girl with boyfriend?

[ink_wizard]

Hey all,

Ive got a bit of a situation. Im head over heels for a girl with a boyfriend. Problem is she likes me too and flirts with me but wont leave her bf for me and wont "break the rules" a little with me because she wants to be faithful...

Shes coming over tomorrow night to hang out but my question is how can i get her to forget her bf and have a little fun with me since she likes me in that way also....? i want to make a move on her but i want her to receiprocate also...

Any tips???

 

[Shockwavedave]

If i were you, i would stay clear. Speaking from experience, these situations are a lot more trouble than they are inevitably worth.

Sorry, i know that isn't the advice you asked for, but I can guarantee these situations don't often work out too well in the long run.

 

[MM92]

Have you such a lack of options that you can only go for this one girl who actually has a boyfriend? Loser

 

[Cabal]

You are going to get hurt. By her if you are lucky. By him if you are not.

Why risk getting messed up emotionally by her or physically by him for a girl who WOULD CHEAT ON HER BOYFRIEND!?

 

[zekko]

Shes coming over tomorrow night to hang out but my question is how can i get her to forget her bf and have a little fun with me since she likes me in that way also....? i want to make a move on her but i want her to receiprocate also...

Seems like this gal is being disrespectful to her boyfriend, coming over to hang out with you. She's probably framing it to her boyfriend as going to see a "friend". Remember this, guys, when your girlfriend wants to go see some male friend. He's probably a dude like ink_wizard here, who is looking to make a move on her.

 

[zorg198]

I dont see the point to do that, if you have the skills to attract single women why risking yourself getting your ass kicked by he boyfriend?

 

[Mr Wright]

You like this girl, she cheats on her boyfriend, you get with her...then you'll be looking over your shoulder!

Having been with girls who have cheated on their boyfriends with me, i'd say its not worth it because the girls dont like it, if you continue anything with the girl you will always be wondering and there are many other girls out there who are single

 

[zorg198]

Healthy head to sick bed, this is how i call it !

 

[acerazor1]

I dont agree with most of the above posts here.

Assuming shes attracted to you & willing to break up with her boyfriend for you, what reason does she have to cheat on you if you keep her interest level high during the relationship? So long as she isnt your typical slut (by that I mean chicks who are sexually active most days of the week with different guys), theres no reason to believe she would cheat on you, just because she cheats on her current boyfriend! NEVER understood why people think like this. MOST women have cheated at some point in their life, does this make them undateable? Of course not! It soley depends on her attraction level to you/any other boyfriend! BTW, Ive been in this situation many times & they have ALL worked out well for me. Just make a move on this chick and see where you stand, if she doesn't reciprocate, her interest level is not where you believe it is. All about interest levels.

 

[nismo-4]

OP, I'm ruling you guilty of failure to spin plates, unauthorized use of a pedestal, catching feelings, feeding an attention wh0re, and placing all your eggs in one basket. Your fine for this is gonna be some hurt feelings (possibly a skull), going through a lot of unnecessary stress, 2 blue balls, and a trip to Unwanted Wood, Alabama. You will then be transported to Nopoonani, Tennessee.

Judge nismo is very appalled. You KNOW DAMN WELL that your princess is in another castle. If I were the boyfriend here, you wouldn't try it. :trouble:

Moving on to another single girl who just might be interested in you is the best thing that is for you.

Case closed.

 

[MrNiceGuy23]

I never understood the whole "don't go for a girl with a boyfriend" logic. If she is completely content and happy in her relationship and with her boyfriend, then you'd know from the get go that she isn't interested in hooking up with any other men or finding someone else. It takes two to tango here, if not then it's just rape. Most relationships end at some point because someone in the relationship wants something else. Relationships(and life in general) is a game of trading up. If you want something better, you go get it, if you can't get it, you try harder to get it.

Just make the move and see where she stands. Like somebody already pointed out, just because she cheats on her current doesn't mean she'd cheat on you. She'd be cheating on him for a reason (he doesn't satisfy some want or need of hers) so unless she's a total slut, she's cheating because she wants to find something else without leaving the security her current relationship provides.

 

[Spinning Spinning]

If she's coming over to hang out sounds like she's up for a bit of nooky to me. Doesn't it?