Well, i am going to ask you for some advice. Tommorrow evening, i will be out for a drink with my girlfriend and a group of her friends. I am bringing along one of my friends. Is there any advice that any of you have from having been in this situation before.
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Dimebag_Darrell
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man don't get too involved with that circle of friends and thats the best advice I can give to you
You and your girlfriend are in a relationship. The time you spend together is yours alone. Therefore, it is best to decline situations where you and your girlfriend are surrounded by either her ****blocking friends, or your assgrabbing guys(unless you're really tight with them).
So, to make it easy, don't go. What will happen is that they'll judge you and then try to talk your girl into NOT going out with you...not because there is anything wrong with you, but because they're jealous little eye-clawers. This is high school, man. It doesn't work like the real world.
So, to make it easy, don't go. What will happen is that they'll judge you and then try to talk your girl into NOT going out with you...not because there is anything wrong with you, but because they're jealous little eye-clawers. This is high school, man. It doesn't work like the real world.
Joe The Homophobe
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1. Always avoid her 'girlfriends': getting involved with your girlfriend's b1tchy, gossipy female friends is never a good thing. Always keep a distance to make sure you never socialize with them. Keeping them as 'people you know' rather than people you socialize with or friends. If you socialize and become friends with them you open up yourself for them to mess with you. If you don't become friendly with them it will make them respect you and not mess with you since they don't know you too well to get involved with you.
2. Always avoid going out with your gf and friends: this is always bad because with more people around you lose control of the situation. When in a relationship the man is the leader and the woman follows, women look up to men that lead them. When you are with lots of people you are nolonger the leader, and you might seem weak and you never want your gf seeing that.
Think of it this way. When in a group of people you are always competing. You go out with your gf and your male buddies there is going to be competition whether you like it or not. Whether it be your friend trying to look and sound the coolest, to the guy trying to be the life of the party, or trying to sound the smartest and manliest etc. You don't want your gf in this environment where she won't see you as "THE MAN," an environment where you might not look as good as the other people, the same goes for going with her female friends. This is why always keep your relationship to just the two of you and to hell with your friends etc.
2. Always avoid going out with your gf and friends: this is always bad because with more people around you lose control of the situation. When in a relationship the man is the leader and the woman follows, women look up to men that lead them. When you are with lots of people you are nolonger the leader, and you might seem weak and you never want your gf seeing that.
Think of it this way. When in a group of people you are always competing. You go out with your gf and your male buddies there is going to be competition whether you like it or not. Whether it be your friend trying to look and sound the coolest, to the guy trying to be the life of the party, or trying to sound the smartest and manliest etc. You don't want your gf in this environment where she won't see you as "THE MAN," an environment where you might not look as good as the other people, the same goes for going with her female friends. This is why always keep your relationship to just the two of you and to hell with your friends etc.
A&F Brand Cologne
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why does everybody here think that her friends are your enemies?
the quickest way to your girlfriend's heart is through her friends. if they like you then they will tell her so, frequently, and it will be very good for you.
the quickest way to your girlfriend's heart is through her friends. if they like you then they will tell her so, frequently, and it will be very good for you.
That is somewhat true although if you do go and they judge you badly, then you've just moved down the step ladder a bit if you catch my drift. Go, but be cautious and don't do anything you woulnd't normally do around her. Don't limit yourself to your actions just because there are a few extra girls around. If they block, fine, shake it off. They're the ones that are jealous 
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Luveno is right, don’t go. Oh how I hate ****blockers.
But if you do end up going remember: fight through the blocks, keep your focus on the ball carrier, shoot the gap, go low and follow through on your tackle. Get what I’m trying to say? Good luck
Thank you for all your replies.
The whole first set or replies appear to have a real biased opinion of women, although i recognise the risk inherant in meeting her friends. This is not me wanting to spend time with them as a way of spending time with her, this is them wanting to meet me and me wanting to meet them. I can always leave if it gets too bad as i know some people who are going out nearby.
But thank you all
I was thinking that i could use this as an in. My girlfriend really likes me, if she doesnt, she best split soon because i have girls waiting.
The whole first set or replies appear to have a real biased opinion of women, although i recognise the risk inherant in meeting her friends. This is not me wanting to spend time with them as a way of spending time with her, this is them wanting to meet me and me wanting to meet them. I can always leave if it gets too bad as i know some people who are going out nearby.
But thank you all
WesCottII
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Don't be to intrusive. It's their clique, at the beginning you'll be like a guest. Don't try to be to "in-your-face".
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Very true, everything was going great for this chick and me, but when her friends got involved all my hard work went down the drain.
NEVER go on a date with your girlfriend and "friends" cuz these girls can be REAL mean.
A&F Brand Cologne
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I repeat, you guys are completely wrong.
These girls aren't going to try to ruin their girl-friend's evening by being b1tches to her boyfriend. Get a clue. They want the best for their friend, and I seriously doubt JSH's social skills are so inept that he actively drives new people away from him.
you'll be fine. Make a good impression, but don't make a habit of this.
These girls aren't going to try to ruin their girl-friend's evening by being b1tches to her boyfriend. Get a clue. They want the best for their friend, and I seriously doubt JSH's social skills are so inept that he actively drives new people away from him.
you'll be fine. Make a good impression, but don't make a habit of this.
Lol, all that effort for nothing, thanks for the input. It all went fine, except for my friends. Her friends all were interested in me for about 5 minutes and then turned back to doing nothing really. However, i had fun with her. Unfortunately, my friend who i brought (she said i should bring someone) tried to hit on her friends (i guessed this would happen and failed), but he was in a crude mood and talked to my gf about wanking and generally made an ass of himself. Then he made us follow her friends to another bar, which they lef after a while.
I had fun, one of her friends really likes me and is really nice, the rest of them semed to be uninterested. Anyway this was just the first round as these were her school friends and not her real "best friends", Great. Ahh well, i played it cool and had fun, i just know next time to go on my own.
I had fun, one of her friends really likes me and is really nice, the rest of them semed to be uninterested. Anyway this was just the first round as these were her school friends and not her real "best friends", Great. Ahh well, i played it cool and had fun, i just know next time to go on my own.
Michael Chief
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Um.
Don't go.
In any kind of relationship, you need to let the girl have some time and space for her own fun with her girlfriends. Let her live her own life. Give her a little sense of independence from romance.
If you're going to be out with her and her friends like its just a casual thing and it's no big deal, not only will it ruin their whole "girls night out" kinda deal, it will force her to take you for granted - she will see you a little more of a friend and a little less of a lover. You do not want this. You will lose respect.
Don't do this kind of thing unless it's your harem and you are the obvious dominant leader of the pvssy pack.
Don't go.
In any kind of relationship, you need to let the girl have some time and space for her own fun with her girlfriends. Let her live her own life. Give her a little sense of independence from romance.
If you're going to be out with her and her friends like its just a casual thing and it's no big deal, not only will it ruin their whole "girls night out" kinda deal, it will force her to take you for granted - she will see you a little more of a friend and a little less of a lover. You do not want this. You will lose respect.
Don't do this kind of thing unless it's your harem and you are the obvious dominant leader of the pvssy pack.
Lol, id already gone, and guess what, im going to ignore your advice. Thanks for posting, however, i already let her miss me enough. They werent her real close friends, i bet i know stuff already that she hasnt told them. I think im advanced enough to break the rules.
Michael Chief
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even better
wavejams007
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Amen.
