Danger said:
Girl goes home for a week.
Girl sees man she used to have a thing for.
Girl and man drink together with friends.
Girl and man have sex later.
Girl wakes up, feels guilty but knows she cannot confess.
Girl goes home after holiday, has to check for and clear any STDs to eliminate proof.
Girl gets the green light.
Girl starts sleeping with bf again.
Guy continues to text her.
Note to all readers.....
When a person looks you squarely in the eye like that and denies cheating. They did cheat. They are using that "look in the eye" to try to cover it up.
Sorry to hear about this my friend.
I think that this is the most likely explanation, especially now that she has switched back and had a change of heart and wants to have sex again.
If my G/F went away for a week or two, and then refused sex without a credible explaation when she returned I would be HIGHLY suspicious.
I thought that absence made the heart grow fonder, not colder ?
Whenever I have been apart from my G/f at the time, we fukked like rabbits when we got back together.