I haven't posted in a while since my life has really started coming togeter recently, but I've come across a unique situation that calls for some don juan discussion.
First off, the girl in question isn't unattractive, but I'm not really attracted to her since we've been neighbors forever. Her dad helped me get a new position where he works as probably the most important man in the building. He could get me fired any time. This is also a career position paying me 75k per year. I take it incredibly seriously!
So girl in question contacts me wanting to go dancing with me and some friends of hers and I agree just thinking its dancing whatever good practice with women and whatnot. All goes well, I'm entertaining the girls and I want her friend most of all, but I don't do anything because I'm essentially with my bosses daughter. I find the other girl incredibly attractive and she's going somewhere, nice person, we are getting along great and it's flirty. She meets most of my qualifications in a woman I would date. So the dancing ends and we say bye and that we should do it again sometime. I don't get friends # cuz of my bosses daughter.
Now we are going to go again tomorrow and my bosses daughter is obviously into me and I am just casually responding to texts in a not flirty but friendly way cuz that's more how I want this to be. But she will not stop, and I really don't want to piss her off cuz of the whole boss thing.
My plan is really to just go with the flow and friendzone her. Trying to get the friend looks really risky and stupid for me to do frankly since my bosses daughter would probably get pissed off, and then who knows what could happen. My career is far too important to risk in this way.
This board has generally offered great opinions in the past for me so I thought I'd see what you guys can bring to the table in a situation like this. Is my current plan a good one, or do you see any scenario where I could get the friend and keep my bosses daughter happy? I realize that maybe I am sending the wrong message to these girls. If that is the case help me get my ass in line haha.
First off, the girl in question isn't unattractive, but I'm not really attracted to her since we've been neighbors forever. Her dad helped me get a new position where he works as probably the most important man in the building. He could get me fired any time. This is also a career position paying me 75k per year. I take it incredibly seriously!
So girl in question contacts me wanting to go dancing with me and some friends of hers and I agree just thinking its dancing whatever good practice with women and whatnot. All goes well, I'm entertaining the girls and I want her friend most of all, but I don't do anything because I'm essentially with my bosses daughter. I find the other girl incredibly attractive and she's going somewhere, nice person, we are getting along great and it's flirty. She meets most of my qualifications in a woman I would date. So the dancing ends and we say bye and that we should do it again sometime. I don't get friends # cuz of my bosses daughter.
Now we are going to go again tomorrow and my bosses daughter is obviously into me and I am just casually responding to texts in a not flirty but friendly way cuz that's more how I want this to be. But she will not stop, and I really don't want to piss her off cuz of the whole boss thing.
My plan is really to just go with the flow and friendzone her. Trying to get the friend looks really risky and stupid for me to do frankly since my bosses daughter would probably get pissed off, and then who knows what could happen. My career is far too important to risk in this way.
This board has generally offered great opinions in the past for me so I thought I'd see what you guys can bring to the table in a situation like this. Is my current plan a good one, or do you see any scenario where I could get the friend and keep my bosses daughter happy? I realize that maybe I am sending the wrong message to these girls. If that is the case help me get my ass in line haha.
