Girlfriend said "break up with me"

[NewMan]

She says this because she is seeking validation from you that she is worthy!!! She wants you to tell her that she means something to you!

This is what is happening.....

She has probably not dated many quality men - mostly young guys - perhaps only young guys.

My thoughts is that she wants you to open up and tell her that you want her etc. etc. and that she doesn't embarass you.

 

[frivolousz21]

If you have a gf and she is telling you to break up with her for whateer reason...take her advice and get a women that will be better to you.

there are many many women out there...like Millions!

 

[SMOAK]

Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
She says this because she is seeking validation from you that she is worthy!!! She wants you to tell her that she means something to you! Are you saying things or not saying things that make her feel unattractive or unworthy??

Agreed->She wants attention

 

[Marcus]

i swear some of yoiu mutha****ers are so dumb and dont have NO clue about women. If a women says these kinda things to you its because she dosne t ffeel she is good enough for you and she really likes and just wants to be the best for you . It could be a m number of reasons why shes feels like this and honestly i think your making her feel llike this because! you dont open up to her andtell her how much she means to you and make her feel loved ..ive been through the same shyt i know ...for all you dumb mutha****ers that think you should leave a girl because she says this have no clue about women and i doub you will marry

 

[frivolousz21]

ive told women the same thing because I didnt want to be with them anymore..this was back yrs ago when I was a teenager..but still..I didnt need Validation

 

[NewMan]

ive told women the same thing because I didnt want to be with them anymore..this was back yrs ago when I was a teenager..but still..I didnt need Validation

yeah, but you 'ain't no b#tch.

 

[Sir Lancelot]

I'm going to agree with the folks saying that she's seeking validation from you. If she really wanted things to end that badly she'd just break up with you herself or just cut contact with you.

 

[CLOONEY]

Originally posted by theSpeculator
CLOONEY,

Me and my friends know this guy that is very clueless about a lot of things in life. But he has a very high inflated ego. He completely gets no respect from guys AND girls. Whenever we see him we, we would call him names like "Big Pimp", "Player", or "Sex Machine" even though we don't really think it's true. But behind his back we are laughing at him. Girls would say thing to him like "You're really sexy", "You're so hot, I can't control myself", "I am in love with you because you're so hot." But behind his back, the girls are making fun of him. This guy is sad, and the worst part is that he doesn't even realize it. He is pathetic.

CLOONEY, it sound like you are the same way. There is no way you would look both like CLOONEY, or JUDE LAW, or BECKHAM because all of them have very different and distinguishable looks. Your friends are probably saying that to make fun of you behind your back. As for the crazy "feromones" (it is spelled pheromones), we say similar things to that guy above and we laugh when he actually believe it.

He gets not respect from guys and girls, and CLOONEY I bet you don't either. Like I said before, I think you have a very inflated ego. You are a COWARD because instead of directly replying with a "theSpeculator, I do not agree with you" you sneakingly go around facing me directly by indirect comments like "Maybe my new scalp will become this speculator character." (which is not very humorous)

If you had checked your dictionary speculator is a noun, so it does not work before the word "character." A better way to say this is "Maybe my new scalp will make me become this spectacular character." (This is more humorous and makes more sense).

You also said "And if you read my posts, I barely ever try to bring anybody down personally." Again, I think this is because you are a coward. You are afraid of confrontation, but have no problem going around it and insulting the other person. Instead of fighting you run away and makes insult from a safe distance. This is not honor. This is not integrity. You are a coward.

You have no problem making post that inflates your ego. This is lying to people, especially people that are looking for help. How does those post help them other than ONLY yourself? YOu absolutely bring NOTHING that contributes to this forum. The good thing is that the more intelligent people will realize it and start to ignore you. You are a loser CLOONEY and the sad part is that you don't realize it.

ROLFMAO!!!!

You want confrontation?

You got it buddy.

Once more, who agrees with me? The majority? Sure do.

