Girlfriend treats me like a "friend" around MY friends

[PeasantPlayer]

I'm not stepping my game up for any woman, why? because I don't give a ****. I am not a womans personal toy or clown, if she wants to move on she can

 

[Meisterman]

It's possible that she is giving off the vibe that she's "still on the market" to your friends. However it's also possible you're just insecure. You see your guy friends who are single and good looking, and then your gf talks or jokes with them. And you're ego is possessive about her and wants to claim her as 'yours.' You just gotta let go and ease up.

But much easier said than done. I don't blame you for feeling the way you do. And without knowing the situation fully, it's impossible for us to say whether she is hitting on them or just being friendly. But I think the best think you can do, which was already mentioned in this thread, is separate bro time from girl time. There are times you chill with your bros, and there are times you chill with your gf. But try to separate them as much as possible.

As long as you are inviting your GF to tag along while hanging with your bros, and vice versa, you are enabling anything that may happen between them. Stop being an enabler. Keep them separate and if she still hooks up with them then you know she's a ho and you saved yourself wasted time from a dumb girl and a fake bro.

 

[Serenity]

You're afraid of your girlfriend and you're on a slippery slope with that jealousy going on. You're fvcking up, you know it and you know what to do.

 

[El Payaso]

Don't invite her out anymore and withdraw attention.

 

[Vulpine]

today I really took notice when I invited her out with me and my best dude and we were playing card games and he made a joke towards me and she piggybacked on it. I wanted to slap the **** out of her for even thinking about pulling some crap like that.

instead I just dismissed all attention and told her I was going home alone. then when we were leaving she was like "what's wrong with you?". Obviously she knew her behavior was abnormal or I was not putting up with this anymore.

SO, let me get this straight. Your "friend" makes a joke about you, then she chimes in and makes fun of you too, so you offer to leave them together (...to ƒuck)?

I should ask "what's wrong with you?", too.

I treat my girlfriend like a "friend" when we're out and about, too. Your girl's game is tighter than yours, apparently. Got your hamster spinnin'!