Girls deeming you soft

[anour]

Dj’s

i have this situation with a girl,i feel i ain’g her type or what not but she is a party hoe 100%. We have some casual teasing flirting going on. Last interaction she said she wanted to go abroad for studying and if stuff doesn’t work she’d do an only fans. Then i said she is very ambitious (she looks like average on a good day). Then i started saying the most random **** ever about how some only fans girls sell armpit hair and freakin bathing water and some rats buy that ****, and that the only fans girl make a whole lotta money then.
I recapped about it and think that **** is simply very wierd and it just came out of my mouth instantly as i have a bad habit of speaking without thinking.

On a previous occasion she said she likes white boys, and i replied once you try africans or arabs you’ll change that perception and only be with those people. You’d start wearing traditional clothes, i first mentioned africa because brain is rotten from all the cuckold porn situation.

My question is how do you guys make it a habit to think before speaking, i’m 23 year old and my speaking makes people percieve me of a younger age.

 

[anour]

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[anour]

@Dr.Suave @Jesse Pinkman @BillyPilgrim @BackInTheGame78 @We_ArE_VeNOM @RazorRambo24 @Hamurabimbi @devilkingx2

 

[anour]

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[BillyPilgrim]

Talk more like this. Slow down.

 

[anour]

Talk more like this. Slow down.

Thanks for the video. Don’t you feel deepening your voice makes you awkward?

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Thanks for the video. Don’t you feel deepening your voice makes you awkward?

No. You don't deepen it that far. Just enough to where you are still comfortable. You can also practice speaking lower, just make sure it is resonant. But the act of doing this will slow down your speech in addition to making it more "commanding".

 

[anour]

No. You don't deepen it that far. Just enough to where you are still comfortable. You can also practice speaking lower, just make sure it is resonant. But the act of doing this will slow down your speech in addition to making it more "commanding".

Alright thanks man. How about the post what’s your opinion about it?

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

Dj’s
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My question is how do you guys make it a habit to think before speaking, i’m 23 year old and my speaking makes people percieve me of a younger age.

Bro, remember; I am a direct game advocate.

I follow the Wing Chun philosophy; the fastest and shortest way to get to any point is straight.

I am a straight shooter.

That being said, not much thinking is required once the game is on.

I know ahead of time what I am gonna say, so it is all on the woman at point.

If she can handle my directness, then she is a keeper.

It is the ultimate sh!t test.

As far as casual conversation, be yourself, but don't be rude or impolite..and you should be fine.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Dj’s

i have this situation with a girl,i feel i ain’g her type or what not but she is a party hoe 100%. We have some casual teasing flirting going on. Last interaction she said she wanted to go abroad for studying and if stuff doesn’t work she’d do an only fans. Then i said she is very ambitious (she looks like average on a good day). Then i started saying the most random **** ever about how some only fans girls sell armpit hair and freakin bathing water and some rats buy that ****, and that the only fans girl make a whole lotta money then.
I recapped about it and think that **** is simply very wierd and it just came out of my mouth instantly as i have a bad habit of speaking without thinking.

On a previous occasion she said she likes white boys, and i replied once you try africans or arabs you’ll change that perception and only be with those people. You’d start wearing traditional clothes, i first mentioned africa because brain is rotten from all the cuckold porn situation.

My question is how do you guys make it a habit to think before speaking, i’m 23 year old and my speaking makes people percieve me of a younger age.

You tell her you have no advice to give since you haven't seen her naked yet, then you go about your business. There's no need to neg her, as she isn't a 9/10.

 

[RazorRambo24]

Girls deeming you soft is not something you fix overnight. Women are superficial-- if a guy is buff, they automatically assume he's tough aand strong, not knowing he could be the guy in your crew who everyone clowns/picks on.

Don't try to change who youa re for any chick.. Start developing habits that will help you develop into more of a man for yourself.
Growing up on the east coast (Brooklyn, NYC), every kid has this motivation to be a man and be respected and be tough since a very young age. You need to have that mindset and if you do, you'll naturally get into stuff that cultivates that.

You are really just a product of who you hang around th emost.. so start hanging with some alpha males.. and if you're scrawny, they'll probably get you in the gym by either making fun of your weak physique or inviting you to the gym with them.

If it snot the gym, you can get into boxing, or you can just develop a personality based on movies, music culture, sports, lookin up to athletes, you name it.. Everyone whos tough and masculine has gotten their programming about who they want to be like from a variety of sources.

Why is my name RAzor Rambo? I'm sharp like a razor mentally, very witty and focused, and i been in the gym forever, im strong/tough like Rambo.. ofc thats an exaggerated movie character.. but for myself, i grew up fighting since i was about 10 yrs old .. because where I grew up, if you didnt ifght back, you got picked on.. there was one main avenue, and everyone that live din one side was family and if u lived on th eother side, those were ur enemies. They would cme to our block on bikes, poppin wheelies and bunny hops, sometimes with bats, spray cans, bike chains, intimidating us, buncha Puerto Ricans, Dominicains, Polocks and Italians, sometimes a n odd black guy or two.. On our side it was Italians, Colombians, Dominicans, Polocks. it was thes ame neighborhood afterall, just a dividing street that made it a rivalry.. we were kids having to run itno our apartment buildings when they came through 10-12 deep wanting to start trouble.. if our main alpha male tough guys/rolemodels in our neighborhood weren't around, we'd get beat/pounced if we didnt run.

Guess what that shi.t toughened the hell outta me and when I came to Chicago in my early teens, the tough guys here didnt phase me that much

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Girls deeming you soft is not something you fix overnight. Women are superficial-- if a guy is buff, they automatically assume he's tough aand strong, not knowing he could be the guy in your crew who everyone clowns/picks on.

Don't try to change who youa re for any chick.. Start developing habits that will help you develop into more of a man for yourself.
Growing up on the east coast (Brooklyn, NYC), every kid has this motivation to be a man and be respected and be tough since a very young age. You need to have that mindset and if you do, you'll naturally get into stuff that cultivates that.

You are really just a product of who you hang around th emost.. so start hanging with some alpha males.. and if you're scrawny, they'll probably get you in the gym by either making fun of your weak physique or inviting you to the gym with them.

If it snot the gym, you can get into boxing, or you can just develop a personality based on movies, music culture, sports, lookin up to athletes, you name it.. Everyone whos tough and masculine has gotten their programming about who they want to be like from a variety of sources.

Why is my name RAzor Rambo? I'm sharp like a razor mentally, very witty and focused, and i been in the gym forever, im strong/tough like Rambo.. ofc thats an exaggerated movie character.. but for myself, i grew up fighting since i was about 10 yrs old .. because where I grew up, if you didnt ifght back, you got picked on.. there was one main avenue, and everyone that live din one side was family and if u lived on th eother side, those were ur enemies. They would cme to our block on bikes, poppin wheelies and bunny hops, sometimes with bats, spray cans, bike chains, intimidating us, buncha Puerto Ricans, Dominicains, Polocks and Italians, sometimes a n odd black guy or two.. On our side it was Italians, Colombians, Dominicans, Polocks. it was thes ame neighborhood afterall, just a dividing street that made it a rivalry.. we were kids having to run itno our apartment buildings when they came through 10-12 deep wanting to start trouble.. if our main alpha male tough guys/rolemodels in our neighborhood weren't around, we'd get beat/pounced if we didnt run.

Guess what that shi.t toughened the hell outta me and when I came to Chicago in my early teens, the tough guys here didnt phase me that much

You can take a New Yorker outside of NYC, but you can't take the New York out. 7 million is smaller than 7 billion, but don't tell them that.

Rambo, this explains things.

 

[Dr.Suave]

Dj’s

i have this situation with a girl,i feel i ain’g her type or what not but she is a party hoe 100%. We have some casual teasing flirting going on. Last interaction she said she wanted to go abroad for studying and if stuff doesn’t work she’d do an only fans. Then i said she is very ambitious (she looks like average on a good day). Then i started saying the most random **** ever about how some only fans girls sell armpit hair and freakin bathing water and some rats buy that ****, and that the only fans girl make a whole lotta money then.
I recapped about it and think that **** is simply very wierd and it just came out of my mouth instantly as i have a bad habit of speaking without thinking.

On a previous occasion she said she likes white boys, and i replied once you try africans or arabs you’ll change that perception and only be with those people. You’d start wearing traditional clothes, i first mentioned africa because brain is rotten from all the cuckold porn situation.

My question is how do you guys make it a habit to think before speaking, i’m 23 year old and my speaking makes people percieve me of a younger age.

"I feel I aint her type" This is the wrong mindset to begin with. Work on this 1st. You are the prize. If you arent the prize yet, fake it till you make it.

"On a previous occasion she said she likes white boys" This could be a test. Ignore her words, pay attention to her actions.

"My question is how do you guys make it a habit to think before speaking" Yes, you should think before you speak. But it is a double edged sword, it can lead to overthinking. This girl could be a lost cause but just Keep practicing with different girls. You will never be perfect and you will strike here and there but you will keep improving on average. Just try to enjoy the process.

Remember to be C0cky & Funny when possible, Agree & Amplify when possible, kino when possible, isolate her when possible, Escalate, Go Mode One on her azz. Also remember its not always about the words you say but how you say them: Tone of voice, body language, sexual tension, etc.

 

[anour]

"I feel I aint her type" This is the wrong mindset to begin with. Work on this 1st. You are the prize. If you arent the prize yet, fake it till you make it.

"On a previous occasion she said she likes white boys" This could be a test. Ignore her words, pay attention to her actions.

"My question is how do you guys make it a habit to think before speaking" Yes, you should think before you speak. But it is a double edged sword, it can lead to overthinking. This girl could be a lost cause but just Keep practicing with different girls. You will never be perfect and you will strike here and there but you will keep improving on average. Just try to enjoy the process.

Remember to be C0cky & Funny when possible, Agree & Amplify when possible, kino when possible, isolate her when possible, Escalate, Go Mode One on her azz. Also remember its not always about the words you say but how you say them: Tone of voice, body language, sexual tension, etc.

Bro you’re the ****ing man my guy for realll