Girlfriend's Friends' Views

[BigWillyStyle]

"Her friends' opinions will make or break you." I heard something to that effect in the movie 'Hitch'; and I think there's some truth to it.

In the initial stages of dating, how important is it that your girlfriend's friends like you?

I ask because when previous GF's introduced me to their female friends, I noticed that if I wasn't liked, then that relationship was over within weeks. However, if most liked me, I stuck around for a bit longer.

So, especially for younger girlfriends (i.e. late teens early twenties), how much influence do you think their friends have over their thoughts and actions?

 

[Weezy]

I try and avoid hanging out with her friends until I've got 4-5 dates and she's locked down, after that happens it doesn't matter what her friends think.

 

[catman]

Not all but most women will choose their friends over their husbands,boyfriends,even their own children?They also accuse you of spending all your time with your friends while they themselves spend infinite amounts of time with their friends?Does it matter if they like you ?Hell yes it does!!! They run just about everything through their friends first regardless of what they tell you too.The friends know alot more than you will ever know from her cheaten on you to her wanting a divorce you are always the last to know:kick: !! You need the friends husbands and boyfriends to accept- like you too cause if you go out as couples you dont want to be stuck with people you dont like or get along with do you?Sad but true....... She needs to get along with my friends and family too if she going to be in my life a well .You aint got to love them just tollarate em

 

[SleepyRangerMedic82D]

I will disagree with the importance of this. While her friends will need to bless off on your status and physical appearance, if you are an attractive dude with a high status level and confidence she is going to wait until you are exclusive to introduce you. She doesn't want you to start gaming her friends

 

[catman]

I will disagree with the importance of this. While her friends will need to bless off on your status and physical appearance, if you are an attractive dude with a high status level and confidence she is going to wait until you are exclusive to introduce you. She doesn't want you to start gaming her friends

No woman wants you to game their friends.Whats that got to do with her friends likeing him?