Girlfriend says "sex hurts"

[sustainable007]

Next her

My X would ***** that it hurts in a similar way that you are describing....this is not good for you cause it will bother you and it will affect your confidence...FYI: when my x decided to split she told me i didnt satisfy her? Kinda ironic isnt it...it hurts...but shes not getting satisfied....IMO: if a girl respects u shell fix this problem on her own and she wouldnt b1tch at you about it and use it as an excuse.....Further, id never stay with a girl who told me that again, telling you that it hurts has bad news written all over it...do yourself a favor and walk away from this.

 

[brod716]

Re: Next her

Originally posted by sustainable007
Further, id never stay with a girl who told me that again, telling you that it hurts has bad news written all over it...do yourself a favor and walk away from this.

With all due respect, the last thing I want to do is to "walk away from this." I've learned that life ain't that easy - and I believe sex can be even more fun for us if she's open enough for us to experiment and make it fun and pleasurable and get rid of the pain. Walking away would be the easy way out and I would lose out on a great relationship.

 

[G_S]

Slip it in her pooper.

 

[Slickster]

Is your d*ck clean?

I hear that a sweaty d*ck can cause some pain like burning.

 

[brod716]

Originally posted by Slickster
Is your d*ck clean?

I hear that a sweaty d*ck can cause some pain like burning.

 

[Slickster]

What does that mean?

Sorry didn't read the whole thread but I've had that happen to me in the past. (the sweaty d*ck thing that is)

Just trying to help no need to get snooty.

 

[Healer]

Sometimes KY gives women yeast infections, because that stuff is not very easy to clean out and ends up stagnating inside her.
Sex probably hurts during a yeast infection.

You need to learn how to make good foreplay to turn her on so much so that she cannot resist you. Do some research on G-spots and ****oral massages.

Learn to go down on her, with the right ammount of pressure and speed.

 

[AnOlderMan]

My ex-wife had a similar problem early in our marriage. It turned out that she would get microscopic tears in the skin around her vagina. She had the problem for years and didn't know why sex hurt. The doctor gave her some estrogen cream and the problem cleared up in a few days. She never had pain again.

 

[Andrew]

-----Dood, when was the last time she got check for STDS? Some STDS make sex painful, like the most common being chlamydia.-----

 

[iqqi]

look, men, sometimes there are deeper reasons for this prob, but understand

THE MOST COMMON REASON FOR SEX HURTING IS LUBRICATION

so exhaust that possibility before you really go in depth here...

 

[Pancho]

Originally posted by G_S
Slip it in her pooper.

LMAO...WTF???

 

[seeVip]

ID definetly spend alot of time on foreplay tease her to REALLY get her juices going. You shoudl already be doing this since you are a DJ , but anyhow give it a little more. Now there are some girls, very few that have tiny entrances. Nomatter how hard you try or even if it feels like ur going to rip it off, what you have to do is press her stomach down with y our thumbs, while holding her while she is laying down with a pillow under her put. and do take it slow. Hope this will help!