Girlfriend and eye contact with other guys...

[Player_Supreme]

1. she is a fine girl...so she needs constant validation of her looks by throwing her eye at every fool who walks by....she is looking to validate their interest so she will feel good about herself. Around here she is called an attention w*hore.

2. she is also being dis-respectful to your pimpin. Unless she is willing to go out and fawk these heads and bring back that money for you then she needs to keep her eyes down where they belong.

3. I guess since you think she is so fine then you've already lost her respect...you need to treat her like a New York Itailian would..."what the fawk are you lookin at??huh"" who the fawk are you lookin at...did you look at the moley??? I'll bweak ya face"

 

[becker]

Originally posted by jbbrain
becker,

to me, i never cared about what could come of it.

I knew my ex gf (gf at the time) and the dude she "checked out" would probbaly never see eachother again. But that didnt make what she was doing right. Again, it's really not about anything other than disrespect.

Imagine you're with your gf, sitting down at a cafe near the front door and the whole time youre trying to talk to her, shes not even looking at you in the eye, nor really paying you attention and instead is CHECKING OUT every person thats coming into the cafe, especially really good looking guys.

Now, I agree, thats nothign to get jealous over. NOTHING IS WORTH GETTING JEALOUS OVER. But that doesnt mean that what she did was NOTHING, or alright, or permissable or whatver you want to call it.

The fact still remains that she's disrespecting your ass right in front of your eyes. Do you really want to be with a person who doesn't respect you, is out flirting with other guys, and is downright playing stupid jealousy games with you??

Thats why i suggested he make sure OBJECTIVELY that what she was doign was disrespectful. Sometimes we get confused when we get jealous. Its true, she could have been simply "looking" like any other human being would.

OR, from my take on things, she could have been downright challenging you out of pure disrespect to see how much bullshyt you're willing to take.

I'm with the author, cesare and the others on this one.

I agree with you about the stupid jealousy games, but then again, there may not even be an attempt to play any games. A lot of guys here would look at a pretty girl walking by and yet still be with their woman. The key is how far she's taking it. If it's a blatant attempt to make you jealous, then that's disrespectful in my eyes. However, if she's just looking at an attractive guy, I'm not sure if you can blame her, and then it comes down to the guy's own insecurities. You should know your own woman well enough to know what she's trying to do, if anything.

 

[penkitten]

speaking for myself, i can look anyone in the eye and flirt for no reason.
however when i can not look a man in the eye, and must look away to my feet is when there is some attraction.
if i looked them in the eye too much , i'd be naked haha

 

[duke007]

Chicks with BFs look at me all the time when I walk around in public places. It sh1ts me as well as the boyfriend, but I do it because it's good DJ practice.

I think it's a combination of attention wh0reishness and her thinking the random guy is ballsy to flirt in the company of the BF.

 

[BGD]

Get a stun gun and everytime she makes eye contact give her a little jolt or get her a burka. This will learn her and good.

If you can't keep her attention whose fault is that. Find sombody that you click better with.

 

[Tkman]

She is defintley disrespecting you, if you were a pimp then she wouldnt make eye contacts with others, while walking. At the same time you are making a big deal out of it ... start looking, flirating, chatting with other chicks too.

 

[The Forefather]

I'm goin tell ya' this.....
If a guy looked at my girl and what-not.....it's more a compliment than anything, because most likely I wouldn't care to think anything else.
You, on the other hand care and you asked her 'bout it.
She should be considerate and listen to what you're tryin to tell her and try to skip atleast a few direct eye contacts....(what do you think?)

If all else fails, do the same thing bacc to her.

 

[jbbrain]

bump, old thread..interesting discussion..

 

[Tails]

my ex gf never did that. that reminds me, i was in mcdonalds once with my ex gf and these three girls were walking by outside (we were sitting near the window) and one of the girls smiled at me and waved, right infront of my gf. lol. the look on her face scared me. she looked really evil. she didn't stop looking at the girls until they were out of sight.

however, when i was with her. sure, i'd notice the hot girls we walked past. i wouldn't stare at them, even though i wanted to. i was respecting my gf. and she was probably doing the same. we only had eyes for each other. and i made her interested in only me. she didn't need to look at anyone else. i was all she wanted. all she needed.

about your girl? i would tell her this the next time she looked at a guy. i'd play it smooth.

me: you seem to be checking out the good looking guys huh?
her: i am? no i'm not!
me: no no, it's okay. you can do alot more than just stare if you like. don't let me stop you.

she will probably start wondering why you'd ever say that and think you don't care. then she'd want your attention.

if something like that wouldn't work and she continues to stare at other guys. then i think she is just an attention wh0re. and she loves attention from every guy. some girls are just that way. if that's her, then say your goodbyes and let her be the wh0re she is. you don't need it

 

[jbbrain]

bump

 

[gentleman193]

well I am one of the guys throwing the EC at your woman. and once in awhile even getting her # in front of your face on some pretense we both know is BS. and you are looking like a puzzy to let it happen, imo. but if you try to interfere you look even worse. you gotta act like a man in the first place so it doesn't happen. she is looking b/c she's simply not interested in what she's got

 

[CLOONEY]

Originally posted by Player_Supreme
1. she is a fine girl...so she needs constant validation of her looks by throwing her eye at every fool who walks by....she is looking to validate their interest so she will feel good about herself. Around here she is called an attention w*hore.

2. she is also being dis-respectful to your pimpin. Unless she is willing to go out and fawk these heads and bring back that money for you then she needs to keep her eyes down where they belong.

I definately agree. She is simply trying to build her confidence. She is an attention wh*re!! Deal with it, or get rid of her. I personally find these kind of girls more trouble than good!!!