Girls are actually crazy......

shinko

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So i was chatting up this girl for a little while. Joking with her, teasing each other, getting txts, calls ,kino both ways blah blah blah. She's abit of a weirdo though, super shy and really suspicious of just about everything. Which pretty much killed any attraction i had for her as time went on, since building comfort became literally a chore and she had the weirdist idea of what constituted flirting ive ever seen.

Anyway tonight she called me, we were chatting and flirting and she drops a right gem on me. She figured that i was someone who was upset easy and that i was probably a violent individual. I asked her to justify her statement and she changed the convo. Im sure in her head she makes sense but as far im concerned Im about as far removed from that perception as east is from west.

Anyway word of advice, if your a confident individual and playful, direct it towards a girl who's like minded and has her confidence together. If they havent they end up projecting all of their insecurities on to you and will always tend on the negative side of whatever their suspicion feeds them. Simply put let someone else have the delight of her company.
 

sam3083

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HAHAHA!
Same situation here - 'crazy chick sex' is good though, lol
 

shinko

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i'd be scared she'd hunt me down after with a crossbow and demand her "purity" back.....and fully expect it was possible
 

insidious

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Yeah man, there are some real nut jobs out there. I think paranoia is one of the most undesirable qualities a person can have, man or woman, but women wear it really badly. There is an element of feminine helplessness which just fuels the fire of paranoia and it's like dealing with a live wire. Watch what you say, watch what you do, because you can count on one thing: she will eventually misinterpret your actions or words. And depending on how close you are to the chick, all hell will break loose! :moon:
 

MotownMack

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Yeah, I definitely try to steer clear of baggage like this.

The key thing that you said is, if in the initial stages, it feels like "work", then it's probably a good sign to move on.
 

Do not be too easy. If you are too easy to get, she will not want you. If you are too easy to keep, she will lose interest in you. If you are too easy to control, she will not respect you.

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