Girlfriend Wants To Meet My Friends, But I don't have Any

[Velasco]

You presume that a cool guy with a girlfriend would want to hang out with a guy that has no friends

No. I know he's an introvert and would much rather spend his free time playing video games and going to the gym than going out of his way making friends.

It's not a priority to him because as you can see. Even with no friends, you can land yourself a girlfriend (hint hint: corrector/matureDJ). I presume a cooler guy would hang out with zim, simply due to the fact that zim, when he feels like it, is capable of turning on his extroverted charm (having a girlfriend is a priority to him, therefore...). Seeing as how, making a friend from work is now a priority to him, he can turn on the charm. That's been my experience.

 

[darksprezzatura]

Sounds like you don't have friends not by choice. If you'd chosen to not have friends this would be a non-issue.

 

[2Rocky]

I will admit Social Media has made it a lot easier to maintain male friendships....

 

[Zimbabwe]

. Have you tried a rent-a-friend service? Or, hire one on Fiverr?

“I paid $47 an hour for someone to be my friend”

Is this a cure for the loneliness epidemic?

www.vox.com

https://www.fiverr.com/search/gigs?query=friend&source=main_banner&search_in=everywhere&search-autocomplete-original-term=friend
Or, you can hire an actor or actors and say you are doing film where all the people are acting like friends and hanging out, etc. Eventually though, this will come out. Should this go anywhere, she'd be more hurt that you lied to her than tell her the truth.

I got an idea from this, I can hire a really hot girl and go to a bar with her. If girls see me come in with a really hot girl it would be great DHV.

TBH, since you already fvcked her, just be honest. Look, I am working on my purpose and my friends and I just lost track of time. Their doing their life and I'm doing mine. It's all good. We talk and chat at times, but not really hang out IRL. Something like that is believable and is a safe answer.

I think that's the answer i like most, i can use my purpose as an excuse. But eventually i need to actually start making male friends

 

[Zimbabwe]

Sounds like you don't have friends not by choice. If you'd chosen to not have friends this would be a non-issue.

50% my fault since i put no effort in maintaining friendships from highschool and university, but 50% there fault since they didn't either. I think i just focused way too much on picking up women instead of making friends.

The thing is the few times i did try to organise things with friends in the past, they mostly made flaky excuses while women i date show up no questions asked. Eventually i just stopped trying with friends unless i need something from them.

 

[Jack22]

If you want friends, I recommend going out and playing some sports. Sometimes, I go play basketball recreationally on a popular court and meet a lot of decent guys there. Made a few friends that way. Or go to a community pool and give the guys learning to swim a few tips on their stroke if that's your thing. There's so many ways out there to meet new people, but I know you're in Australia which is basically in a gulag phase right now so I don't really blame you.

 

[RickTheToad]

I got an idea from this, I can hire a really hot girl and go to a bar with her. If girls see me come in with a really hot girl it would be great DHV.




I think that's the answer i like most, i can use my purpose as an excuse. But eventually i need to actually start making male friends

 

[zinc4]

I've never had any girl I've been with "demand" to meet my friends. Nor do I think a girl you consider to be your girlfriend, asking to meet your friends after months/years of dating, to be a red flag either.

Wanting to meet your friends is simply another tool to size you up in her mind which automatically means to me she is somewhat on the fence in her mind about you for a LTR.

 

[SW15]

Bumble has a thing to make friends.

Men need to make friends in real life, not using Bumble or Meetup.

fvck weddings, the day I meet a woman that’s fine with a court house wedding, I’m proposing

The courthouse wedding is better than the typical big fancy secular wedding. Church weddings still occasionally happen too.

You presume that a cool guy with a girlfriend would want to hang out with a guy that has no friends.

Established couples and men who are either unattached or tend to short term attach do not tend to run in the same social circles after one's mid to late 20s.

 

[Dash Riprock]

Tell her your best friends are out of state or have moved and everyone keeps in touch via text and occasional get togethers. You have a few acquaintances locally but no one you consider close. You've been taking the past few years to build your career, wealth, more education, and health. You're a busy man. And just leave it at that. Women do find the driven, focused, lone wolf types very alluring. Think James Bond.

 

[Rainman4707]

I would'nt care. You don't have to go out with her friends. If she dosent like it...tough.

 

[MatureDJ]

Tell her your best friends are out of state or have moved and everyone keeps in touch via text and occasional get togethers. You have a few acquaintances locally but no one you consider close. You've been taking the past few years to build your career, wealth, more education, and health. You're a busy man. And just leave it at that. Women do find the driven, focused, lone wolf types very alluring. Think James Bond.

Since I only mack chicks when GeoMaxxing, I just say all my friends are out of the country.