Girlfriend changing. Ideas needed.

[Zengy]

Good day men. I need ur advice.

1 year and a half, i was cheeky with a girl, she acted as if she didnt like me, i ignored her then she came to me and jumped over me. Then a 6 month era of non stop fight club sex, sex to the bones, till muscle cramps and body aches.

She was nice sweet doesnt talk argue or make any headaches. The i decreased the sex because of religious period of 1 month. After that, no more sex could be initiated, even if initiated, no more super come for both of us, no more fire, no more 24/7 vigirous sex, less and less come, more and more talk, more and more headache, arguments and all the female bull**** exploded in my face. Talked to her about me ****ing somebody else if she doesnt want and she was very sad. Then i decided to be a good guy -i dont know why the hell i do that to screw all my telationships everytime(but didnt do it hard this time)- so she knows i love her and she does, i tried to arouse her a lot till i gave up,only whenever she is on by chance i just jump in. so thats another 6 months, then i opened up to her a person wise and she knew everything about me, i becamse very expected "boring" and was just myself, she triend to prove that i am stupid by indirect ways, nags about everything indo in life. Then she became a nag machine + (sex = zero). I took her out on adventures, she complains inside of it !! i tried twice. Then could't take her whining anymore, at a point i out her alto her limits with me, ignored her for 20 days - minimum contact when i want only text- now she knows she is not a priority in my life and i can abandon her, next i wm thinking to force sex with other people for me as long as she doesnt want, and i will do it. (nb: i never lied to her even about the other girls i was ****ing for 1 month while i was with her but not in official relationship, and surprisingly she had no problem and tried harder to be a better person).

Advice please -knowing that i want to keep her, even as a 2ry- because i am attracted to her mind too (thoughts, hobbies,music...etc we r very similar).

How can i get this girl back to just loving to be around me again ?

NB: she didnt come hard in the last 6 month.

 

[Jetleg]

Dude basic rule. I've learned it the hard way too, read carefuly:

No sex = no attractions + no respect

No matter what the reasons are. when a girl denies sex its over, you are basically a buddy at this point. I'll tell you more than that - girls will even have sex when they are not in the mood or not horny just to make sure you are happy. so if she is not willing to have sex thats really is THE END. If she controls when you are having sex thats also a bad thing (usually its starts like that, then it go to no sex).

 

[Chev.Chelios]

Dude basic rule. I've learned it the hard way too, read carefuly:

No sex = no attractions + no respect

No matter what the reasons are. when a girl denies sex its over, you are basically a buddy at this point. I'll tell you more than that - girls will even have sex when they are not in the mood or not horny just to make sure you are happy. so if she is not willing to have sex thats really is THE END. If she controls when you are having sex thats also a bad thing (usually its starts like that, then it go to no sex).

this... THIS!!!!

 

[Serenity]

What in the world made you think it was a good idea to revoke sex for an entire month? That would for sure make me grumpy, not surprised she became a b!tch after that.

Basically your religious period fvcked this up for you. I see several comments here blaming her, but this is your fault.

 

[Juanto]

because of religious period of 1 month.

What kind of complete utter nonsense is this?

 

[FwoGiZ]

What kind of complete utter nonsense is this?

I was actually wondering about the same...
Anyways, so you're saying she was attracted when you were banging other chicks, then you stopped and she stopped being nice? I don't wonder why... you opened up to her and sold all your mysteries? Now she is bored. Time to move on

 

[lizardking82]

Simple. Ignore her and keep bangin' other chicks you like, but not to make her mad and come back to you. As a man, you should try to never come from the point where you are making stuff to provoce a reaction in someone else. You should be bangin; other chicks if that's what you want (and you should want that LOL) and if she really likes you, she will come around for different reasons.

Yes, have sex with other girls. That's super important at this point.

 

[kronreiff]

Your 30 day religious sexual hiatus was your own undoing. She's fvking someone else or a few others and you're no longer needed. Now, go spin some plates, fvck your brains out like she's doing and get your life together. Time to man up and move on.

 

[skinnyguy]

Every single guy I know who has had "nonstop sex" with a girl has ended up breaking up with her because she goes cold on him. Sex gets old and won't keep you together. It sounds like you have nothing in common with her so just get rid of her and bang other girls. You act like she's special

 

[Zengy]

Gott

What in the world made you think it was a good idea to revoke sex for an entire month? That would for sure make me grumpy, not surprised she became a b!tch after that.

Basically your religious period fvcked this up for you. I see several comments here blaming her, but this is your fault.

a tell..

Gotta tell u that in that month she wanted me like crazy and we broke the rule more than once !! she craved me in that period when she knew that i am holding sex !!

 

[Zengy]

Every single guy I know who has had "nonstop sex" with a girl has ended up breaking up with her because she goes cold on him. Sex gets old and won't keep you together. It sounds like you have nothing in common with her so just get rid of her and bang other girls. You act like she's special

we have many things in conmon. hobbies. ways of thinking...etc.

 

[QuadDeuces]

Your princess has become another guys plate.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Simple. Ignore her and keep bangin' other chicks you like, but not to make her mad and come back to you. As a man, you should try to never come from the point where you are making stuff to provoce a reaction in someone else. You should be bangin; other chicks if that's what you want (and you should want that LOL) and if she really likes you, she will come around for different reasons.

Yes, have sex with other girls. That's super important at this point.

The energy and outside desire and attraction will make her like you more. So yes this maybe one of those babes you gotta keep screwing someone outside her

 

[SuckItUp]

Never break your rules for a girl. By breaking your 30 day religious sex ban per your religion you lowered your appeal. It makes look weak and needy. Staying firm shows that you are a man of conviction.

The exception to this is if your playing the role of a rake but that's for seduction not established relationships.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Never break your rules for a girl. By breaking your 30 day religious sex ban per your religion you lowered your appeal. It makes look weak and needy. Staying firm shows that you are a man of conviction.

Wait, I read it wrong. I'm an idiot.

Edited for idiocy.

 

[Juanto]

Wtf the contradictions here lmao. He is a man of conviction though, he wouldn't break his religious beliefs for her, and basically showed her that there is something he values more than her. That shows STRENGTH and outcome independence if anything.

But he did shag her during that period...

 

[Serenity]

Gott

a tell..

Gotta tell u that in that month she wanted me like crazy and we broke the rule more than once !! she craved me in that period when she knew that i am holding sex !!

So why even bother with whatever religious stuff you were doing? What do you think might have ruined this?

I can only tell you what I think, but it might not be right. I think your mind is a bit odd, like people get a feeling something's off about you. I do everytime someone mentions religion, there's always something off about it.