Girls are so mean, the make me cry :[

[squirrels]

Re: Re: Grow up!

Originally posted by Joey_Leigh
This girl...AT THE LAST MINUTE, MISSED homecoming because she KNEW that YOU'D be there. This proves that not only does she dislike you as a potential love interest....she doesn't even like you as a human being and has -100000 respect for you OR your feelings. Basically, if your ass died tommorow she wouldn't even care or notice...and I mean that literally.


That is what makes her heartless

-Joey

Dude...WAKE THE F**K UP.

She missed homecoming because no one she wanted to be there with asked her...and rather than go alone and make you feel bad, she decided to spare your feelings by excusing her way out of it.

She tried her damnedest to respect your feelings, but your dumb azz just kept pushing...and kept pushing...and kept pushing...until she COULDN'T STAND YOU ANY MORE.

And even THEN she tried to spare your feelings by saying she liked you "like a brother."

You are a whiny, stupid little child with no concept of how to deal with other people. And I'm not saying that to be mean, I'm saying it because it's the TRUTH. Whenever you don't get your way, you cry and say, "YOU'RE MEEEEEAN!" hoping that someone'll have pity on you and give you what you want.

Grow up. You're not entitled to sh*t. YOU are mean for thinking just because you loved her so much that she is somehow OBLIGATED to love you back...you are giving NO RESPECT to HER feelings. You are mean, selfish, immature, and socially inept.

I told you once:

There's a link in the upper-right hand corner of every page on this forum: The Don Juan Bible. Click on it and start reading. And don't post here again until you've read it all, or at least the "Must-Read" articles.

 

[CLOONEY]

Re: Re: Re: Grow up!

Originally posted by squirrels
Dude...WAKE THE F**K UP.

She missed homecoming because no one she wanted to be there with asked her...and rather than go alone and make you feel bad, she decided to spare your feelings by excusing her way out of it.

She tried her damnedest to respect your feelings, but your dumb azz just kept pushing...and kept pushing...and kept pushing...until she COULDN'T STAND YOU ANY MORE.

And even THEN she tried to spare your feelings by saying she liked you "like a brother."

You are a whiny, stupid little child with no concept of how to deal with other people. And I'm not saying that to be mean, I'm saying it because it's the TRUTH. Whenever you don't get your way, you cry and say, "YOU'RE MEEEEEAN!" hoping that someone'll have pity on you and give you what you want.

Grow up. You're not entitled to sh*t. YOU are mean for thinking just because you loved her so much that she is somehow OBLIGATED to love you back...you are giving NO RESPECT to HER feelings. You are mean, selfish, immature, and socially inept.

I told you once:

"She missed homecoming because no one she wanted to be there with asked her...and rather than go alone and make you feel bad, she decided to spare your feelings by excusing her way out of it.

She tried her damnedest to respect your feelings, but your dumb azz just kept pushing...and kept pushing...and kept pushing...until she COULDN'T STAND IT ANYMORE"

This part is VERY true, although dont listen to Squirells, he is a bit harsh with that reply. He must really like to hurt people. Although champ you do need to read the bible, nothing in life is a mistake, you just gotta learn from it and bounce back better than ever. You have a LOT to learn, I will not lie. You just gotta start learning now. IT will help you take your mind off of her for a while. Good luck mate, I am sure you will get on with your life eventually and find one who truly does deserve you.

 

[squirrels]

I don't like to hurt people, but I'm slightly offended by the fact that he feels that his failure to impress this young lady is HER fault and she is somehow cruel because of it. Then people try to explain his shortcomings to him and he snaps back at them and says THEY are the pathetic ones.

People like him are the types for which this site was created, but unless he opens his mind to what people are telling him and stops being so ignorant and immature, then you can cram the DJ Bible up his ass and it won't do him any good.

Truth hurts, but he needs to come to grips with that pain and realize that he isn't special or entitled to anything. Only then can he take responsibility for himself and start to improve.

If you want women to like you, you should be likeable. What, besides the fact that you like her, do you have to offer her as a mate?

 

[CLOONEY]

Originally posted by squirrels
I don't like to hurt people, but I'm slightly offended by the fact that he feels that his failure to impress this young lady is HER fault and she is somehow cruel because of it. Then people try to explain his shortcomings to him and he snaps back at them and says THEY are the pathetic ones.

