I just got this message, in two parts, from a girl that I've seen a couple of times and had great chemistry with. I was suppossed to go on a trip with her tomorrow:So got a call from the girl. She left a two part message saying that she was sorry that she was going to have to do this, but it seems like an x boyfriend is back around giving her some ****, I guess about me popping up. She has mentioned him before in a conversation that I quikcly changed, where she said "she had a guy that couldn't understand that friends is all they are." She then went on to say, in a very sad voice, that she wouldn't feel comfortable hanging out with me after her conversation with him. She also said that she needs to work some things out before she can pursue anything else. All in all it sounded geniunely like she wanted to go with me, but probally got threats from this guy. I'll try her again in a few weeks just to see whats up. It really sounded sad to me, like she was beat down. I'm not going to touch the fire until then.