Girlfriend Going Clubbing

[Francisco d'Anconia]

It's good to see that a couple of guys realize that it has nothing to do with other guys hitting on your woman. She will always come home to you faithfully if she is happy with the relationship.

If you are having trouble with keeping her happy, you had better lock her away somewhere because DJs will sarge her no matter where she may be. Why shouldn't she consider them if you can't keep her happy? YOU SHOULD BE AFRAID!!!! :nervous:

 

[Last Man Standing]

Haha, base on your advices, I take it most of you are in high school and have yet to realize your manhood!!! Why do you fear losing a woman so much? You sound like cowards!!

"She might leave me, she may think I'm too controlling, she might cheat and go with another man if i'm too strongminded" - you sound like weak men!!

You dudes obviously know little about women - women love, I said love men who take control and make ressonable and strong demands. They hate men who fear a woman and are so mousy and insecure that thay (the man) doesn't dictate the agenda!!!

WOMEN HATE MEN WHO ARE TIMID!!!!!!!!!

You young bastards are dense - this isn't about trust!!!! This is about her going to a club without her man leading the way - it is about respect and dignity - oh I forgot, you young bastards don't have any respect or dignity thus the reason you cannot comprehend! Quit being scared of women and get some balls!!!

Francisco, a man's job is not to keep his woman happy -- many men think this in error - you should be old enough to know this!

It is the woman who must please the man - she is submissive to the demands of the man - this is her nature! Our job is to lead and provide and protect!!

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Francisco, a man's job is not to keep his woman happy -- many men think this in error - you should be old enough to know this!

It is the woman who must please the man - she is submissive to the demands of the man - this is her nature! Our job is to lead and provide and protect!!

When I talk about keeping a woman happy I mean keeping her interested in the relationship and the only way to do that is for both people to be active in contributing to it. If both people aren't active in the relationship, it's not truly a relationship at all.

And what is this thing about saying it's her job to please a man and that he has no input? You should know what a woman wants, in a nutshell it is to be appreciated by her guy and the way to do it is to be active in the relationship with her.

It's the attitude that she is to do all the work which makes women receptive to DJs that show her the appreciation she is lacking and either leads her to stray from her guy or drop him altogether. This will not happen if her guy is doing his job. Leaving the relationship nurturing up to a woman by herself is the worse thing that a guy can do.

 

[American_Psycho]

I like threads like these, because it makes it really obvious who knows what they're talking about and who doesn't.

Last Man Standing, DonJuanForever, and Latinoman are all retarded.

Jariel, Francisco, et al actually have some common sense.

 

[FlexpertHamilton]

Bro it's so wild seeing posts from the 00s...I truly believe the 00s were in many ways even worse than today because men were utterly clueless and women were already benefiting from the new paradigm shift that came from feminism + the adoption of the internet/social media/smart phones...

"Bro who cares if she goes out, stop being insecure" LMFAO

clueless....

 

[Travel memoir21]

Bro it's so wild seeing posts from the 00s...I truly believe the 00s were in many ways even worse than today because men were utterly clueless and women were already benefiting from the new paradigm shift that came from feminism + the adoption of the internet/social media/smart phones...

"Bro who cares if she goes out, stop being insecure" LMFAO

clueless....

You just gotta know where to find the Quality women, it's not at the clubs and bars. You have a better shot at finding a quality Ltr at a family event picnic in your social circle than finding random broads at a mall or nightclub parking lot .....unless maybe if it's a small rural town with barn yard country dancing or some stuff like that....those conservative folks down south or the midwest seems like potential matches for a lot of guys here.

 

[FlexpertHamilton]

You just gotta know where to find the Quality women, it's not at the clubs and bars. You have a better shot at finding a quality Ltr at a family event picnic in your social circle than finding random broads at a mall or nightclub parking lot .....unless maybe if it's a small rural town with barn yard country dancing or some stuff like that....those conservative folks down south or the midwest seems like potential matches for a lot of guys here.

I don't disagree with that. But it seems like men back didn't even know what a quality women was nor did it occur to them that the sort of behavior described by the OP is not behavior you should accept from a quality woman in an LTR. There were a couple posters who "got it" though. Though it goes without saying that you can accept this behavior from a women so long as you know she's not LTR/commitment worthy.