Girl @ work, need help. Tricky situation.

[cdoubled05]

Ok so I haven't gotten laid since my last girlfriend and she was the only girl I've ever slept with...so needless to say my skills are not that great. I'm 21 and have been really making a concious effort lately to display a dominant male aura at work and just all the time in general. ANyways, a hb 6.5 at work was flirting with me for a days and I this made it real easy for me to approach her. Normally that would be not so easy for me. So one day at work I see her walk past and I PSSSST and grab her attention. Talked to her the whole 30 mins on lunch and # closed. I've been rapping with this chick whos 25 years old and on house arrest for a good two weeks now. She is definitely interested in me but cant leave her house. Now for the real problem...she has an ex man living with her that is a complete loser with no where to go and she feels bad about kicking the man to the curb without a place to sleep. She says they dont **** and she cant stand the guy and they both know it will not work out. I keep asking when are we going to chill outside of work and she's hesistant bcuz of the ex. She keeps stressing how she cant wait to get her own place with her gf and how she will be able to meet new people and yadda yadda. She also gets off house arrest in about 4 1/2 weeks.

My question is how do I keep her interested for that long?? I recently started adding kino to my daily encounters and shes very open to my touch. What else should I be doing to keep this moving in the right direction? She walked past my row at work today and blew a kiss at me...it seems like I'd have to be a complete a**hole to mess this one up.

Also since I've not had much play in the last like year almost and this is the only girl I feel like I actually have a chance of laying anytime soon I know that I should be gaming on other women right now and not purely focusing on this one. Problem is I still have a hard time approacing and what not...but talking to this other girl is definitely giving me a great confidence boost and is helping my social proof at work I would imagine. I mean I sit around with her and her gf @ lunch and on breaks and everyone assumes I'm some sorta playa now! lol I'm having fun and I think thats the most important part of this whole thing. But still, you guys feed me some great ideas and I'd be glad to give em a try. Thanks!

 

[cdoubled05]

Bump, someone give me something plz~!

 

[Omni]

it seems like I'd have to be a complete a**hole to mess this one up.

Correct... so don't worry about it.

If you want to have more women hanging around with you at work, put a big glass bowl on your desk and fill it with M&M's; every woman in the office will start stopping by, and they'll all feel obligated to initiate conversation with you since they're taking your candy.

And remember; the girl isn't the prize, YOU are.

 

[cdoubled05]

Lol thanks for the tips Omni, I like the whole m&m's at the desk idea...I'll try that out and see what happens!