Girlfriend isnt intrested in sex as much anymore, is she cheating

[SeriousBlack]

cliffs

-been dating this girl for like 6 months

-only see her like twice a week

-we started out as FWB and have sex pretty much everytime we see
eachother

-back when things were at there prime (just 3 weeks ago..... we were having sex in public places, having sex 3 times a day ect

-over the past few weeks tho the sex has been REALLY lame, like shes not intrested in it at all... but before this the sex was amazing


-just a few days ago while i was over there she denied me sex completely the first night saying that we have sex everytime we see eachother, she just wants to cuddle blah blah, and on the 2nd night made up an excuse as how she was exhauseted blah blah blah but i still got it in the second night by being extremely agressive.

outside of the bedroom everything is great, she texts me first EVERY day with Goodmonrings ect and texts me all throughout the day.

she's told me she loves me multiple times but i never told it to her back.

the last time(i was over there for 2 days as listed above) on the first day she denied me sex and was acting distant, i went outside and HIGHLY considered going inside breaking up with her, i just had a feeling she was cheating for some reason so i confronted her about it and she started crying blah blah blah saying she did nothing wrong, that she cares alot about me, blah blah and for some reason i actually fell for it and believed her, but now im not so sure. had sex with her the next night (as listed above) but she seemed extremely reluctant and i practicly had to force her.


what do you think? do you think shes cheating on me? if not then wtf is her problem? im 99% sure im going to just act normal till this weekend then break up with her then.

is that what i should do?

 

[Tiguere]

Its time to pull back son. Time to go ghost until she knocks your door seminaked asking for a pump.

 

[Dhoulmagus]

honeymoon phase is over bro

 

[djthiago1]

Unleash the alpha inside pal, mimic her behavior, cut love and affection, be distant. Forget your emotions and your ego, imagine yourself outside of your relationship and think about the best course of action.

Remember that her words are MEANINGLESS, it's her ACTIONS that count, i made the same mistake when ex used to text me everyday, and the day after she said she "loved me" she broke up.

 

[GS750]

If she pulls away, then you pull away 2x

 

[Rival]

Somethings up for sure, I'd say she is evaluating you..6 months..shes asking herself where she sees this going...

do what the others said.

 

[GS750]

Somethings up for sure, I'd say she is evaluating you..6 months..shes asking herself where she sees this going...

do what the others said.

Evaluating for sure. Can't remember which member it was on here that said 6 months is just about the "high water mark" where she starts pondering if she's gonna keep you around long term.

 

[El Payaso]

Unleash the alpha inside pal, mimic her behavior, cut love and affection, be distant. Forget your emotions and your ego, imagine yourself outside of your relationship and think about the best course of action.

Remember that her words are MEANINGLESS, it's her ACTIONS that count, i made the same mistake when ex used to text me everyday, and the day after she said she "loved me" she broke up.

THIS. All you have to do is mimic and reciprocate her actions. When she denies you sex but only wants to cuddle, you simply say you're not in the mood for cuddling.

If she accuses you of being cold because she doesn't want to have sex with you. You just say that if she doesn't want to be intimate with you to have sex then you don't want to be intimate with her to cuddle. That cuddling is way more intimate to you than having sex with her.

It will completely throw her off.

My girlfriend did this one night about 3 or 4 months into us dating. I did what I said above and within a few minutes she was begging me to f*ck her. I merely told her that I was turned on before and being aroused isn't something you can turn on or off and I went to bed. By morning she was still begging for me to f*ck her. I turned her over and gave it to her.

Women do this all the time. That is why the initial sh*t tests are nothing more than a joke. The real sh*t tests come months into the relationship. It's how you respond to those that will dictate the course of the relationship.

Once you pa$$ all the initial sh*t tests, women will condition you and try to set a pattern. After a while, they might break that pattern to see how you react. If you turn AFC, they will know your alpha behavior was just an act. When she refuses you sex or whatever, you merely laugh and go do something else.

Don't get all scared and paranoid thinking that she's cheating. It will only manifest into AFC actions.

 

[jurry]

I would say pull back a bit, but it doesnt seem youre that invested to begin with?

After 6 months with someone you dont HAVE to bang them 3 times every time you hang out and goin nuts in public places and all that. Relax a bit bro.. Its possible she just thinks you only want her for sex and is giving up. She keeps saying she loves you and txting you all the time but you arent showing her anything back. Shes not going to hang around forever hoping you'll get more serious, the dirty slut act to win you over only lasts for so long.

 

[captain55]

SO much of sexual attraction is novelty. to think that a woman won't cheat on you with a guy who isn't as good in bed or as well endowed or attractive is foolish. Mr. New guy will always have the advantage...regardless of how good you are. Dump her and enjoy watching her beg to come back.

 

[Fugitive]

I get the feeling she's onto you and has realised you don't give a sh*t about her and just want her for sex. Therefore you're on borrowed time.

If you cut her off and be distant yourself then it could go 2 ways, she could freak out and chase you or she could come to the conclusion you're just in it for the sex and dump you. Therefore your best getting in there first and cutting her loose.

 

[Donnie Darko]

El Payaso has it right.

Always treat her like a sex object and make her chase you for your attention and affection.

Be indifferent towards giving her affection. Only tell her you love her in response to her telling you she loves you and you don't have to tell her all the time just because she says it all the time.

Women love the chase. If she thinks she completely has you, then she will feel bored with you and the relationship. Keep her chasing you.

 

[pyros]

option a) she could be cheating.
option b, and more likely) she doesn't want a fwb relationship anymore. You said she's told you she loves you a few times and that you havent reciprocated.
WTF?? so she loves you, but you dont love her? what do you expect then?? she's now feeling down because of this, and because you see her as a sex object, only.

STop the ultra-over-thinking man. She loves you, you dont love her so now she's feeling sad and rethinking your relationship.

ITS A PRETTY DAMN NORMAL REACTION.