My girlfriend as of now has hooked up with four other people (3 make outs, one drunken fvck that she regrets) in the first two months of college before we got together as opposed to my two other people. Two of the makeouts were when she was drunk from these real creeper guys in this one frat thats notorious for creeping on girls and one of the makeouts was with my roommate (however, this was before we even met). I know its in the past, but whenever I think about it I just can't help but get this nasty feeling in my stomach.
Its almost as if I feel insecure that some other guys have been with my girl, and even though we've fvcked over like 50 times in the past month and a half and all these guys have gotten is a makeout from her, I still feel insecure about it. When I think about it from the other guys' perspective I feel like they're thinking "Oh she was just another notch in my belt," or "Oh she's just another hookup" and it infuriates me. I'm worried people may view her as a slut or something, because she keeps going back to that one frat to party but its because she doesn't know any other parties that go on and she has friends there, she says, and she knows that it bugs me. I know she wouldn't cheat on me, but is she just looking for the attention or something? Maybe I'm asking for too much in a girl, but I just feel uncomfortable that she's hooked up with more people than I have at college before we got together.
I like spending time with her and I really feel a connection there, but when I almost feel like she was too promiscuous before she met me (two of the makeouts with the creeper frat were while we were talking/dating, but before anything serious happened) sometimes, but other times I just feel like my ego is out of control.
I just need some other viewpoints on this, because I feel like I'm being unfair to her in a way but I just feel crappy every time I think about it. How do you guys feel about other guys your girl has hooked up with? How do you deal with it? Because I feel like I may be blowing this out of porportion.
Its almost as if I feel insecure that some other guys have been with my girl, and even though we've fvcked over like 50 times in the past month and a half and all these guys have gotten is a makeout from her, I still feel insecure about it. When I think about it from the other guys' perspective I feel like they're thinking "Oh she was just another notch in my belt," or "Oh she's just another hookup" and it infuriates me. I'm worried people may view her as a slut or something, because she keeps going back to that one frat to party but its because she doesn't know any other parties that go on and she has friends there, she says, and she knows that it bugs me. I know she wouldn't cheat on me, but is she just looking for the attention or something? Maybe I'm asking for too much in a girl, but I just feel uncomfortable that she's hooked up with more people than I have at college before we got together.
I like spending time with her and I really feel a connection there, but when I almost feel like she was too promiscuous before she met me (two of the makeouts with the creeper frat were while we were talking/dating, but before anything serious happened) sometimes, but other times I just feel like my ego is out of control.
I just need some other viewpoints on this, because I feel like I'm being unfair to her in a way but I just feel crappy every time I think about it. How do you guys feel about other guys your girl has hooked up with? How do you deal with it? Because I feel like I may be blowing this out of porportion.