Girls at the gym

[goober4u]

For those of you who work out, how do you aproch the girls in the gym? i dont' know what to say to start a convorsation, or when the time would be to interupt them. I notcie them eye fvcking me all the time. every time i look up in the mirror Icatch an eye. but i only recently began my success with women (notice other post). maybe they don't want anything, only to look at the nice bodys. who knows, anyone here ever had success at the gym?

 

[Reto]

Gym chicks...

I know what you mean. Don't try talking to them when they are in the middle of a set. Wait until they are resting.

Mirrors are great. You can check out HB's with out looking directly at them. Check to see if they are checking you out directly.

The most success I've had meeting girls is riding the stationary bike while watching tv. Get on a bike next to a girl that 's watching a show. You instantly have something in common. Start talking about the show.

Get a girl to spot you or ask if you can work in on a machine she's using.

Ask a "fit" girl for advice on doing a particular exercise. If your in pretty good shape, you may want to phrase it like "I can't seem to do that exercise right. What am I doing wrong?"

Ask "How do you stay motivated? I've lost all motivation to work out lately." (whether it's true or not).

How about "Hi. How are you tonight?" Or "How's the work out going?"

I met one girl (who I've been friends with for a year now) while she was doing crunches. She was just laying there resting in between sets. I said something like "Excuse me. You're not allowed to take naps in between sets". She smiled. I then met her while watching tv on the bikes later that night.

Have you noticed this though? Some girls will go out of thier way to get you to notice them. Like walk right in front of you to get a weight when there were some right near where she was. Maybe she's just coming by to get a closer look...

Just remember, there are some chicks there that do not want to be bothered while thier working out...

 

[Dee-Zy]

Originally posted by Reto
Just remember, there are some chicks there that do not want to be bothered while thier working out...

Yeah, that's my biggest concern ...

Anyways, that nap line was great N I love the motivate'N question. I see alot of girls that hits the gym very regurlarly. If they aren't completely airheads, that should lead to a good convo.

One thing I learned so far is SMILE and for now, just say hi whenever u get to a talk'N distance to her. No need to start a conversation, just smile and say hi. After a few days or so - u'll already warm her up N say sumthin in the mater of: "Hey, I have been say'N hi to u alot lately but I don't even know you're name" - then go from there.

Once I was talk'N to a friend of mine N I commented how a machine is a completely useless piece of crap. The hot girl beside up that was work'N out jump'd in and said what it's usefull for N we talk'd for a few minutes. She said she has been working out regularly for a long time ... but I have only seen her once or twice before ... heh, next time I'll see her I'll grab her number.

I wanna keep my eye on this post cuz this is a domain I'm have'N less success with...

 

[Reto]

I agree with what Dee said. Just say Hi. And say it every day. It develops this comfort zone. She'll be more likely to come up to you and start talking.

Yeah, smile. I smiled at this 9 the other night and she smiled back. Absolutly perfect body. I later heard she's a real psycho. I mean, violent and verbally abusive...gonna avoid that one no matter what she looks like...

 

[Dee-Zy]

Originally posted by Reto
Yeah, smile. I smiled at this 9 the other night and she smiled back. Absolutly perfect body. I later heard she's a real psycho. I mean, violent and verbally abusive...gonna avoid that one no matter what she looks like...

bwahahahaha

 

[Phrozen]

Originally posted by Reto
I agree with what Dee said. Just say Hi. And say it every day. It develops this comfort zone. She'll be more likely to come up to you and start talking.

Yeah, smile. I smiled at this 9 the other night and she smiled back. Absolutly perfect body. I later heard she's a real psycho. I mean, violent and verbally abusive...gonna avoid that one no matter what she looks like...

Whatever, find out for yourself. Probably some AFC trying to cut down the competition.

The worst that happens is she yells at you, big deal.

 

[MR_PERFECT]

I tried one approach a couple of years ago when I use to actually use my membership. This girl would always look at me while she was working out. Once we made serious eye contact while she was doing bench presses. I asked if she needed a spot (she was alone), she shoke her head no, I got back to my workout. I probably should have tried a little harder, but what can I say, I'm lazy.

 

[duke007]

It doesn't seem to work at my gym. I'm a semi-regular, but the regular girls are absolute fitness freaks with huge b1tch shields. No thanks...

At one stage, I was alone in the weights room with a girl, and was just about to start a converation but she did EVERYTHING humanly possible to avoid eye contact with me. What a b1tch.

Another time, a petite blonde and I were alternating sets on the lat-pulldown. Once she finished her third I said cheerily, "Going for 4?" She shook her head and I replied, "C'mon, I'm sure you're up to it."

You think that's a reasonable enough opening? Well she avoided eye contact with me the rest of the session! How rude. My gym's sh*t, even the staff are ugly.

 

[Jvesti123]

ya i just ask how the workout is going and go from there i truly wish there were more hot chicks at my gym

 

[Jay26]

Hehe, my gym is full of hotties so I'm lucky I guess.

It's funny I once ended up 'accidently' chatting up a HB at the gym, I was like walking over to my friend on one of those skiing machines and like wave to him, only this HB on the next machine thinks I'm waving to her, so as I walk over she says hi and is sooo friendly we get talking and she is well flirty (didn't get the number but I was still a chump back then), still it's funny sometimes what opportunities are about that you don't realise, especially in my case where I just stumbled upon it.

 

[krd]

My gym is not a great place to meet women. There are a few more of them in the cardio room, but most of them are in the middle of their workout and like Reto says, you never know whether or not they really want to be bothered. What's more, many of them have headphones on, partly because you need a pocket radio tuned to AM in order to listen to the T.V., or they may have a CD playing. I'd feel very weird about walking up to one of them and starting a conversation, even though I know this is probably what I should be doing. You don't see very many people doing that anyway. It's not a social atmosphere. You go in and the radio is playing over the loudspeaker, and if they turned it off, I swear you'd hear a pin drop in there.

Down in the weight room, you'll see a woman come in every now and then, but it's mostly all guys. When a woman does come in, all the guys start trying to talk to her, because she's the only one there. By the time I get up the nerve (which takes a while), she's already had a bunch of guys talking her ear off. I'd be less likely to make an impression on her, since most of these guys are tall, muscular, outgoing and flirtatious and I'm this skinny, shy kid (well I'm not really a kid, but I look like one).

There are a bunch of girls who work at the front counter that I know pretty well, and most of the staff is familiar with me. None of them are single, though. This weekend I am going to a party being organized by the gym. I was going to take a date, but I just found out that's not gonna happen. Hopefully it will be a good time, although I'm trying to be careful not to go there expecting anything, because it could keep me from having any fun.

 

[vdk]

My female co-worker says she is always hit on in gyms, so I would say approaching them DIRECTLY is bad. Plus the male to female ratio is bad for us, so its bad place to PU

 

[Mazman]

I don't even bother with women at the gym.

Reto is right about the bike though. This would be the best place to start up a conversation. Most women on the bike and pretty relaxed and are just sitting there watching tv.