour later she sends, tonight at 9?

Lesson learned, hit the gym, be direct and don't care.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

I just sent a latina plate a cheesy no shirt after gym photo flexing muscles, lol.
She sends me, amor you want to kill me?
I send, no I just want to fck you.
Oooh eres un chico malo, quiero comerte (heart smileys).
(Ignore)
hour later she sends, tonight at 9?

Lesson learned, hit the gym, be direct and don't care.

How'd you get her number and meet her in the first place? I haven't reached that point for free in quite some time.

I don't think I'm built to have a gun body worth showing off. It would take years. I do have a bionic d1ck, though. That should be even better to them, I would think.

Either way, they would probably think I'm gonna stalk them even if I just said "hi."

 

[devilkingx2]

I was on SA and there was a girl. I wasn't actually going to meet her, but had her send me a picture. She had short hair in the pic as opposed to her profile.

I said "you have short hair? I don't like it."

To which she replied...

"I can see why you have to pay girls to fvck you. You're an a$$. Bye."

So I guess being an a$$ is a bad thing. Some said it was good? Is there a good and bad way to be an a$$? What would be the opposite, preferable, personality?

 

[devilkingx2]

You can't judge an entire situation based on one random woman's reaction lol.

I've done and said identical things to different women and got different responses from each.

usually it's one of a few responses when you do that, like a few categories that depend on what you say

 

[zekko]

I love that bit in the video where it says no man should have to change who he is for a woman (talking about people who claim that women only like guys who are street thugs or bad boys). It continues on that you should be able to look in the mirror, say this is who I am, this is what I believe, I am going on a ride, and if a woman wants to go along on that ride, great.

I've always thought that it was the height of supplication to change your entire personality in order to get women. You should improve yourself, by all means. That's to your benefit. But to change yourself to become some other guy's idea of an ideal man, or some woman's idea of an ideal man, screw that.

 

[devilkingx2]

I love that bit in the video where it says no man should have to change who he is for a woman (talking about people who claim that women only like guys who are street thugs or bad boys). It continues on that you should be able to look in the mirror, say this is who I am, this is what I believe, I am going on a ride, and if a woman wants to go along on that ride, great.

I've always thought that it was the height of supplication to change your entire personality in order to get women. You should improve yourself, by all means. That's to your benefit. But to change yourself to become some other guy's idea of an ideal man, or some woman's idea of an ideal man, screw that.

personally I always thought that the other aspect of that is that while you shouldn't change for anyone except yourself, if you don't wanna change don't expect your results to change either

if what you're doing isn't working for you it's time for a change but don't completely abandon any and all of your principles (I saw a meme of a black guy posing with a confederate flag surrounded by white girls lmao)

 

[zekko]

personally I always thought that the other aspect of that is that while you shouldn't change for anyone except yourself, if you don't wanna change don't expect your results to change either

if what you're doing isn't working for you it's time for a change but don't completely abandon any and all of your principles (I saw a meme of a black guy posing with a confederate flag surrounded by white girls lmao)

Yeah, I tend to think of making changes to benefit yourself as being in the self improvement category. Really, anyone who isn't in a constant state of change is stagnating.

But like you say, if you make changes that are against your principles just to please other people, or women - that's supplicating behavior. Now it may be that your principles need to be re-examined, and that's okay too. As long as it's authentic to yourself.

An example for me: I had a friend from high school, he did pretty well with the ladies. But he always lied to them, made up ridiculous lies to make himself look impressive. A lot of guys do that, and if it works for you and you don't care, great. But I have no interest in representing myself as something other than what I am in order to impress someone. Not my style. Funny thing is, my friend was hard working, charismatic, and was considered to be quite good looking by females. He didn't need to lie to them to impress them, and I don't think half of them believed him anyway.

 

[Thechamp]

Well when ever I get called ******* or a jerk I get laid hb5 yesterday called me a ******* next thing she’s giving me deep throat!!

 

[Urbanyst]

Well when ever I get called ******* or a jerk I get laid hb5 yesterday called me a ******* next thing she’s giving me deep throat!!

Yep.

 

[devilkingx2]

But like you say, if you make changes that are against your principles just to please other people, or women - that's supplicating behavior. Now it may be that your principles need to be re-examined, and that's okay too. As long as it's authentic to yourself.

it's a balancing act, you don't want to be rigid and inflexible but you don't want to be some loser who would do anything to get a girl to say hi

what matters is that you get the results you're happy with, no need to never get laid because you're too proud to do things that women like, but no need to turn yourself into some nonsense to impress girls at the detriment of everything else in your life

I don't think that any guy who acts 110% naturally to his instincts would be lady's man simply because there's 1001 guy things that women don't care about that you're likely to devote your time to rather than stuff women like (and if no guy ever had to alter his behavior to get girls this site would be useless lol)

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Well when ever I get called ******* or a jerk I get laid hb5 yesterday called me a ******* next thing she’s giving me deep throat!!

What did you do to make her call you an a$$hole?

 

[RichardTheFrog]

it's a balancing act, you don't want to be rigid and inflexible but you don't want to be some loser who would do anything to get a girl to say hi

what matters is that you get the results you're happy with, no need to never get laid because you're too proud to do things that women like, but no need to turn yourself into some nonsense to impress girls at the detriment of everything else in your life

I don't think that any guy who acts 110% naturally to his instincts would be lady's man simply because there's 1001 guy things that women don't care about that you're likely to devote your time to rather than stuff women like (and if no guy ever had to alter his behavior to get girls this site would be useless lol)

Like I could devote most of my waking time to a house flipping business that will make me a millionaire. Will they care? Hard to say, but I'm not going to stop just because it might not impress them.

It's a lot of work. I work at it every day.

 

[Thechamp]

What did you do to make her call you an a$$hole?

Just banter smart ass they love it

 

[zekko]

I don't think that any guy who acts 110% naturally to his instincts would be lady's man simply because there's 1001 guy things that women don't care about that you're likely to devote your time to rather than stuff women like (and if no guy ever had to alter his behavior to get girls this site would be useless lol)

Most of the advice on this site is about avoiding rookie mistakes, about how not to screw up. For instance, you don't want to look overeager or desperate. It is to your benefit to rid yourself of that desperation and neediness, so it's a positive thing for you to do. So it's like working a muscle, you're improving yourself, and ridding yourself of weak behavior. There's nothing wrong with changing your behavior if it is to your benefit.

Similarly, there's nothing wrong with doing something to please a woman, just as there is nothing wrong with doing something for a friend. What is wrong is doing something to please a woman that is against your principles.

 

[Thechamp]

Listen to Tom lykies Patrice oneal being a ******* is the key to success