Girls are ruthless

:-)

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 11, 2013
Messages
707
Reaction score
40
when it comes to the dating game.

whoever said girls were made of Sugar and spice and all things nice did us no favours.
 

Contrails

Don Juan
Joined
Oct 4, 2013
Messages
29
Reaction score
0
Join the club. I had one backpacker stay with me and sleep in the same bed as me but wouldn't put out. Gave me all the signs initially. I think it was her little game to secure some free accommodation.
 

Tomo

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Aug 16, 2013
Messages
247
Reaction score
24
If she doesn't put out, drop her. If you feel pity, chuck her on the couch and tell her good bye the next morning - only if your intentions were purely to pump her. You just have to reach that stage where you're the one willing to walk. Once you get there and when woman realise that and if they have any sense of interest in you, I find things mellow a bit although curveballs will always be thrown. You just gotta show them whose boss!
 

dosquito

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 8, 2012
Messages
144
Reaction score
5
ugh I feel ya man I got a lay last night and saw her texts from other guys it was pathetic...the more you see into a girls life the more youll be disappointed 90% of the time
 

Create self-fulfilling prophecies. Always assume the positive. Assume she likes you. Assume she wants to talk to you. Assume she wants to go out with you. When you think positive, positive things happen.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

kraytkiller

Don Juan
Joined
Oct 1, 2008
Messages
192
Reaction score
8
Contrails said:
Join the club. I had one backpacker stay with me and sleep in the same bed as me but wouldn't put out. Gave me all the signs initially. I think it was her little game to secure some free accommodation.
Hahaha! What would you even do in that situation? hahahaha

I wouldn't want her ass in my bed for free but also wouldn't want any of the other people in the group to think i'm a complete *******. Hahaha

'She only wanted to sleep at night so I kicked her out'
 

Siragoos

Don Juan
Joined
Nov 9, 2013
Messages
75
Reaction score
1
dosquito said:
ugh I feel ya man I got a lay last night and saw her texts from other guys it was pathetic...the more you see into a girls life the more youll be disappointed 90% of the time
This has to be good. Examples?
 

CJ 101

Don Juan
Joined
Apr 18, 2011
Messages
130
Reaction score
6
Location
Chicago, Il
dosquito said:
ugh I feel ya man I got a lay last night and saw her texts from other guys it was pathetic...the more you see into a girls life the more youll be disappointed 90% of the time


True man, once you start seeing most females for what they really are, it will be difficult to trust any other female who comes along.
 

:-)

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 11, 2013
Messages
707
Reaction score
40
dosquito said:
ugh I feel ya man I got a lay last night and saw her texts from other guys it was pathetic...the more you see into a girls life the more youll be disappointed 90% of the time
oh mate, i remember one bpd i had oneitis for (who should only have been a ons at best). i remember she didn't want me going up to her room whilst she did what she had to do! i can't imagine it was cleaning the place cos it was a tip when i eventually did go up there. i saw video cassettes with her name on it and I can only imagine what was on there. i really wanted to take one to see. wish i did. also she had a note on her bedside table from some other guy calling her by a nickname and how much he enjoyed his evening with her!!! you'd have thought she would have gone to the trouble of disposing of that at least - unless she wanted me to see it of course.
 

Jariel

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 17, 2004
Messages
4,417
Reaction score
291
Location
UK
I would just amend this a little...

Girls are ruthless UNLESS they are really attracted to a guy.

Girls can be needy, clingy and eager to please and validate themselves to any guy they're really into. For those guys, they make it easy.

But if her interest is low or drops, she has the potential to treat you like sh1t.

It also becomes self perpetuating: if you let her treat you like a king, her attraction will grow. If you let her treat you like sh1t, her attraction will drop.
 

Never try to read a woman's mind. It is a scary place. Ignore her confusing signals and mixed messages. Assume she is interested in you and act accordingly.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

dosquito

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 8, 2012
Messages
144
Reaction score
5
Siragoos said:
This has to be good. Examples?

*several unreplied texts in one conversation*

"Oh, that's my really good [guy] friend", she says as if it means nothing that she has been blowing off her "friends"

they say this **** like we dont know exactly whats going on

she's "too busy" to hang out with X while she blows Y.

makes me never wanna take things slow with a girl. Can you imagine being that sucker whos thinking about taking her out while shes getting **** on the side? we've probably all been that guy before.

If youre not on one side you're on the other...Im still out here hoping there are some girls who dont play both sides of this coin. Putting up the image of a good girl whenever it's convenient while getting diqq whenever it's convenient
 

Johnny Alias

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Dec 3, 2013
Messages
219
Reaction score
27
Yah. They are ruthless... At least western women. Many have been taught they are princesses from the time they were born and that the world owes them a living. Their sense of self entitlement is unreal. They want what they want NOW. They often don't care who the step on to get it. If they do get what they want then they become bored with it and want a new toy. If they don't get it they throw a tantrum.

