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[backbreaker]

Hello this is the immature girlfriend. First off all Mr. Backbracker is leaving out things.Yes i am mad that he( to me )caters to this so called friend every needs.every time she calls he has to rush to the phone the only time he doesn't answer is when i'm around and i can see on his face he wants to.No i'm not jealous of her either.I'm just irratated that she calls him a least five times a day.

She calls late at night when normal people are sleeping. I even told him that i didn't feel that she should be calling him at late hours. He said he did tell her, but she still calls. And thats why i don't like her to me she being very disrespectful. Any women whould agree. No i'm not trying to be his mother either. He wanted me to move in with him when my family was like i shouldn't because i'm not married to him i thought about what they said for a little while and i wanted to stay with him because for one i didn't want to move back in with my mother.I could have got my own place but i did kind of want to stay with william.and he wanted me to so i was like okay.and he said it would be best if we did which now i think i shouldn't have moved in.I

do have morals and just because i stay with him doesn't mean i don't. Since i have been staying here it has made us even more close. About the Lazy part i am not Lazy sometimes yeah i'm lazy sometimes and so is he. He wants me to do all the work all the cooking i have a life to you know. The reason why i don't do all those things is because we're not married. All he do is watch sports he never has time for me and yes i am a princess. I deserve a nice man a man that caters to my needs not everyone elses.He always has bad things to say about me .Like i'm lazy and i don't do anything.Well he's a damn lie. I work and go to school. He acts like i just lay around the house which he's lieing out his ass. He hasn't told you guys anything good about me and
i'm pissed.Why whould i want to be labeled as LAZY when that's what white people think about black people anyway. I don't think so.I think i'm a hard worker sometimes i slack a little but it's nothing like the way he puts it. I'm loyal,I cook for him, I listen to his problems, I rub his back. I do everything i can for him I'm a real women. Yeah i did hide his keys.Yeah it was a little overboard but every women gets pissed and thats what i did. I got pissed because he don't have the balls to tell his so called friend to stop calling all times of night thats all i ask and he can't even do that.

What am i suppose to expect damn do he like me or her. I told him i'm not about to play games with him. If he want her he can have her. I don't have problems with getting anyone. I can have anyone i want.(yeah i said it). William is the only young guy i've ever dated and he got me acting like a damn kid. Because he's playing games. Yeah i do have an ex of 6 years that i don't like anymore. And he don't call me everyday he call me at least once a week. He knows how i feel about william. And william didn't tell you guys how he acts when we go out to a club. He gets mad when guys hit on me i mean i can't help it i look like a model. he says how he is so confident and he dosen't care if guys hit on me.

well thats a lie because this past weekend he got mad because this guy was talking to me and i did tell the guy i had a boyfriend. Now if i was all up on the guy now thats a different story.Another thing I have a problem with is in the sex department he dosen't like 4-play and thats a big problem for me.He dosen't like going down on me but he likes for me to do it.I don't have a problem with doing it.Anyway what do ya'll have to say about that.We have alot of things to work on.And i to can go on and on about him.But ya'll heard enough from me.I don't have anything else to say about his friend.I'm not going to waste my time talking about her.Any way I would love to here from you guys.Thanks for listening
-Amber

 

[Phrase]

My response, holy %$## and LOL!!!! This sure made made my day.

 

[San]

you think to much, one advice from me: just enjoy the time with him, if that's not possible, because of several reason, bail out girl.

(Not) being married doesn't mean a thing, if you like/love someone very much you are happy/glad to do things for him/her.

If he ain't talking positive over you then it can have several reason;

or he's trying to get you to put more effort into him or your relationship to eachother.

or he simply has enough of you.

My advice, talk with your friend and be open.

Hope it all turns out ok

 

[DJDamage]

Its posts like this that reminds me why its good to be single sometimes.

 

[backbreaker]

this is backbreaker, I don't know how in the hell she found this forum, but she is good.

anyway, I think the post speaks for itself. It's not necessarly the things she does that make me mad, but just her attidtude in general. She always says she isn't jealous of my friend, however that's all she talks about. I made a comment on day about her new hair and she said the only reason I like it because it looks like my friends hair.

There are times when she admiitly just wants to pick an arguement with me and i will tune her out, and she starts hitting me and throwing things to my attention.

She is right on some things though... she does some nice things for me, and she is genuinallya good person; we just might not be compatiable.

 

[Kerensky]

There is no backbreaker. There is no girlfriend.

Dude, you're schizophrenic.

 

[backbreaker]

First of all I AM NOT JEALOUS of her.She is pretty okay but she looks 15 why would i be jealous of a girl that looks 15.She is about 98LBs.Not a body at all a flat ass.Come on.No boobs.I'm a 36C nice ass nice body.I look good.Now why would i be jealous.I don't know why he's saying this crap that **** isn't true.The reason i'm responding is because i hate LIARS and that what he's doing. Yeah i colored my hair and i told him he only likes it because It looks more like white people hair.You know the light color.I did not say the only reason he likes it was because of his friend.The reason why i said he only likes it because of that was because When we first started talking he told me he only talks to white women. thats the only reason.so hes a ****ing lie.And Kerensky this is his girlfriend.

 

[Kerensky]

It's okay if you don't accept it now. There are people who can help you. Others have sought help for mental illnesses, and have improved dramatically. Good luck to you, but you must take the first step. See a doctor.

 

[AMF]

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[NewMan]

Backbreaker - Male. You need to to get control of this other chick and ensure she DOESN'T call your place after at ridiculous times:

She calls late at night when normal people are sleeping. I even told him that i didn't feel that she should be calling him at late hours

That's extremely disrespectful.

Backbacker - female. You need to learn how to write. Your writing skills infer's that you have little mental capacitiy - which is grounds for dumping by itself.

 

[Desdinova]

I'm not going to get involved in a public arguement on the board.

Backbreaker, send me a PM. Use a different account.