backbreaker said:
The question in it's premise is not fair.
you are assuming that she would not do the same thing, like by her asking the question, she's somehow not eligible to leave if she found someone better.
Tell her honestly, i'd probably leave, just like you would leave if you found someone much better than me. But as long as you keep doing what you did to make me want to date you, there won't be anyone better
that way you get 1. the truth out and 2. you get an "awww you are so sweet" moment/kiss/nookie.
Agreed. Be honest with her, but also tell her what she wants to hear. You don't ALWAYS have to tell your girlfriend the truth. You could also take the approach of just saying "that won't ever happen, you're the only girl I want" blah blah.. but one important lesson I learned is that it doesn't really matter what your words say, it's what you say with your actions. You can tell a girl you love her, and want to be with her forever, and anything an AFC would say, but if your actions aren't consistent with it (you ignore her at times, are hard to get a hold of, indifferent etc...) then it doesn't matter, (but they LOVE it and it confuses the fvck out of them). And in all honesty, this is what girls want. Tell them what they want to hear at that moment, so they FEEL good/special, and then continue to do what you do (occasional distance/indifference), and she will love you forever (maybe).
You should always keep a girl on her toes, but remember you have other tools in your arsenal other than words. And you also don't have to cheat/pay mind to other women to remind her that you have other options. If you know what I mean.
Your gf is simply looking for reassurance right now. Be honest, but soften it up and tell her what she wants to hear at the end of it. In backbreaker's example, the only part your girlfriend is going to listen to is "But as long as you keep doing what you did to make me want to date you, there won't be anyone better", women have selective hearing like that.
-Scars