So I have been dating this girl since about August last year. She is great. She is cute. Not smoking hot..which is cool. She is supportive (she helps me with my presentations for work) and a giver. I feel comfortable with her most of the time. We have taken trips etc. She is intelligent (PHD). And she is loyal.
But there are times when she can be a bit much. I spent alot of time with her this week and weekend. We did a lot of fun stuff (boxing match, a football match, dinner in a quaint town, ferry ride, movie etc). But there were moments when she would get upset if I didn't want to stick to her idea of the plan.
I told her we would be in time for the boxing match but that I wanted to play soccer which I always do..but she expected me to cut my soccer short so we could be there early to get seats. I came in late and she was upset. Until we got to the boxing match and found seats. Then she enjoyed herself. Keep in mind boxing was my idea all along and I purchased the seats.
I am thinking that she should be grateful that I am keeping her busy doing all these things and I enjoy spending time with her. But it seems like she is not appreciative and she just wants more and more. I am just wondering if this small acting out is a precursor to something larger down the line. Or if I am giving her too much and should give in smaller doses.
Not sure what to do. As of right now I am trying to keep my distance a bit. Havent seen her since Sunday morning. She wanted to come over last night but I said I was busy.
Any thoughts? How should I play this one?
But there are times when she can be a bit much. I spent alot of time with her this week and weekend. We did a lot of fun stuff (boxing match, a football match, dinner in a quaint town, ferry ride, movie etc). But there were moments when she would get upset if I didn't want to stick to her idea of the plan.
I told her we would be in time for the boxing match but that I wanted to play soccer which I always do..but she expected me to cut my soccer short so we could be there early to get seats. I came in late and she was upset. Until we got to the boxing match and found seats. Then she enjoyed herself. Keep in mind boxing was my idea all along and I purchased the seats.
I am thinking that she should be grateful that I am keeping her busy doing all these things and I enjoy spending time with her. But it seems like she is not appreciative and she just wants more and more. I am just wondering if this small acting out is a precursor to something larger down the line. Or if I am giving her too much and should give in smaller doses.
Not sure what to do. As of right now I am trying to keep my distance a bit. Havent seen her since Sunday morning. She wanted to come over last night but I said I was busy.
Any thoughts? How should I play this one?