Girlfriend "likes" jocks Facebook pictures

[GreatHornedOwl]

So, she hardly ever "likes" anyone's photos, even her friends. Whether it's male, or female. She's pretty quiet on social media. Lately, I've been noticing this guy liking her pictures, so I clicked on his profile and noticed she was liking his. Not the biggest deal, but again, it's unusual for her.

Here's the kicker, the guy doesn't even live in our state. So, what's the connection here? I don't want to make a big deal out of nothing, but it seems odd.

I'm not going to say a word to her about it, because that would look needy. I'm just wondering what you guys think.

And please, rational advice only. Not "Dump her azz right now!!"

 

[GreatHornedOwl]

What difference does it make?

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

There's always going to be "some guy" when you are dating a girl. If her behavior starts changing call her out and don't automatically say it's the guy. If you were a lucrative kingdom, how would you prevent other kingdoms from constantly invading you to sack your land?

 

[GreatHornedOwl]

I have not banged her, nor do I want to right now.

 

[TheCharmingGuy]

I have not banged her, nor do I want to right now.

I respect this, that you are mature enough to have a relationship without sex being the #1 priority.
Sex is important, but for most of the guys on this forum it’s the only thing they know how to do. They don’t understand women, only their pvssies.
You’re going to get a lot of hate about this post for not being needy about sex but I hope you won’t listen to them.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

I respect this, that you are mature enough to have a relationship without sex being the #1 priority.
Sex is important, but for most of the guys on this forum it’s the only thing they know how to do. They don’t understand women, only their pvssies.
You’re going to get a lot of hate about this post for not being needy about sex but I hope you won’t listen to them.

lmao yes, a lot of guys on here shoot for quantity over quality so they are shocked that a girl that put out on the first date happens to be thot

 

[GreatHornedOwl]

I don't know about you guys, but I don't try to sleep with a woman right away that I want to date and pursue a relationship with. I like to get to know her, have fun, and see if we're compatible.

Now, if it's some chick off Tinder, yeah I'll try to get her back to my place and bang ASAP. But I would never, ever date that woman.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

I don't know about you guys, but I don't try to sleep with a woman right away that I want to date and pursue a relationship with. I like to get to know her, have fun, and see if we're compatible.

Now, if it's some chick off Tinder, yeah I'll try to get her back to my place and bang ASAP. But I would never, ever date that woman.

girls have the friend zone, guys have the fvck zone

 

[RickPound]

I don't know about you guys, but I don't try to sleep with a woman right away that I want to date and pursue a relationship with. I like to get to know her, have fun, and see if we're compatible.

Now, if it's some chick off Tinder, yeah I'll try to get her back to my place and bang ASAP. But I would never, ever date that woman.

No problem if that’s your MO with certain girls as well as this one. Sex isn’t everything, but it is big and forms a connection. @Hank Moody asking whether you fvck her right (or at all) is to gauge what kind of relationship you have and what your expectations should be or what you should be concerned about with regards to her. In the title, you refer to her as your “girlfriend”.

If you’re trying to focus on other things with her besides (and before) sex, you shouldn’t be worrying about who’s photos she’s liking either. Focus on being the guy she wants to “like” (and fvck) and steal her attention from social media by being as attractive to her as you can. Then, if her behavior is still questionable, ask yourself if she works for you.

 

[Velasco]

https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=madonna-***** complex

But hes too scared to Open her DMs to see the conversations they've been having behind his back lol. Ignorance is bliss.

 

[2Rocky]

Horny owl, I reckon you better hit the weights. You can use the time that you previously used to stalk women you haven't bedded yet.

while a little internet research can help you learn more about a woman you are interested in, too much will have you second guessing yourself. She already has you thinking too much about her. You're fooked...

 

[GreatHornedOwl]

I'm not trying to be mean, so don't take it that way... just saying -

you're in for a rough go 'round with women if that's how you wanna operate.

