Girlfriend cries after sex sometimes.....

[pvf94]

This has happened twice now. We were in her car parked in a disclosed wooded area, and she says to me "harder" and she smacked me and pulled my hair, so I said "You like it like that?" and proceeded to put her feet on my chest and deliver it as hard as I knew how, I went until I came....and just before I was done she started laughing hysterically, then once I pulled out she started crying?!

The last time this happened she said she had an orgasm from my penis inside her not her cl!t. As far as I am concerned, we both had our orgasm at the same time, but what the hell is up with the full on crocodile tears right afterwords?

I asked her what was wrong, and she said "Nothing, look I'm crying like an idiot I feel so stupid" and proceeded to laugh and cry at the same time.

A few minutes later I found out she had an orgasm.

Maybe the Gspot orgasms are so intense she has like an emotional overload??

Anybody else experience this? If so I would be so grateful for any input.

 

[Da Realist]

Actually I've read the crying isn't too much to worry about unless she's actually depressed. Orgasms open up emotions since they are basically a giant relief. Unless she acts crazy all the time, no need to worry.

 

[amoka]

Realist could be right. It could also be that she is fvcking some other dude and feels remorseful after you fvcked her. I had a girl over my place one time and after fvcking, she started tearing. Then I asked her what's up. She then proceeded to tell me she feels bad because she just cheated on her boyfriend. Women.

 

[pvf94]

I don't think she would cheat on me really....possible? Yes it is, she just got back from her sisters house 300 miles away...she was gone for 10 days. But we had sex the day before this crying episode, and she didn't cry?

She was acting a little weird, like she just wanted to get to going without foreplay. I was mean to her earlier in the day.

And she also just wanted it to be rough and fast. She started giggling, got off and then the crying.

Now im wondering if she cheated on me.....dammit. Fvck insecurity.

 

[worship]

I don't think this has much to do with cheating. Probably just an emotional overload as you said in your first post.

 

[drak_ool]

the only girl i ve fvucked that started crying uncontrollably after had just broke up with her boyfriend, and I was her first "rebound". needless to say that shyt made me feel awkward! but this doesn't seem to be the case with you, maybe she never felt that kind of sexual satisfaction b4

 

[Johnny Soporno]

Excellent stuff!

You've been generating what Steve P and I coined "Teargasms", and are a fundamental, primal and existential catharsis for women...

Normally only available via G-spot orgasms (and often accompanied by female ejaculation) the crying is a fantastically powerful response to the release of SO MUCH pent-up tension, anxiety, and stress.

Good for you, and keep up the good work!

Johnny Soporno
Worthy Playboy

 

[Son of anarchy]

sorry double.

 

[Son of anarchy]

Lucky you mate,mine cries always before or later. :crackup:

 

[Hughman]

Emotional dissonance. You know like sometimes when you cry when something funny happens. Or you 'laugh' when something real bad happens. Sounds the same sort of thing.

Either that, or she got raped once and orgasmed during it and now has bad flashbacks.

I'm guessing it's option one.

 

[Bible_Belt]

She was acting a little weird, like she just wanted to get to going without foreplay. I was mean to her earlier in the day.

And she also just wanted it to be rough and fast. She started giggling, got off and then the crying.

Now im wondering if she cheated on me.....dammit. Fvck insecurity.

ruh-roh. I hate to stoke your uncertainty, but fwiw when I was married and my wife had cheated on me after being away for two weeks, she walked in the door, set her bags down, then came right over to me, jerked my pants down, and stuck my d!ck in her mouth without hardly saying hello. Then we had extremely passionless robot-like sex, like doing it with a bored hooker. I left her and moved away not long after; didn't find out about the cheating until years later. She didn't cry after the sex, but now I always see "robot sex" as a sign of trouble.

 

[andy1989]

The better I have gotten at sex, the more girls cry afterward. This is because good sex is such an emotional ride for them.

