Girlfriend tells me she needs vibrator because I don't make her orgasm 21 times a day

[RaiderMan]

Been seeing this girl for three months. We've gotten along great and for the past two weeks, hung out at my place every night for two weeks.

She likes to drink and smoke weed as I do, so we've done that every night.

The problem is, that tends to affect my libido. I am 44. She is 41.

I also suffer from a hormonal imbalance that requires me to inject myself with testosterone, which can make my libido even more unpredictable.

The other night we were having sex and she came already and I realized I wasn't going to have an orgasm, which happens sometimes, so I told her to get off me, that I wasn't going to c_m that night.

She got off and went to sleep and I got on my iPad and started surfing the net and I came across a photo of a hot girl and I suddenly got horny again, so I started masturbating right in the bed next to her.

I didn't think too much of it because a couple of weeks earlier she bought a vibrator, which she has used spontaneously on occasion, sometimes before we have sex or sometimes after.

I always make her c_m once, twice and sometimes three times because I can lost a long time, even if I don't end up cumming because of the drink and smoke.

But she woke up and busted me as soon as I came and got really pissed off.

I told her she shouldn't make that big of an issue about it because I don't make an issue of her playing with her vibrator.

Then she snapped at me and said, "Well, you don't make me c_m 21 times a day."

I let that go but the following day we were talking and I tried to explain that it really wasn't her but my hormonal issues plus the fact that we are high and drunk most of the time, which makes it harder for me to c_m.

Then she said she had a previous boyfriend who made her c_m 21 times in a day.

It's obvious she said that to cut me down because she was hurt that I had jacked off instead of having sex with her, but I have to be honest, those words remained ingrained in my mind.

We are still technically in a relationship but things have cooled off.

Part of me wants to break up with her and send her and vibrator on her way in the hopes she will find that magic d_ck that will make her c_m 21 times a day.

But she is a fun girl and we've had more good times than bad, but as I mentioned earlier, those words remain ingrained in my mind.

Just wondering what feedback you guys may have.

 

[Married Buried]

I would tell her I need a new p/ssy, because hers isn't tight enough.

 

[Neon Owl]

Fvck her, man. Tell her to call up this sex god who makes her cvm no-stop if that's what she's after.

You should never put up with your girl making you feel bad about sexual issues beyond your control. It's not worth trading your self esteem for.

 

[Down Low]

So, you took Viagra and Extenze, invited friends and strangers off the street to orgy-service the sex priestess, and started Web-camming the all-day all-night no-man's-good-enough show on the bondage channel, then finally gave up and let the real men with the big pee pees take over, while you passive watched and whacked off in the library?

Or is this whole thing a p0rn fantasy you just passively watched and whacked off to in the library?

Man-hating troll thread.

Gay.

 

[RaiderMan]

Are you accusing me of being a troll, Down Low?

 

[Who Dares Win]

Guess I have to buy 21 vibrators for the last 21 girls I bang to which I didnt give a single one

Op not sure if u're a troll or genuine just know that there are really few guys which can give a girl 21 orgasms per day, those guys are chuck norris, jesus christ and the orgasm fvck bot from heavy metal the movie.

 

[RaiderMan]

I'm not a troll. She explained that the guy had his own medical issues so took Viagra and was able to keep it hard while she had all these orgasms even though he didn't have nearly as many or any.

I just found it very hypocritical that I am supposed to accept her masturbating with a vibrator but she gets all bent out of shape if I masturbate to some chick on the Internet.

She told me that no other guy has ever done that before.

Suddenly, all the guys she told me were *******s before were the nicest guys.

What bothers me is that I find it disrespectful that she is comparing me to past boyfriends. I could do the same to her but I don't.

I've had hotter girls in the past because I was younger and they were younger.

I've had tighter girls in the past but I don't throw that in her face.

We met in January and she was all into me from the start. A month later, we were in a relationship on FB on her insistence.

I told her about my medical issues and she said that was not a problem. That she just didn't want to lied to or cheated on, which I assured her I won't.

Now she wants "space," which is ironic because she was the one coming over to my place every night, but I am giving her space and I'm contemplating breaking up with her.

I just don't want to make a rash decision because she is cool and attractive and we normally get along great.

I just wonder if this little blowup is going to create lingering resentment on both sides.

 

[RaiderMan]

Wtf, guys, are you so paranoid that anybody who joins the forum is considered a troll until they build up a post count?

I had a question that concerned me, so I started googling and came across this site.

 

[RaiderMan]

Seriously, I have too much going on in my life to waste my time trolling here. What would I get out of it?

 

[Married Buried]

Seriously, I have too much going on in my life to waste my time trolling here. What would I get out of it?

I told you what to tell this b!tch. What else do you want?

 

[Colossus]

Raiderman,

Ignore the haters. Regarding your girl, she's being disrespectful. You cant tolerate that kind of behavior. I've had girls say things like that in the past, and you're right, you cant forget that sh!t.

Probably what's going to happen is you will let it blow over and have this slow, smoldering resentment towards each other. Personally, I would either ignore her completely for a while until she gets the message, or just dump her.

Also, maybe quit drinking and smoking weed every night? That's certainly not helping your testosterone or libido.

 

[the_untold_history]

you just need to get higher and drunker. problem solved.

 

[LMFAO]

Dump her. Tell her to go back to go **** her old boyfriend if he was so good. It's over.

 

[Zarky]

Meh, you hurt her feeling and so she retaliated. These are the types of things that sink relationships. Either decide if the relp is worth it and start communicating better with each other (if possible) or dump her and find someone else.

Chicks get that old and they get extremely thin-skinned. It's the reverse of 20-somethings whom you have to bring down.. 40-something women you constantly have to prop up.

 

[RaiderMan]

Meh, you hurt her feeling and so she retaliated. These are the types of things that sink relationships. Either decide if the relp is worth it and start communicating better with each other (if possible) or dump her and find someone else.

Chicks get that old and they get extremely thin-skinned. It's the reverse of 20-somethings whom you have to bring down.. 40-something women you constantly have to prop up.

You nailed it.

 

[MikeOck]

Yep, her ego was bruised. Women take it personally when we don't orgasm, they seem to think we can cvm from just having a pretty girl sitting on our lap, so if we don't cvm when they gave it their best it is taken as an insult to their beauty and sexual skills. The fact that you were then able to finish to internet porn really pushed her over the edge no doubt.

Honestly though, I don't finish every time either, so I have a few suggestions for you:

1) Learn to fake it. Most women are masters of it, but we men can fake it too. My personal favorite technique is to go doggy style, pull out, moan/grunt/whatever you normally do and (quietly) spit on her back. Grab a tissue and wipe it off of her back before she has a chance to notice. Get creative, find what works for you, but mastering this can save a relationship.

2) Stop looking at porn and stop masturbating. Seriously, it is a very common addiction these days thanks to the internet but it can really mess with your ability to climax with an actual woman. I guarantee that if you don't masturbate for a week or two you'll be finishing with her more than ever (and your libido will go up dramatically too).

 

[scrouds]

I let that go but the following day we were talking and I tried to explain that it really wasn't her but my hormonal issues plus the fact that we are high and drunk most of the time, which makes it harder for me to c_m.

Your frame lost and completely destroyed here.

Just wondering what feedback you guys may have.

Next time a chick catches you jerking it, just tell her you're getting her snack ready. Take THAT attitude to the bank.

 

[glass half full]

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