girl with no eye contact

[Okra]

I just slept with a hot black chick last weekend (the same night I met her). We were hanging out again this weekend and she gave me very little eye contact and looked away (and in all kinds of directions) when I looked at her. She seemed like she was having a good time, but I'm just wondering what this behavior means.

please help
thanks in advance
-Okra

 

[Centaurion]

Are you black or white? Some chicks might be kinda restrained when it comes to interracial relationships.

But anyways, don't read too much into it. It's probably just nothing.

 

[john_x]

Originally posted by Okra
I just slept with a hot black chick last weekend (the same night I met her). We were hanging out again this weekend and she gave me very little eye contact and looked away (and in all kinds of directions) when I looked at her. She seemed like she was having a good time, but I'm just wondering what this behavior means.

please help
thanks in advance
-Okra

Under what condition's did you met her the first time,was she pissed?

 

[Okra]

I'm white/but she usually dates white guys only/she wasn't pissed when I met her/she seems like she's in a good mood/she's kinda gothic so she doesn't smile a whole lot//she acted like this last weekend when I was sleeping with her and she made more plans with me/

 

[Okra]

I met her at a party and she was having a good time/it's kinda hard to tell when she's having a good time b/c she isn't really smile-y/but I'm wondering if the eye contact thing is shyness or submissiveness or lack of trust/or a conspiracy

 

[Okra]

and I was even sick on the date this weekend. I had a sore throat and a stuffy nose but she wanted to hang out and kiss me anyway. She also gave me some sympathy for being sick. I probably shouldn't have gone on the date when I was sick but I did anyway and I think if I was grading myself (on dating magic) I probably had a "B" date. At the end of the date I said "I had fun even though I was sick" (not really mysterious, but I wanted to gauge her response) and she replied "I had fun too" and then I said "We'll do something next weekend if both of us are well, ha ha" (not really mysterious either, but dudes, I was feeling bad sick at this point) then she said "okay" and I left.

 

[DonJuanMonk]

Would you stop using /slashes/ for your posts?

Okra, she may be looking away/not giving you eye contact because it could be her way of not being interested in you.

You mentioned that she slept with you on the first night you met her. She could either be feeling shameful about the experience or that she just wanted this to be a one time deal. Anyways, the best thing I can recommend for this situation is to let her know you're gonna break things up, leave her, and don't talk to her.

 

[Okra]

Originally posted by DonJuanMonk
Would you stop using /slashes/ for your posts?

Okra, she may be looking away/not giving you eye contact because it could be her way of not being interested in you.

You mentioned that she slept with you on the first night you met her. She could either be feeling shameful about the experience or that she just wanted this to be a one time deal. Anyways, the best thing I can recommend for this situation is to let her know you're gonna break things up, leave her, and don't talk to her.

no because she talks about other plans and hints at having sex again

 

[Okra]

bump

 

[RarelyGetAHairCut]

Props for massaging those insides