Girlfriend interest level dropped

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Voice said:
NC is good when trying to get over a girl.

In this case you are ignoring your sick girlfriend who probably feels like sh1t as it is. I don't understand the reasoning. You honestly think as sick as she is, she is going out trying to fvck other guys?
Yes.

When my brother was sick his wife went to parties and flirted obviously with other guys. About 2 weeks later she made him kill himself, took all his money, half a mil, 2 new cars, and went to marry some other dude. Told the police he killed himself because he loved her so much, police believed her.

The world isn't as rosy and wonderful as people may think. Watch yourselves and don't trust anybody. No one will help you but you.
 
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She is desperately seeking attention from you, interesting how no contact works. Don't give her that attention, let her soak up these feelings of "abandonment," not to get revenge per se, but more punishment. You currently control the situation, the relationship, as it should be. You need to MAINTAIN it. Do not back down.

When you contact her again in a few days, be indifferent and aloof. Make HER work for the relationship and don't go back to your old ways.

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You contacted her and didn't hear what you want to hear because you broke No Contact. Move on and choke this up to the female imperative. Live and learn from this experience
 
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DannyM

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I broke NC.......to break up with her! I can't see her problems ever fixing themselves, actually since today i haven't given a **** about her maybe im cold i don't know but she has pissed me off so much in past that i just don't give a **** now.
 

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wow this is depressing, this guys gf lost interest in him cause he tried to be decent guy and take care of her.
 
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