People like him are the types for which this site was created, but unless he opens his mind to what people are telling him and stops being so ignorant and immature, then you can cram the DJ Bible up his ass and it won't do him any good.

Truth hurts, but he needs to come to grips with that pain and realize that he isn't special or entitled to anything. Only then can he take responsibility for himself and start to improve.

If you want women to like you, you should be likeable. What, besides the fact that you like her, do you have to offer her as a mate?

Yes I see your point, infact all what you say is absolutely right. I just think there are better words to say what you are saying. This guy is in pain, and you just rub it in, but yes what you are saying is right, and Joey needs to truly realise this if he is going to help himself. He must firstly want to help himself before any of us can help him along his long path to recovery so to speak. Anyways I think he gets the point.

 

[Royal-tiger]

Re: Re: Grow up!

Originally posted by Joey_Leigh
This girl...AT THE LAST MINUTE, MISSED homecoming because she KNEW that YOU'D be there. This proves that not only does she dislike you as a potential love interest....she doesn't even like you as a human being and has -100000 respect for you OR your feelings. Basically, if your ass died tommorow she wouldn't even care or notice...and I mean that literally.


That is what makes her heartless

-Joey

If she is as BAD as you claim then explain to us why you are so attracted to her! I hope you don't like pain as fun!!

 

[Craig Reeves]

Well jeez Craig, maybe that would help me if I didn't want to kill myself after reading it.

I didn't write that to you to make you feel better. I wrote that to you to wake you up so that you will realize what is going on and MOVE ON. This was not a "keep hope alive" type of program. MY advice would make you feel MUCH better in the long run than me telling you, "Oh don't worry, gipper, things'll get better!". That will only MASK the problem and make it worse instead of FIXING it.

And I was harsh about it for a reason......SO THAT IT WILL SINK IN. You seemed really HARD HEADED, so I needed to force it down your throat.

 

[wolfie]

BS she tried to spare his feelings. She lied constantly to him, i.e telling him that "if she couldnt find anyone else she'd go with him"... but this obviously isn't true either since when she couldnt find anyone else she decided she'd rather stay home alone than go with him.. and she lies about having the flu too!

She never LJBF'd him. This would have been gentle honesty, and anything else he did would have been unwarranted. This bytch led him on with lies like the above.. and lies like "If I wasn't with my bf I'd be interested in you". I don't see how this is to 'spare his feelings'. This is obviously an attempt to take advantage of his attraction to her by giving him FALSE HOPE, so she can continue to make him her gf, not telling a white lie to spare his feelings.
Not until the very end does she straight out say "I like you as my best friend.. a brother" *yeah yeah bs* "but I never want to talk to you again." . This isn't LJBF.. this is "Get lost punk" - because there is no real way she can lead him on without him knowing it anymore, not since he virtually gave her an ultimatum with this love note.
This girl lied constantly to him and even disrespected him by avoiding him in person and refusing to speak face to face - as if she would be ashamed to be seen talking to him. Certainly, since she refused to go to homecoming with him, even as a 'friend', she wouldn't want anyone else to see them together.
She used him to fill in her boredom when she was online and never reciprocated with anything at all... certainly not real friendship. She did not think of him as a friend at all. What kind of friend do you avoid in person when you go to the same damn school, and only talk to online?
A dishonest, disloyal and disrespectful woman like this doesn't deserve his respect or time.. nor can she be defended as the poor innocent girl who was just trying not to hurt him. If she was trying not to hurt him she would have LJBFd him a long time ago and continued being friends.

 

[Omega]

Originally posted by wolfie
BS she tried to spare his feelings. She lied constantly to him, i.e telling him that "if she couldnt find anyone else she'd go with him"... but this obviously isn't true either since when she couldnt find anyone else she decided she'd rather stay home alone than go with him.. and she lies about having the flu too!

