Girlfriend wanted to kiss me after she gave me a BJ

[Bud_Fox]

About 10 minutes after she gave me a BJ (and swallowed) she wanted to kiss me, but I just gave her a hug and said good night.

I think she is now pissed. What would you guys do in this situation?

 

[WC2]

About 10 minutes after she gave me a BJ (and swallowed) she wanted to kiss me, but I just gave her a hug and said good night.

I think she is now pissed. What would you guys do in this situation?

It's your own stuff bro. If she can swallow it, so can you. Let me guess, you won't eat her out either?

 

[Walking Anomaly]

Man she just blew you...the least you can do is give her a kiss.

 

[Zaraza]

Its a kiss, she just sucked you off!, and all she wanted back was a kiss! Shoulda gave her the kiss.

 

[randalll]

definately should of yeah.

unless she tries it before swallowing i don't see what the problem is

 

[Charm&Style]

good job, your girlfriend feels like a dirty little wh0re now.

 

[mpimpin]

haha I hope she gives you another..

 

[horaholic]

Just do it. You're not gonna taste anything, unless she she hasnt swallowed it all. My ex kissed my 30 seconds after taking one, and I didnt taste anything.

You should make it up to her by having give another one! ...then kissing her afterwards.

 

[pua1989]

i would just say your concerns to her, and then say "in retrospect it was pretty childish, so how about we try it again?"

 

[KontrollerX]

You did the right thing.

Its your life.

If you don't want to taste your own load and find out what it would be like to be Big Bubba's cellmate you certainly won't find a critic in me sir. :crackup:

Thing is though these sort of things should be cleared up with a chick at the very beginning of your relationship/interaction/whatever.

Where you basically talk to eachother about your likes and dislikes, do's and don'ts.

That way you would've avoided this awkward and painful moment.

Anyway though a blowj0b is not a special thing.

AFC mentality creeps up on even the best of DJ's and supports this feminine social convention as being oh so very special and deserving of reward and high esteem but really if a woman really loves a guy it should be an after thought kind of event and all a guy's role should be is receiving it and not going out of his way to make his woman feel bad about having done it.

You didn't go out of your way to make her feel bad you simply failed early on to communicate that this type of going for a kiss after taking a mouth full of your load was a no go.

You fvcked up.

No big deal and if she breaks up with you over it then she didn't care for you all that much anyway and you are better off.

Also if she does the resentment power play to you over this just go hook up with other chicks and forget about her.

Life is too short to waste your time on head game's.

Though if she comes to you and honestly wants to talk about how your rejection of her kiss made her feel explain that this was not your intention and that you should of explained to her sooner that this would not be cool with you and that you are sorry for not doing so.

Simple.

Done.

And you never have to taste your own load like those of strong AFC mentality are apparently quite fond of doing. :yes: :crackup:

 

[02hero]

Her forehead is your friend in that situation. Kiss her there if you don't fancy a taste of your own baby batter.

 

[Leporello]

Big deal. My gf lets me kiss her after going down on her. It's not going to turn you go and whatever STDs are in it are in your body already.

 

[Smack]

She swallowed so the *** is not going to be lingering in her mouth or teeth (contrary to popular belief, swallowing is the fastest way for her to get rid of your ***; spitting it out makes it stay in her mouth and teeth for ages). I would've just gave her the kiss.

 

[amoka]

Kiss the girl.

 

[AAAgent]

with my ex she tried to kiss me so many times and i would just give her the cheek or kiss her on the cheek. She got mad but eventually she would go brush her teeth afterwards and come back. I would give a big kiss then. She would kiss me though after i went down on her.

 

[r0cky]

Theres the risk that the bjs will stop if you dont kiss her. Or even worse she'll feel like a dirty w.h0re and you'll have to hear her complain about that to no end. Next time just dont let her swallow it if you feel so repulsed that you wont kiss her.