 

[pLaYtHiNg]

I have definitely had orgasms powerful enough to tear up my eyes, but not like full-on crying LOL! Maybe it was an overwhelming emotional experience for her! That's good, I just hope she's not hiding some kind of deep-seated trauma or something.

So, you free later?? LOL JK!

 

[TheBucketOfTruth]

This doesn't seem like the kind of crying to worry about, but actual sad crying after sex is always a bad sign. I think you're in the clear based on how things were going before this occurred.

 

[PSYCHO]

She cried because she realized that she is such a hor! A sad state! An emotional sexual act without love is a sad state - for a woman!! You don't desire her - you desire her flesh - she knows this - and is not worthy of loving her spirit - a sad state!

 

[pvf94]

She cried because she realized that she is such a hor! A sad state! An emotional sexual act without love is a sad state - for a woman!! You don't desire her - you desire her flesh - she knows this - and is not worthy of loving her spirit - a sad state!

She knows I love her Lol.

i do! :flowers:

 

[KontrollerX]

Crying means she's cheating.

She had you fvck her harder because thats how the other guy does it.

She wanted to see if she'd feel the same way about you as she does him while you were fvcking her hard but all your doing that did was make her think of him and how charming and funny he is to her and how on cloud 9 she is with her love for him.

She was laughing thinking about the good times she and him had behind your back but the laughing was not at you rather it was at how she's amused by how much her other man really gets into it when he's pounding her pvssy.

She's probably giggling at the faces he makes with his passion for her which you reminded her of when you fvcked her hard at her request.

The laughing and crying afterwards was brought about by her atrophied conscience when she came back into reality after the post coital bliss wore off as she realized she's about to fvck you over very soon.

Now of course I could be wrong but I seldom ever am so from here on out I'd advise you to keep your eyes peeled and begin eyeing other prospects for yourself.

Edit: Of course the other possible explanation for all of this is perhaps you are about to be a daddy and neither of you know it yet! (pregnancy messes up hormones to produce odd out of the ordinary crying like this sometimes)

 

[pvf94]

Crying means she's cheating.

She had you fvck her harder because thats how the other guy does it.

She wanted to see if she'd feel the same way about you as she does him while you were fvcking her hard but all your doing that did was make her think of him and how charming and funny he is to her and how on cloud 9 she is with her love for him.

She was laughing thinking about the good times she and him had behind your back but the laughing was not at you rather it was at how she's amused by how much her other man really gets into it when he's pounding her pvssy.

She's probably giggling at the faces he makes with his passion for her which you reminded her of when you fvcked her hard at her request.


The laughing and crying afterwards was brought about by her atrophied conscience when she came back into reality after the post coital bliss wore off as she realized she's about to fvck you over very soon.

Now of course I could be wrong but I seldom ever am so from here on out I'd advise you to keep your eyes peeled and begin eyeing other prospects for yourself.

Edit: Of course the other possible explanation for all of this is perhaps you are about to be a daddy and neither of you know it yet! (pregnancy messes up hormones to produce odd out of the ordinary crying like this sometimes)

She started a new birth control a few months ago....hormones hormones hormones.

I've been with her over a year and a half, she really doesn't do much, and if she cheated I think I would be able to tell.

I googled it aswell...."Crying after orgasm" I doubt all of those topics and such are because they all cheated.


Possible? Yes.

Probable? No.

You said shes cheating or pregnant no other possibility. I think there are many more scenarios.


Unless of course more of you men can vouch for kontrollerx here....should I have anything to worry about?

 

[scrouds]

bang her hard again and see if she cries again. I don't know about anyone else, but I think its pretty ****ing hot that you can get a woman so worked up she can't even control her emotions and breaks out crying. Do it again. Then when she's crying beat your chest and roar. Haha

 

[pvf94]

bang her hard again and see if she cries again. I don't know about anyone else, but I think its pretty ****ing hot that you can get a woman so worked up she can't even control her emotions and breaks out crying. Do it again. Then when she's crying beat your chest and roar. Haha

thats gonna be hard to do when half of your opinions here say shes cheating. Man a year and a half wasted.