happyman2012
Don Juan
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Been with my girlfriend for about 5 months now and shes great in every other way. She used to be a social smoker but ive said to her if she were to start again I wouldnt be with her.
I had a feeling just a gut feeling that she was smoking again but she swore to me she wasnt and turns out she lied and lied and lied about it.
Saw text messages on her phone from her friend: my girlfriend had said to her friend that they cant smoke infront of me and that she nearly got dropped in it the other day by her sister infront of me (about her smoking)
I played it cool and didnt tell her id seen the texts. I said that night though that if I found out she was smoking that would be her finished. Made it crystal clear. She said that she wouldnt do anything to **** our relationship up and that she wouldnt like it if I did drugs so she wouldnt smoke!
Then this morning I felt like I had to bring it up because it was on my mind.I asked her about the texts and why shed lied to me and sworn that she didnt smoke. She said that she knew Id leave her if she told me and that she only does it every now and again. She also said she decided after we spoke about it the other night that she would stop because it isnt fair on me and she didnt wanna **** things up and ruin our relationship.
The question is though...should I belive her? Shes lied to me about it alot and one of rules of the relationship is to always be honest.
I had a feeling just a gut feeling that she was smoking again but she swore to me she wasnt and turns out she lied and lied and lied about it.
Saw text messages on her phone from her friend: my girlfriend had said to her friend that they cant smoke infront of me and that she nearly got dropped in it the other day by her sister infront of me (about her smoking)
I played it cool and didnt tell her id seen the texts. I said that night though that if I found out she was smoking that would be her finished. Made it crystal clear. She said that she wouldnt do anything to **** our relationship up and that she wouldnt like it if I did drugs so she wouldnt smoke!
Then this morning I felt like I had to bring it up because it was on my mind.I asked her about the texts and why shed lied to me and sworn that she didnt smoke. She said that she knew Id leave her if she told me and that she only does it every now and again. She also said she decided after we spoke about it the other night that she would stop because it isnt fair on me and she didnt wanna **** things up and ruin our relationship.
The question is though...should I belive her? Shes lied to me about it alot and one of rules of the relationship is to always be honest.