Girlfriend just gave me some silly crap.

[djthiago1]

I just asked her if she was coming over tomorrow and she texted me:

"I don't know if i want to", then she sent me a little angelface emoji which tells me she's joking, but whatever.

I just told her:
"If your not going to tell me, cause i got other stuff i can do during that time, if you don't want my presence there's a whole bunch of people that do especially now that i'm in a relationship".

Did i do good guys ? :nervous: :nervous:

 

[In2theGame]

I just asked her if she was coming over tomorrow and she texted me:

"I don't know if i want to", then she sent me a little angelface emoji which tells me she's joking, but whatever.

I just told her:
"If your not going to tell me, cause i got other stuff i can do during that time, if you don't want my presence there's a whole bunch of people that do especially now that i'm in a relationship".

Did i do good guys ? :nervous: :nervous:

Lol you did horrible. JK man but seriously IMO the "i dont know if i want to" plus the angelic smiley face signals .."make me want to come over and fvck". You had to flirt back more directly. When she sent that angelic smiley, you should of text back something like "yeah nice little angel smiley face but that wont be the case when i throw you on the bed and give u a good spanking".

Guys have to fvcking take charge and flirt hard with these woman man, They love it deep down inside and want to be dominated verbally and sexually.

 

[djthiago1]

Lol you did horrible. JK man but seriously IMO the "i dont know if i want to" plus the angelic smiley face signals .."make me want to come over and fvck". You had to flirt back more directly. When she sent that angelic smiley, you should of text back something like "yeah nice little angel smiley face but that wont be the case when i throw you on the bed and give u a good spanking".

Guys have to fvcking take charge and flirt hard with these woman man, They love it deep down inside and want to be dominated verbally and sexually.

Sounds like begging to me, no thank you.

 

[Jaylan]

Lol you did horrible. JK man but seriously IMO the "i dont know if i want to" plus the angelic smiley face signals .."make me want to come over and fvck". You had to flirt back more directly. When she sent that angelic smiley, you should of text back something like "yeah nice little angel smiley face but that wont be the case when i throw you on the bed and give u a good spanking".

Guys have to fvcking take charge and flirt hard with these woman man, They love it deep down inside and want to be dominated verbally and sexually.

This.

Damn whats with some of you guys on here. Dont you know how to flirt??? She was being jokingly bratty and merely trying to kid you around so you would bust her balls OP.

Like many of the older more seasoned gentlemen here will tell you from their experience....YOU NEVER STOP GAMING YOUR GIRL! You should ALWAYS be flirting with your woman and keeping a solid and fun frame.

Why do you think so many women (and men too) get bored in relationships and move on? Because their partners get lazy, complacent, and stop being fun. The angel face your girl gave you was a dead giveaway for how you should have responded.

I would have said "i guess ill have to give you a little incentive *devil smiley*". And then you take the conversation from there. It would very likely become sexual and youd end the night by having some passionate sex with your gf.

Sounds like begging to me, no thank you.

Thats not begging kid. Its called flirting. Damn dude...what chick wants to date a boring dude who gets all pissy over a jokey text? Be a man and take charge. Girls want sexual fun flirting. That serious sh!t you said to her is the kind of overdramatic stuff that pushes women away and causes her to start doubting you.

That kinda behavior is a definite way to dry up a vagina, or to kill a boner when a woman behaves that way to a man.

 

[asa_don]

don't settle for only one chick you can bang when there's plenty more of the around. don't take her crap.

 

[djthiago1]

Flirting through texts? Sounds pretty gay, i hate texting you can never tell when they're serious or not, i leave my gaming and flirting for when i'm face to face.

 

[Desdinova]

Flirting through texts? Sounds pretty gay, i hate texting you can never tell when they're serious or not, i leave my gaming and flirting for when i'm face to face.

I've been able to raise IL numerous times through texting alone. If you flirt well through texting, it works in your favor.

 

[djthiago1]

I've been able to raise IL numerous times through texting alone. If you flirt well through texting, it works in your favor.

In a LTR or just some girl you were trying to bang?

 

[Married Buried]

In a LTR or just some girl you were trying to bang?

Just face it, you blew this exchange. Listen to the advice in this thread. This woman was sh!t testing you and you failed. You got all butthurt and offended, when you should have replied with C + F.

 

[TheCWord]

Jesus christ. This is the potential danger with SoSuave. Some guys will read stuff on here and, because they've been a little AFC in the past, WAYYYYY overcompensate.

It's like a monkey with an AK-47. There are useful tools here but if you don't know when or how to use them it's going to be a disaster.

You came across looking like a real **** here. Not only that, but super sensitive. So because you read somewhere on the internet that you're not supposed to tolerate any kind of disrespect, you shot down your girlfriend who WAS TRYING TO FLIRT WITH YOU.

That relationship is cooked, sooner or later, because she has now decided you're not any fun. There she is, trying to do some light teasing, trying to create some tension (which leads to intense sex, by the way) and not only do you not play along but you threaten her.

It's like the song says, OP, girls just want to have fun. If she can't even send you a light tease (it had a freaking angel emoticon for god's sake) without you freaking out, how are you two going to work out? This is what she's thinking right now.

Edit: Malice is correct. It was a sh!t test but it was such an easy one. It wasn't like, "My ex called me up and wants to go out for dinner, what do you think?" It was an easy as pie, sexual-tension building test where all you had to do was play along. If you can't handle these softballs, how are you ever going to hit big league pitching?

 

[Cremasta]

No, you didn't do good here.
You turned what was probably a fun exchange into a battle of wills.

She wanted to hear that you wanted her to come over. If she's your solid gf, then why wouldn't you?

A better response would have been something like "Oh you'll want to alright! I've got something dirty planned "

 

[JoeMarron]

I think everyone got the point across that this was a failure. Never do it again. 99% of your conversation with women should be teasing, put that pouty sh!t aside.