Girlfriend will not perform oral/BJ, nor does she want me to go down on her. WTF!?

[skinnyguy]

I think it's unanimous, why are you still with her?

I can't believe you stayed and qualified yourself after that extreme disrespect. I mean she literally made you her b-tch, no exaggeration.

Nothing about the conversation was mature, it was straight up "look muthaf-cka, I'm the queen bee and you better know your place."

If you continue seeing this chick...

If a guy thinks he's going to get laid, he'll stick around even if he knows the girl is a serial killer.

 

[El Payaso]

If a guy thinks he's going to get laid, he'll stick around even if he knows the girl is a serial killer.

Lol. Hilarious. As psychotic as that sounds, it's somewhat true.

 

[RagingBalls]

And what if a guy was into that? I read tons of different things online that people are into, that I never hear people admit in real life because folks want to shame them for their preferences.

Now do I "swap" fluids with a girl? No. Do I enthusiastically kiss a girl after either of us have performed oral? I most certainly do. I know what I taste like, and it doesnt bother me. Despite some dudes acting like its gross to kiss a girl after oral...theres plenty of us who dont give a fvk. Let her swallow and then kiss me after...Im not bothered. Sh!t...I expect the girl to kiss me after Im done giving her the good tongue, so why would I get squeamish about my own stuff?

Yeah man just do your thing, whatever it is. That's all good in my book as long as you enjoy yourselves and don't hurt other people along the way.

Indeed, If a person was into that? It doesn't make them "bad" just because some people branded themselves as good who doesn't know how it feels like for these people. If that's the case, it's unfair for them to judge and shame these people. I could say the same things to other people's hobbies etc. It boils down to respecting one's preference from your own.

 

[G_Govan]

If a guy thinks he's going to get laid, he'll stick around even if he knows the girl is a serial killer.

You misunderstand, it was a rhetorical question. I know exactly why he stuck around. This is why the rest of us men can't have nice things. Too much supplicating by the average guy.

 

[JoeMarron]

I dig the fact that you arent a hypocrite about this. Plenty of men and women wont give, but will gladly receive oral.

Regarding sex juices...I enthusiastically kiss a woman after anything we do in bed. I dont mind our fluids, and look for women who feel the same. My ex actually used to piss me off...because she would give head and swallow....but would be standoffish about me kissing her after I went down. That sh!t just ruins the moment. Its like "b!tch i just got done taking care of this and you wont even taste it yourself? fvk outta here" lol

I have my own sexual turn off though and its anal. I just find it gross as hell, and have no desire for any sort of anal play. Seeing it porn actually makes me fast forward or change the video. Also, part of the reason I dislike anal is because I know most women dislike it...so I couldnt get into something I know a woman didnt like.

I mean, if a girl asked me to do it...i miiiiiiight try it in the shower. But Ive yet to meet a woman who wanted it. Most women want oral and the D. Anal seems to usually be something dudes want for their own pleasure. To each their own, I find it odd to want bum. I screw women for the vag.

This. I don't mind sex fluids at all. Hell I'm cool with pretty much any fluids coming from that general area. Anal on the other hand is nasty as fvck. I'd try it if a chick really wanted it but I'd have to go in wrapped, no way in hell I'm going in raw.

 

[Turuwal]

"if you're not cool with that then you know where the door is"

Bloody hell! This is an insta-fail in each and every school of DJ, PUA and KJ in the game. I have deleted the number while walking out the front door for a hell of a lot less than this.

And dinner dates without sex? I'm sure that's illegal in at least 46 states.

Here's some advice regarding sexual acts that a girl is holding out on. Firstly she might be inexperienced so you as the experienced man can guide her through. Secondly she might be playing games. This is almost certainly the case for you. Tell her that the only way you are ever certain that a girl is into you is that she does everything with you. Walk away if the thing she won't do is a dealbreaker. If she likes you then she will get with the program. Be persistent and do not back down. NEVER ASK HER TO DO SOMETHING. SIMPLY COMMAND!