She never LJBF'd him. This would have been gentle honesty, and anything else he did would have been unwarranted. This bytch led him on with lies like the above.. and lies like "If I wasn't with my bf I'd be interested in you". I don't see how this is to 'spare his feelings'. This is obviously an attempt to take advantage of his attraction to her by giving him FALSE HOPE, so she can continue to make him her gf, not telling a white lie to spare his feelings.
Not until the very end does she straight out say "I like you as my best friend.. a brother" *yeah yeah bs* "but I never want to talk to you again." . This isn't LJBF.. this is "Get lost punk" - because there is no real way she can lead him on without him knowing it anymore, not since he virtually gave her an ultimatum with this love note.
This girl lied constantly to him and even disrespected him by avoiding him in person and refusing to speak face to face - as if she would be ashamed to be seen talking to him. Certainly, since she refused to go to homecoming with him, even as a 'friend', she wouldn't want anyone else to see them together.
She used him to fill in her boredom when she was online and never reciprocated with anything at all... certainly not real friendship.
A dishonest, disloyal and disrespectful woman like this doesn't deserve his respect or time.. nor can she be defended as the poor innocent girl who was just trying not to hurt him. If she was trying not to hurt him she would have LJBFd him a long time ago and continued being friends.

False hope is womenese for niceness.

 

[Grey Fox]

Hey its all in the past, if you dwell on it. Which you are, then you will never be able to take advantage of what's happening the present. You can't assume every girl you are interested in is going to feel they same way you do. Next time if your in a situation like that have a back up girl so when some girl is by herself and sees you have fun with another girl she'll feel like a fool, a dateless one at that. So you had a bad experience, learn from it. You made a lot of mistakes, everyone has told you that. Girls will tell you a lot things to you, so you kind of have to be a poker player. Just because she betting like she's got something for ya doesn't mean she's holding anything. In other words they may flirt with you, they may tell you all these great things, but if you listen to what they are really saying its a whole other message. But before you can go out there and start trying again, you need to do a couple of things. FIRST GET SOME PRIDE AND SELF RESPECT, that way you want come off as so needy. SECOND THIS IS REAL LIFE AND NOT ONE OF THOSE CHEESEY CHICK FLICKS WERE PERSISTANCE PAYS OFF, ALL PERSISTANCE DOES IS PISS PEOPLE OFF. With that in mind if a girl isn't interested in you after the first two dates, or doesn't give you her numbers or take your calls, or just seems to lack interest. You lose nothing by walking away because there is nothing there for you.

-Grey Fox

 

[j_kat_251]

This thread is getting ridiculous. Nobody could possibly be this pathetic. Look at his replies. As a parody, this thread stinks. As a troll, he's doing a reasonably good job. It's not my bandwidth, but threads like this aren't really helping anyone. In fact, well meaning people are wasting their precious time posting excellent advice to some punk who doesn't want to be helped.

 

[Abbott]

Did the author of this post read through all the tips, the DJ Bible, and things and then write this?

That's the only way I can think of that anyone can write this. If not, then a loser this loser-like is rarer than a very skillful DJ (and in my life I've only seen one guy who might come close to being a skillful DJ).

If this is for real...then how in the hell did you learn this method (a very bad method) for dealing with women?

At first, I was thinking that the woman (girl in this case) being in high school may have something to do with this. But even so, no man is ever that loser-like.

Ben

 

[Christopher_Reeves]

Hmmm....

Hey Joey...

Oh yes...allow me to introduce myself. I am Christopher Reeves. I am Craig's twin brother and I am just going to step my foot into the community here because I've been pretty impressed with some of the DJ's here. People like Squirrels, Challenge Guy and others really know their stuff.

Anyway Joey, it is pretty apparent that you've grown extreamly emotionally attatched to this girl...I'm not exactly sure why...it's not as if she was giving you signals of a potential attraction, but anyway, there must have been something about her that you couldn't get enough of.

Look man, we've all been in situations like this and believe me, even when you get good, you'll see them again because some women are just monsters. This girl, however, really didn't do anything EXTREAMLY wrong. She should not have lied to you about her having the flu, and she shouldn't have told you that pathetic line that goes something like "If I wasn't dating anyone else right now, I would be attracted to you" or something like that...

Although many DJ's and other men have been in this situation, it is the way DJ's handle it, how we FIX the problem....this is what draws the line between DJ and AFC....

Listen, and I certainly don't want to speak for everyone but I can tell you that most of the people who responed to your story were not doing it just to be mean, but the truth hurts, and we are just being REAL with you. I mean what? Do you want us to NOT be real about it? Well we could just lie, and say stuff like, "Oh just keep doing what you're doing, and your kind soul will attract women...", but then we would be leading you into believing something that isn't true.....kinda like how she led you into thinking that leaving a love letter in her locker would attract her.