Once more, I said myself I cant look like all these people and no it is not my friends that call me them. It is random people I meet. My friends dont really call me anything anymore. I have great friends as I have discussed in other posts, they have stuck by me when my dad committed suicide, when I have been in trouble, when I have broken up with girls and not felt the best. They are terriffic friends, dont try to judge what you dont know.

And dont try to teach me english when you are obviously South American or some race where Engilsh is your second language. That scentence you described about your noun yada yada did not make sense!

My contribution helped the guy, did yours? I have met guys from this forum, have you? Dont run and just insult, answer the questions. The guys I have met, I have taught a lot and can back up their mouths.

Post your pics? I have posted mine, and infact, where can I store some on the net? I am going to post some more just to rub it in your face that my girls are twice as hot and I am twice as good looking at you will ever dream. Who do I look like? Once you post your pics, I will post mine also, and you can decide you ignorant fool. Now get out of my face little nino!

 

[CLOONEY]

Gonna run? Or post pics?

Run fool run!

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

"Take it easy - put the guns away boys", the littlle damsel exclaims as she tries to prevent the duel!

Speculator, when has Clooney bragged about himself to the point of arrogance? Why the personal attack?

 

[tmpgstx]

there are many many women out there...like Millions!

Lol .. yeah that really helps. Some guys couldn't get laid if their life depended on it and they're not all bad either. Then there is the 'standards' angle, and if it is really high, ouch .. you just cut out a SIGNIFICANT amount of the population, especially in your area. To top that off, only a small percent are even remotely single! On top of this, you may never meet but a few of them .. few and far between because how often do you really come across someone you deem worthy (and isn't a flake and rather mature with little insecurities?) and that are completely single and available (not getting over a relationship or has major baggage)?

It takes more than being positive. It takes patience. It takes finding or recognizing and acting on them when they do come into your orbit (which may be like a comet or as frequently). It also takes MUTUAL attraction. So you finally meet one of these girls in that tiny percentile, and now there has to be some spark.

On the flip-side, alot of guys can't act or dumb themselves down enough that are intelligent to get these flakey hos and play their silly games!

 

[CLOONEY]

Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
"Take it easy - put the guns away boys", the littlle damsel exclaims as she tries to prevent the duel!

Speculator, when has Clooney bragged about himself to the point of arrogance? Why the personal attack?

lol, too funny. The sad part is, over my years here, I have had many people sending PMs saying my advice has helped a lot, and I have personally taught a lot of people many things.

Then, when a little boy with some kind of issues doesnt agree, they decide to insult me. However, "the proof is in the pudding", dont they say! When it comes time to show some visual proof, instead of using a keyboard to try and read me (even though it couldnt be further from the truth), they run like the little boy they are.

So I pose a few questions to "theSpeculator".

Who on this forum have you helped personally?

Who have you met on this forum to proove you are what you say you are?

Where are your pictures to proove you can get woman and that you are even mildly attractive?

The ironic part of this whole thread, is the thread starter himself thanked me for my advice (which was spot on apparently), and this little dude says my contributions are helping NOBODY? LOL. Someone just burned their own bridge!

 

[JonJack]

From discussing whether this girl is seeking validation or wanting the guy to end the relationship first, to CLOONEY vs. theSpeculator. This ain't constructive at all.

I agree with Marcus on this. There could be many reasons behind her words. You can go ahead and wonder away about her intentions and motives, or you can just freakin ask her and read her body language.

If you're in a job, you seriously feel you're being underpaid and your boss is a freakin fierce mutha, you have three options. Ask him for a raise and face his retort, resign or keep quiet and continue being underpaid. The last option is the worst option, so DON'T take it.

 

[CLOONEY]

Originally posted by JonJack
From discussing whether this girl is seeking validation or wanting the guy to end the relationship first, to CLOONEY vs. theSpeculator. This ain't constructive at all.

Agreed. But I had to throw these links in:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=69418&perpage=20&pagenumber=3

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=69418&perpage=20&pagenumber=4


looks like this speculator doesnt post pics, only attacks other peoples pics! lol, I figured so much!