 

[qwayqway]

If I trust the girl (relationship worthy) and her hygiene is on point, I eat ass and go in raw dog. Same goes for the juices, bring it on, I'll kiss right after I nut in her mouth, in fact, I've never even thought about it till now, its just part of the primal urge. I could never be with a chick who draws all these boundaries in bed, or isn't enthusiastic about sex. Find someone your compatible with. And also, most women will try almost anything if they are attracted, turned on, and trust you enough. Its about pushing the right buttons, most of these girls aren't prudes deep down, behind closed doors they want to be man handled, dominated, ordered, and treated like wh0res.

Even this girl OP is talking about, someone somewhere could get whatever they want from her sexually.

 

[lizardfloyd]

Some background info. on her: She is kind of old-fashioned and came from a strict religious family upbringing. She was born and raised in the "bible-belt" of the south, as was I and the majority of the people that I know. She attends church every Sunday on a regular basis. Donates time to help multiple charities. She was in a very up-tight sorority in college that kind of sucked. The girls in her sorority were 50/50, in matter of attractiveness and coolness.

I honestly think that she is inexperienced and some of the previous things mentioned have something to do with the hesitation. I know that I should have dug down deeper when getting to know her, but I didn't want to un-earth some crazy emotional Pandora's box thing. But I am still pissed the fvck off about the ultimatum thing. If I hadn't been so buzzed off the beer that we had drank, I would have definitely left or at least went out to my truck and waited to she if she would of came out to stop me. Sorry, but I'm not fond of drinking and driving.

She even told me that she has my birthday present picked out for me, which is a month from now. And she was/is in talks of planning a weekend trip together to go see our favorite rival baseball teams play each other in a few weeks. Very confused!

 

[chath]

You just posted like 8 red flags, why do you want to be around her again? I really think you can do better. fvck her if you want, and find someone else in the meantime.

She sounds like that "mother hen" i have to disarm when I approach a group of girls at a bar.

 

[crazyboy]

sigh look fool if women like you she will do anything you tell her to do. but she most likely playing games. on that notes you should of walk out that damn apartment and told her i dont appreciated ultimatum. Unless chick a true virgin and chick that make you wait is hoe trying to pretend to be saintly.

 

[Pardner]

I've been dating this girl for 2 months now. We're not officially a couple, but she is starting to hint that we need to be official.

Why do you call her a girlfriend if you're not official? It's looks more official that she wants you out the door. Do yourself a favor and walk out the door for good.

 

[Maximus Rex]

Huh???

And what if a guy was into that? I read tons of different things online that people are into, that I never hear people admit in real life because folks want to shame them for their preferences.

Now do I "swap" fluids with a girl? No. Do I enthusiastically kiss a girl after either of us have performed oral? I most certainly do. I know what I taste like, and it doesnt bother me. Despite some dudes acting like its gross to kiss a girl after oral...theres plenty of us who dont give a fvk. Let her swallow and then kiss me after...Im not bothered. Sh!t...I expect the girl to kiss me after Im done giving her the good tongue, so why would I get squeamish about my own stuff?

This post is suspect as hell.

 

[old_skoolr]

All girls put out.


If she aint putting out for you then you dont need to be around her.


Pure and simple

 

[GS750]

She'd give Channing Tatum a blowie. Sorry...couldnt resist.

 

[goldengoose]

the most that she has let me do is finger-bang and go down on her.

She doesn't want you man, now she doesn't even want you to go down on her. It's not about sexual compatibility, it's about her not wanting to be sexual with you. Some other guy she wants, she will let her do those things to her, she will do those things for him.

 

[SgtSplacker]

She just wants to be friends.

When she showed you the door, you shoulda left and deleted her from all platforms.

Case closed. Get out of my court.

I'm with Nismo on this one.

F THAT!!!!!

Downgrade to plate and keep on looking, this ones broken. The BJ button is stuck on sucks. It needs to go all the way down to "Sucks D1ck" for it to work right.

She sounds pretty demanding, bet she's gonna have some high requirements and all while she's not blowing you. :nono: