Girl's bday tonight, kind of put off..

drf408

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This girl I met a while ago, cute but shes not hot but very smart and fun (unless really drunk). Her personality is generally good with a critical flaw, shes the extreme brat. Our relationship has been more of a respected friends with benefits type arrangement. She has even stated this and made it clear that she doesn't know where she's going after school.
However every couple of weeks it seems she just randomly goes off on me, sends me texts about how all her bfs treated her before and that i don't do enough nice things for her, I'm shady, you name it. With an apology the next day. Keep in mind, generally I have been nice to her, but I don't put her on a pedestal and don't tolerate the ****. So she did this again a few weeks back, I all but told her to F off. She had sent me a text early one day about how much she misses me later that day that I don't give her enough attention and shes done with me, it's over. Deleted me off Facebook even.
Soon enough she begs to see me, tells me how she is a brat and is immature and shouldn't make decisions like that. I see this as her being reasonable, almost begrudgingly I see her again, and then start having a good time. Fast forward only 3 weeks, and she blows again, I worked all day, got home late, my phone was dead have the day so I was not responsive until I got home and put my phone on a charger. I got all this crap about being shady, blah blah. Again next day apology followed with "even though youre still a bit shady".
Sorry for being wordy, today is her birthday, I wish her a happy birthday. I was planning on taking her out. She then demands to be taken out and tells me "Make a reservation at _____!!!!". A restaurant that is impossible to walk out of spending less than 80.00/person and that's trying to keep it low. And then she responds "you weren't going to do anything if I didn't demand it".
So generally she can be real nice and fun, but this brat entitled S%# makes me lose complete interest. But I feel like I'm just going to look like a cheap ass and that I'm trying to get out of spending anything if I tell her off on the day of her bday...
 

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hell nah take her to take a hike


girls like this are like dogs, they require a lot of attention. just ignore her and give her SOME, that should keep her on check
 

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Yeah, I don't think i have a choice, to be honest I'd rather not even give her some. I'd rather go drinking with friends and see if I can find someone else. The biggest reason why I was giving her some is she came off more attractive due to what seemed like being a really fun and cool girl but I don't even feel like seeing her at all now. I feel like I'd be miserable if I did, I think I'd rather chill on the couch watching reruns than see her. I just replied to her "Find someone else to meet your demands, total turn off for me but Happy Birthday!"
 

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Good job bro. Way to man up. No man should have to deal with crap like there. Way better women are out there.
 

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Thank you, I did it. I will admit I felt like a complete ass, she sent me a message "you're an %#% for making me cry on my bday" but I ended up having drinks with a buddy at a bar and I'll never hear from her again.
 

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She'll be back lol....you did an awesome move
 

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good job. Don't tolerate disrespect like that from a woman. especially a crazy b1tch like that.

It sounds to me like she has some sort of problem. I'd kick her too the curve real quick because it's only goin to get worse. You don't want to end up in prison because she assaulted you and blamed it on you to the police

and who cares about looking cheap. Value your hard earned money. You worked for it and not her, she has no right to tell you how to use it.

Like I always tell my friends, cheap guys are never short on a dollar.

get rid of this nut case
 
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she will be back...no doubt about that. Of course she will mask it with 'Your such a ****!!! type of texts' but really shes saying 'Please, Just PLEASE pay me some goddamn attention and validate me I am SO INTO YOU'

Edit: Im with maindroite, keep us informed haha. I always love these types of stories
 
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