She (and a majority of women) will chew you up and spit you out if you let her. And laugh while she's doing it.

This isn't an attack of you personally. This is general advice that all men should be aware of.

Still waiting for you to actually give some advice on the situation, lol.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

I don't know about you guys, but I don't try to sleep with a woman right away that I want to date and pursue a relationship with. I like to get to know her, have fun, and see if we're compatible.

Now, if it's some chick off Tinder, yeah I'll try to get her back to my place and bang ASAP. But I would never, ever date that woman.

What? How can she be your girlfriend without you having had sex with her? Literally no relationship exists until you have had sex. You two are nothing but friends at this point.

You are screwing yourself over...literally you have to have sex with a woman for any type of relationship to happen. The fastest and easiest way to get into a relationship is via sex.

You are delusional. She is banging someone. Might be him.

 

[bat soup]

So, she hardly ever "likes" anyone's photos, even her friends. Whether it's male, or female. She's pretty quiet on social media. Lately, I've been noticing this guy liking her pictures, so I clicked on his profile and noticed she was liking his. Not the biggest deal, but again, it's unusual for her.

Here's the kicker, the guy doesn't even live in our state. So, what's the connection here? I don't want to make a big deal out of nothing, but it seems odd.

I'm not going to say a word to her about it, because that would look needy. I'm just wondering what you guys think.

And please, rational advice only. Not "Dump her azz right now!!"

Start cheating on her if you're not doing it already. And forget about keeping her around long term.

 

[GreatHornedOwl]

This advice is just odd. I knew I shouldn't have asked.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Still waiting for you to actually give some advice on the situation, lol.

He did...you are too busy watching Disney movies to understand it.

 

[TheProspect]

@GreatHornedOwl , I hate to be this guy... but you’ve been on SoSuave for 10+ years, you’re pushing 40 years old, and you’re asking advice on how to handle a girlfriend (who you haven’t slept with) clicking the “like” button on another guy’s photo on Facebook?

Not sure how you’re surprised by the responses you’re getting lol

Does this chick even know she’s your girlfriend

Have you seen your girlfriend’s vagina yet? Does she have one? If so, what if she has a massive wart on it? And you took 2 months running blue pill boyfriend game before you found out? And this whole time you were worried about what this chick with a massive genital wart does with her time on social media?
I could never date a chick with warts on her vagina and that’s why I’d try to bang a chick first before I obsessed over who she’s trading likes with on Facebook.


Obviously, I’m being flippant. Your situation is just odd from the outside looking in (hence the responses you’re getting), and the fact that you’re getting defensive about it makes it funny lol.

 

[GreatHornedOwl]

@GreatHornedOwl , I hate to be this guy... but you’ve been on SoSuave for 10+ years, you’re pushing 40 years old, and you’re asking advice on how to handle a girlfriend (who you haven’t slept with) clicking the “like” button on another guy’s photo on Facebook?

I guess that is kind of depressing when I think about it. Not sure why I do this.

 

[TheProspect]

I guess that is kind of depressing when I think about it. Not sure why I do this.

In all seriousness, girlfriend or not, you are apparently hung up on the social media activity of a chick you haven’t slept with.

Do you not see this as an issue, perhaps a little insecurity on your part?

You are also giving exclusivity to a woman you haven’t banged? Which I think you should investigate as to why. “I don’t like to rush sex with girls I like” isn’t the real reason, from my perspective.

These are the larger underlying issues that a few of the other members are seeing. What this chick does on social media should be a secondary concern to you.

 

[SirBigBell]

OP, Im not going to beat around the bush here. Im just gonna give it to you straight.

Your girl is window shopping for d!ck and has found one that she likes. It doesnt mean she will buy it tomorrow, but she likes what she sees and is just waiting for the right time and opportunity to avail herself to the guy. A “like” from a girl who has ultra-low social media activity is a loud statement of intent.
You’re essentially living on borrowed time; a sitting duck.

Up to you how you want to handle that situation.