NaturallySelected
Don Juan
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Hi guys
Firstly, I know that if I persue a girl with a BF, and she leaves her BF for me. She could leave me for someone else. I also know that if she cheats on him with me, there are some moral issues involved. But the thing is I don't FORCE her to do anything, she chose to cheat on him with me. I know if my GF did the things she did with me I would break up with her. I would be pi$$ed off at HER not the guy who she cheated with. She's been in a two year relationship with this guy. But because he lives far away, she only sees him every second weekend.
So I met this girl last year July. For July, August and September we made out a lot, nothing more. She kept telling me she was going to break up with him, but then she'd get back together with him. She liked to play games. I took her to a 21st, she was all over me that night. The next day she says she regrets the whole night, then a day later she's all over me again. This played games with my head and my emotions, so I nexted her. (End of September last year).
She calls me up around easter this year, and asks to go for coffee, we go and end up talking. She tells me her relationship with her BF has been over for a month. Next time we go out with two of her friends and she gets busted. I find out she's still with the guy, you should have seen her try get out of that one. Of course I act like it doesn't phase me. Anyway, since April I have been acting like I'm just a friend. She tried to hook me up with herr friend, I went on one date with her friend and she got jealous and started telling me how her friend isn't right for me.
Basically I've drilled into her head that I am only her friend. It's always the same pattern as last year, when she see's me she tells me she has broken up with him. Then she goes to his place and spends the weekend there (or even a few days), comes back and tells me they're back together. The reason she does this is because last year I told her "I refuse to do anything with you while you have a BF." when she asked me why I was so "timid" and wouldn't "make a move on her."
So we finally end up getting physical on Monday night, I rub her pvssy, she jerks me off (she was quite crap thoug
). I am still a virgin, she knows this and says "I can't believe you're still a virgin." Tells me I could satisfy her more than her BF can. Says she thinks she's falling for me (but admits there are still feelings for her BF). Well then, where the %$*( has she been since Wednesday? At her BF's place, I assume. She tells some lie about how she will stay at her friends place, but I don't believe her.
When I hear from her again she will either:
a) Say "I've gotten back together with my BF, LJBF". In this case I will act unphased because she ALWAYS does this. or
b) "I was with [friend's name here] the whole weekend." Which is a lie. But I will continue where I left off.
If she tells me LJBF, I will say I think it's the best. I didn't really enjoy Monday night, and don't think we're compatible. I will tell her I probablly won't see her as often because I want to start dating again. I will do what I say. Cut phone calls done, make them short. Won't see her as often etc. She seems to enjoy a challenge, I told her before I wouldn't have sex with her because I am a virgin, and she would "intimidate me". You should have seen how much that bugged her and how she tried to prove otherwise.
Why am I chasing her? I spent a lot of time on this woman, I am a virgin, and I need some sexual experience (even if not actual sex). I also genuinely like her, I know I shouldn't considering what she does behind her BF's back, but I can't help myself. I am 99% sure this is a mistake, but everyone can tell me it is and I won't stop. I will learn for myself.
Comments, suggestions?
Thanks
NaturallySelected
Firstly, I know that if I persue a girl with a BF, and she leaves her BF for me. She could leave me for someone else. I also know that if she cheats on him with me, there are some moral issues involved. But the thing is I don't FORCE her to do anything, she chose to cheat on him with me. I know if my GF did the things she did with me I would break up with her. I would be pi$$ed off at HER not the guy who she cheated with. She's been in a two year relationship with this guy. But because he lives far away, she only sees him every second weekend.
So I met this girl last year July. For July, August and September we made out a lot, nothing more. She kept telling me she was going to break up with him, but then she'd get back together with him. She liked to play games. I took her to a 21st, she was all over me that night. The next day she says she regrets the whole night, then a day later she's all over me again. This played games with my head and my emotions, so I nexted her. (End of September last year).
She calls me up around easter this year, and asks to go for coffee, we go and end up talking. She tells me her relationship with her BF has been over for a month. Next time we go out with two of her friends and she gets busted. I find out she's still with the guy, you should have seen her try get out of that one. Of course I act like it doesn't phase me. Anyway, since April I have been acting like I'm just a friend. She tried to hook me up with herr friend, I went on one date with her friend and she got jealous and started telling me how her friend isn't right for me.
Basically I've drilled into her head that I am only her friend. It's always the same pattern as last year, when she see's me she tells me she has broken up with him. Then she goes to his place and spends the weekend there (or even a few days), comes back and tells me they're back together. The reason she does this is because last year I told her "I refuse to do anything with you while you have a BF." when she asked me why I was so "timid" and wouldn't "make a move on her."
So we finally end up getting physical on Monday night, I rub her pvssy, she jerks me off (she was quite crap thoug
). I am still a virgin, she knows this and says "I can't believe you're still a virgin." Tells me I could satisfy her more than her BF can. Says she thinks she's falling for me (but admits there are still feelings for her BF). Well then, where the %$*( has she been since Wednesday? At her BF's place, I assume. She tells some lie about how she will stay at her friends place, but I don't believe her. When I hear from her again she will either:
a) Say "I've gotten back together with my BF, LJBF". In this case I will act unphased because she ALWAYS does this. or
b) "I was with [friend's name here] the whole weekend." Which is a lie. But I will continue where I left off.
If she tells me LJBF, I will say I think it's the best. I didn't really enjoy Monday night, and don't think we're compatible. I will tell her I probablly won't see her as often because I want to start dating again. I will do what I say. Cut phone calls done, make them short. Won't see her as often etc. She seems to enjoy a challenge, I told her before I wouldn't have sex with her because I am a virgin, and she would "intimidate me". You should have seen how much that bugged her and how she tried to prove otherwise
.Why am I chasing her? I spent a lot of time on this woman, I am a virgin, and I need some sexual experience (even if not actual sex). I also genuinely like her, I know I shouldn't considering what she does behind her BF's back, but I can't help myself. I am 99% sure this is a mistake, but everyone can tell me it is and I won't stop. I will learn for myself.
Comments, suggestions?
Thanks
NaturallySelected