It's shocking to realize how many women are actually little girls in adult bodies. Attention *****s, goldiggers, sluts... Oh my.

There are some good ones... Just don't expect many hot chicks to be wholesome. Treat them with disdain because you know their game. Don't believe their well rehearsed acts to get them what they want.

Just stiff armed a rebound today. Blonde Barbie doll. Told her to **** off and take her guilt trips with her... Now she can't stop writing. Hot chicks are easy to come by, but don't think for ONE second that you can change what they really are...

Daddy's little brat princess.
 

Starfvcks 64

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Dec 22, 2013
Messages
215
Reaction score
18
Sometimes I feel like the problem isn't that women are ruthless, but that (most) men are just pathetic.

Women are out pursuing their careers and focusing on bettering their lives, while men are out pursuing women.
We make it too damn easy for them.
 

Pimp-sicle

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 27, 2003
Messages
2,462
Reaction score
101
Location
Pimpsylvania
Jariel said:
I would just amend this a little...

Girls are ruthless UNLESS they are really attracted to a guy.

Girls can be needy, clingy and eager to please and validate themselves to any guy they're really into. For those guys, they make it easy.

But if her interest is low or drops, she has the potential to treat you like sh1t.

It also becomes self perpetuating: if you let her treat you like a king, her attraction will grow. If you let her treat you like sh1t, her attraction will drop.


Well said & I totally agree.













PIMP
 

Contrails

Don Juan
Joined
Oct 4, 2013
Messages
29
Reaction score
0
Well well, I got a text from the backpacker today. She left the country yesterday and I didn't think I would hear from her again.

She said in the text she was attracted to me right from when she first saw me but when we got drunk at my apartment and I asked her to do a 'sexydance' she got completely turned off. I dared her to do a sexy dance while I sat on a chair and she refused and said she wasn't drunk enough. Maybe, it made her feel like a slut, maybe I didn't build enough attraction or didn't escalate right. Oh well, live and learn.
 

:-)

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 11, 2013
Messages
707
Reaction score
40
Contrails said:
Well well, I got a text from the backpacker today. She left the country yesterday and I didn't think I would hear from her again.

She said in the text she was attracted to me right from when she first saw me but when we got drunk at my apartment and I asked her to do a 'sexydance' she got completely turned off. I dared her to do a sexy dance while I sat on a chair and she refused and said she wasn't drunk enough. Maybe, it made her feel like a slut, maybe I didn't build enough attraction or didn't escalate right. Oh well, live and learn.
she's a liar.
 

_sideways_

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 31, 2013
Messages
1,894
Reaction score
213
Johnny Alias said:
Yah. They are ruthless... At least western women. Many have been taught they are princesses from the time they were born and that the world owes them a living. Their sense of self entitlement is unreal. They want what they want NOW. They often don't care who the step on to get it. If they do get what they want then they become bored with it and want a new toy. If they don't get it they throw a tantrum.

It's shocking to realize how many women are actually little girls in adult bodies. Attention *****s, goldiggers, sluts... Oh my.

There are some good ones... Just don't expect many hot chicks to be wholesome. Treat them with disdain because you know their game. Don't believe their well rehearsed acts to get them what they want.

Just stiff armed a rebound today. Blonde Barbie doll. Told her to **** off and take her guilt trips with her... Now she can't stop writing. Hot chicks are easy to come by, but don't think for ONE second that you can change what they really are...

Daddy's little brat princess.
Lmao...stiff ARM that Ho
 

YAboi

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 20, 2009
Messages
794
Reaction score
45
Contrails said:
Well well, I got a text from the backpacker today. She left the country yesterday and I didn't think I would hear from her again.

She said in the text she was attracted to me right from when she first saw me but when we got drunk at my apartment and I asked her to do a 'sexydance' she got completely turned off. I dared her to do a sexy dance while I sat on a chair and she refused and said she wasn't drunk enough. Maybe, it made her feel like a slut, maybe I didn't build enough attraction or didn't escalate right. Oh well, live and learn.
asking as opposed to being indirect is what turned her off. It shows her that u are a novice. Girls want the man to be fully responsible for every step of the seduction process. They do not want to feel like h0es.
 

j0504s

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Nov 29, 2012
Messages
427
Reaction score
23
Location
ConcernedLauries Bed w/ olivia...NY/SoFlo
:-) said:
when it comes to the dating game.

whoever said girls were made of Sugar and spice and all things nice did us no favours.
power puff girls are underaged buddy be careful, also im pretty sure the best your gonna get is some Hentai porn on them...speak to sageproduct about that...hahah
 
Top