Ok fellas,
Usually she's good and non-chalant and chilled, but lately she's been kinda clingy and just wierd. Hard to explain and I don't want to go into alot of details, but this weekend we hung out and she kinda got upset because I went out by myself to a bar to just chill...
Anyway she comes over tonight to watch 'heros' (that show is hot btw) and well I just generally feel annoyed and I tell her, because we are honest about our feelings. ANyways I tell her how I feel she's no longer a challenge for me and she's not doing her part to keep things exciting and fresh, she kind of takes offense in her own way and apologizes (which makes me more annoyed)
Anyway she's sad now and then she just calls me and she KNOWS I have a life-changing interview tommorow which I have to work on and AFTER I tell her just text me to let me know u got home safe... Anyway she calls and we small-talk for about 2 minutes and then i'm like...
"Well i'll talk to u later this week (aka give me some space)"
And she asks to talk for 5 more minutes where she goes on some long rant about how much she loves me and her past relationships and blahh blahh blahh my gawddd, i've never been so annoyed in the 9 months we've been together. I'm dead silent and tell her I don't understand what she's rambling about, she continues... keeps talking until finally i say I gotta 'prepare for tommorow' and hang up the phone...
She ends by apologizing for calling and sounding sad... ughhhh....
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She's Japanese btw so it is a cultural thing here (she just moved here 6 years ago) but wat is going on with her ?? I know I've alwways needed my space and i'm open about that, don't wanna cheat but wanna go out and have some beers with the boys or by my damn self, why is she acting so wierd now ???
-Cod3r
Usually she's good and non-chalant and chilled, but lately she's been kinda clingy and just wierd. Hard to explain and I don't want to go into alot of details, but this weekend we hung out and she kinda got upset because I went out by myself to a bar to just chill...
Anyway she comes over tonight to watch 'heros' (that show is hot btw) and well I just generally feel annoyed and I tell her, because we are honest about our feelings. ANyways I tell her how I feel she's no longer a challenge for me and she's not doing her part to keep things exciting and fresh, she kind of takes offense in her own way and apologizes (which makes me more annoyed)
Anyway she's sad now and then she just calls me and she KNOWS I have a life-changing interview tommorow which I have to work on and AFTER I tell her just text me to let me know u got home safe... Anyway she calls and we small-talk for about 2 minutes and then i'm like...
"Well i'll talk to u later this week (aka give me some space)"
And she asks to talk for 5 more minutes where she goes on some long rant about how much she loves me and her past relationships and blahh blahh blahh my gawddd, i've never been so annoyed in the 9 months we've been together. I'm dead silent and tell her I don't understand what she's rambling about, she continues... keeps talking until finally i say I gotta 'prepare for tommorow' and hang up the phone...
She ends by apologizing for calling and sounding sad... ughhhh....
--
She's Japanese btw so it is a cultural thing here (she just moved here 6 years ago) but wat is going on with her ?? I know I've alwways needed my space and i'm open about that, don't wanna cheat but wanna go out and have some beers with the boys or by my damn self, why is she acting so wierd now ???
-Cod3r